Ticklish down there, what to do?

I would love to have my boyfriend go down on me, but it tickles way too much and I end up laughing. And at a time like that, it is the last thing I want to do lol. Not to sound crude but my clit is very ticklish and sensitive. Any tips on making him go down on me easier?
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  • I have the same problem, which is why my boyfriend and I haven't gotten there yet XP (that and I get realt vocal when he tickles me lol!)

    Bes choice is to talk to him about it. Just tell him straight up you're super ticklish- keep in mind he'll probably tease you a little next time he gets down there- but that's not necessarily a bad thing ;P



    When the moment arises, just ask him to go slow, and keep his touch firm. When it's light it's more of a tickling sensation, but if he presses harder it'll be easier to keep controll on squirming around ^^

  • I do not mean to sound crude either, but let it out, girl! I know what you are going through, because I am the same way. Make noises.. pull his hair (if he doesn't mind. My boyfriend doesn't.) Try to turn laughing into moaning, because honestly, for me.. being ticklish down there is what makes it so enjoyable.

  • Tell him to try using more pressure because when my boyfriend is light on my clit it tickles me too. I don't know that's just me it might not work for you though.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have him start by flat handing (3 flat fingers) in wide circles at your entire upper Vag/clit region. Use plenty of lotion. Lotion will reduce sensitivity to touch but not pressure. He can then compensate with speed and pressure, which will be very effective but not ticklish/irritating. Have him bring you off that way.

  • Personally I love ticklish girls. Maybe you should take a bit more time kissing, petting ect. before having him go down. Or if he's not doing it right, tell him to lay his tongue flat against you and stay still. Then you can dictate the pressure with your hips.

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  • Just tell him the truth if that happens, and whenever you're kissing or making out or really any time you fell like it, guide his hand to that spot to try and encourage him.

  • your best bet is just keep doing it and eventually you'll get used to it. also maybe ask him to kiss around your clit instead of directly on it if its from that

  • get DRUNKKKKK!

    alcohol desensitizes you. plus, it is just more fun!