Trouble finding and inserting penis into vigina

Question

Me and my girlfriend have just started experimenting with sexual intercourse. We have only tried twice so far. The first time, I had the most difficult time finding and inserting my penis into her vagina. I know where it is and she's very wet but I just can't seem to find it and insert my penis. Its very frustrating because it takes such a long time to get it in. I finaly got it in the first time we had sex and it went in fully and went on from there but I took such a long time to find the opening and insert it. When we tried again tonite for the second time, it happened again. I just could not find the opening to insert. Obviously I can get it all the way in like I said from the first time but the second time was so frustrating. I actually came before I even got it in because it took so long trying to find the opening and insert. Its so embarrasing and frustating. Please help me out! All I want to do is get her all wet and relaxed and insert my penis within seconds and go on from there!

firezex · Accepted Answer

I think everyone was the same first time. You will get used to it.

Like the other guys said, either get the girl to do it for you (I get her to do it sometimes and I'm very experienced) or use your fingers to find the entrance. It will be at the bottom of the vagina.

You'll be rubbing her at the same time, so it's stimulating her just as much and won't be so much hassle.

Don't get frustrated over it. It will just turn both of you off.

JohnDugan · Accepted Answer

Sometimes it just takes a little practice on both =your parts; also, make sure there’s sufficient foreplay and warming up, and don’t feel you have to rush into things. On another note, keep your tool in good health; regular use of a first class penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps maintain general penis health. Good luck!

Simple-Simonette · Accepted Answer

You should let her guide you in. She knows where the spot is and can easily guide it herself. She just has to insert the tip and you can take it from there. Also, you can do in a different position, like from behind or with her on top. Don't know if you're willing to be that adventurous so soon, but it's worth a shot.

Happy hunting!

Dirtynoiseplay234 · Accepted Answer

Dude don't mean to be creepy but let her guide  I would feel lucky if you wanted to fuck me let alone you trying to erect me the right way. Fuck

sexygirl8989 · Accepted Answer

Use your finger to guide it in and at first go in slowly.   My first time the guy just shoved it in and it hurt alot.

gravygirl · Answer

Just let her put it in.

macker-doodle · Answer

Use your fingers to mark the spot. then insert :)

katiesmuff · Answer

Also you might want to learn how to spell it! LOL

wannabe · Answer

look, its always gonna be hard finding it in yourself unless uve loosen her up with abt 3 fingers for a while the easiest way is to let her hold it and lead ur way, seriously!

Killy · Answer

Tell her to shave next time, jesus.

AlexB · Answer

Had that problem before. I thought it was me but the reason was that she was too tight. My penis could not fit in. I relaxed her muscles with my fingers (3 should be fine) and it was easy after that. If you still have that problem best position to use is, her laying on her back on the bed or the table and you standing up. Open her legs widely and you can see everything! :)

Anonymous · Answer

People should know that the guy should put his hard penis into the wet vagina it's the guys jo to put it in and not the girls the girls must lay down on the bed and wait for the penis to get in.