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This is *NOT* a creepy incest question about my step dad, so please don't think that! I have a question about nude photography?
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So my mom and step dad have been together for almost 7 years. I have a great relationship with both of them. I can talk to my mom about all of the "girl" things, and I'm much closer (on a friend type level) with my step dad than my real dad, but I love them both the same. I saw my step dad naked when I was 15, and it was the first naked man I had ever seen. He didn't know I saw him at the time. Over the last few years, I have seen him naked or partially naked a few other times, all by accident. My mom has a real thing for pen*s, to the point where she will pause and rewind a movie if she sees a naked guy on the screen so she can see it again. She likes to look, but I don't think she's a perv, she just likes sex. Her and my step dad seem to be very much in love with each other. She doesn't know I've seen him naked. But once about a year ago, I accidentally walked in on him fully naked and there was nowhere for either of us to hide. So we actually stood there and talked for a couple minutes, and it was no big deal. So here's the big question. Recently he asked me if I would take pics of him for a Playgirl type calendar for my mom's birthday. Totally non-sexual. He's not asking for me to be naked, or to touch him, or anything like that. But he knows I've seen him naked before and he feels comfortable with me. I'm not sexually turned on by him at all, but he's not bad to look at, and it doesn't gross me out or anything. In fact, I prolly had a little crush on him when I was 14-15. I haven't told him yet if I will do it or not. But I won't tell my mom either way. If I decide no, then it's no. I would like to help him out and it won't bother me to do it, but at the same time I'm having a hard time with whether I should or not. Girls, would you do it if you were me? Do you need to ask me anything else before you answer? Guys just don't make it creepy about incest.
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It looks like most people are saying no and I appreciate everyone that took a minute to reply. I understand why some people would think that it's creepy, and it's impossible for me to explain here why I know its not. Thanks again to the non haters.
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I guess maybe I asked the question the wrong way. I don't have a problem with nudity, and this is totally NON-sexual. Would any girls say yes if they knew it wasn't going to be sexual at all? Just taking pics of a guy friend naked if not a relative?
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Still haven't told him yes or no. The update is that he's been working out more than ever and I feel like he wants to do this before he thinks he's too old to look good. Again, I understand why some people say he should hire a professional, but that's not what he feels comfortable doing. Thanks again to the non-haters that are not accusing me of being a troll when this is a serious question for me.
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UPDATE: I have decided to go ahead and try doing this for him in a couple of weeks. I will be cautious of what's going on, but I don't expect anything other than taking some tasteful naked pictures of him. I guess I will try to update here afterwards if that's possible (?). Thanks to everyone for their opinions - well at least the people who were nice about them - no matter what side they came down on.
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 36i think he should find a real photographer rather than his step daughter. that is really creepy. and the fact that you had a crush on him before, is just wrong. there's no way in hell i would take pictures of my step dad naked. im just not comfortable with that? its really weird. your family just really seems to be into naked people and penis's so perhaps its normal for you
LOL not really and when I said "crush" it was just a little girl thing. I've never had sex yet and have no plans to anytime soon. But thank you for your opinion. I'm not trying to talk myself into it. Im just asking.
yeah i get it.. i just think its a little bit inappropriate. you're welcome
That is weird, and wrong.
I wish y'all would elaborate. And try to do it without hating.
Im not hating on you, more on your step dad.
Thanks. I'm positive he has no sexual intentions towards me. FTR it's my mom that's in love with p*nis, not me. It doesn't gross me out or anything, but I would prefer most of the take time see a guy naked from the waist up.
Beyond inappropriate, and he should know that. I don't care how close or old you guys are.
He completely wants to seduce you and is trying to be clever about it
No. There's no way. He's had all the last 7 years to do that and had never come close. It's even been almost a year since that time I walked in on him naked and he's never tried or even suggesting anything. At all.
Ould you want your mom taking nude pictures of your boyfriend without you knowingw
You're not going to get a lot of people to agree with you, especially from a bunch of strangers on the internet. i think this is a decision you need to make by yourself.
Just ask yourself these questions "Would you feel weird OR wrong doing it?" from your description im thinking no. So i think you have your answer there.
yeah you're probably right. I guess I came here to ask because I don't want to announce it to my friends that know me in real life, LOL.
I pose nude as a model, it's not that bad if it's totally platonic. I wouldn't worry about it hon. If anything it'd be a tad bit weirder if you took pics of your mom for him. :/
Thanks. He also said he would pay me if it made it feel more like a "real job" for me. In other words, more legit in my mind, but I wouldn't take his money. I will either say yes or no, and if yes, then I will help him. If no, then he will just have to either try alone or just not do it at all.
Yeah, just do it, it sounds like you want to do it and like it'd be fun, who cares what other people think? I bet if you think about it, the only thing worrying you is what other people would think about it.
You're probably right about your last sentence anyway. I am more worried about what other people would think about me voluntarily seeing him naked more than anything.
Well this is just me, but I think society's taboos against the human body are unhealthy and should be actively broken down.
But I understand if the 'stigma' around the idea is worrying - the stigma can be quite real, as people are mostly small-minded bigots. I guess it depends also on if your friends/family could cope with the idea if they found out (assuming they would find out? I dunno) .. but that you'd have to decide for yourself, you know them better. It's taken me years to get to the point of feeling comfortable to push back against the taboos and be actively pro-nudity.
Hm, and of course think what your mom might think of the idea.