What age do people usually lose their virginity?

[Anonymous]

I kind of feel like I'm the only one who wants to wait till they are married... Is that normal or am I weird?

[Bubblesi]

You are a girls so it's different to you. Unless there are some psychical problems or she is especially unattractive girl is always virgin by choice (unlike guys) since she could put on soemthing skimpy, go to the nearest bar and have her pick of guys withing few minutes. Unlike guys, girls rarely have to put in any effort to get sex. So for you it is only matter of choice. So basically it's not that weird. That being said. I see no reason why to artficially put off one of the greatest experiences life has to offer. If you jsut dont feel like it than that's perfectly OK, but if yo uactually want to and only hold yourself back - I don't understand that.

[Asker]

Yeah, if I find a good guy, maybe before marriage :)

[famousme]

Nope.. not only you. A lot of girls want to wait until they get married. As a man, i salute you for saving it for your loving future husband.
Be strong. Dont ever think of changing your decision, dear.

[Anonymous]

everyones different, but a lot of people lose it in high school when they're 14-16. i personally waited until i was 17, almost 18 years old. i felt like i was the last person in high school to lose it. but i was completely comfortable and it was with my bf of almost 3 years now. so im glad i waited.

[Asker]

yeah, I don't want to have sex with a guy that I only date for less than a year or something. When I do lose my virginity, I want it to be with a guy that I really love. :)

[Opinion Owner]

thats great! im glad you have a good head on your shoulders. in my opinion sex is an important part of a relationship, and it's great when you have that connection with somebody that you truly care for. i could never bring myself to just have sex with someone i don't know very well.

[Prettygurl12]

I'm waiting for marriage too! Don't feel bad. But yeah, people like us raise a few eyebrows nowadays.

[Asker]

i know right!! :)

[rachelbrrtt]

im there with you on waiting for marriage. I feel like im one of very few these days

[Asker]

yess omg :D

[rachelbrrtt]

and it makes me a little discomforted inside knowing my future husband probably didn't wait. but to me that's why I want to wait. I don't want to have to tell him that he wasn't my first

[Asker]

Exactly :) I want my first time to be with someone I truly love

[Tractorbeam]

In most western countries, the average age is 17 to 18.

[Asker]

That's actually not too bad. 18 is counted as an adult in most countries so I guess it's ok

[wowzer]

Later and later these days. In a few years they'll be changing 40year old virgin to 50year old.

[Asker]

lol yeah :P

[summiter]

You only can give it up once. So make sure it is with the right guy at the right time in the right place.

[Jahnnavi]

No you ain't weird. I'm the same as you.

[KafJ1996]

im 18 and I've been waiting for the right guy to take mine but i won't wait till im married just until ik he's the right one for me

[PhiOmega]

Not as common these days

[Asker]

yeah

[PhiOmega]

Ur not the only one tho, so keep doing what your doing

[Asker]

thanks :)

[RebeccaSJ]

I was 25.

[Anonymous]

Not weird at all. I am 22.. still a virgin (graduating from university). I have no clue why but I guess time will tell when hopefully I will or you will meet the right person to lose it with. I don't really see a rush in having sex yet. I am just taking my time (what else can you do). When you rush its when you make mistakes.

[Anonymous]

I lost it at 22 almost 23. The reason I waited till then it was because I wanted to do it first with this woman I knew since high school and the wait was worth it, she admitted she wanted to be with me since high school too hahahahaha...

[Asker]

aw that's really sweet :) I want mine to be like that too :)