What does he want with you? Sex at least. He probably wants a relationship too, but he's not risking his marriage for it.
Would you be wrong for talking to him? No, but I don't think that would be wise, either. Given that he's unwilling to give you the relationship you want, I'm not sure it's best to keep reminding yourself of that.
Why would they stay married? It's their marriage, they have their reasons. Maybe they're good co-parents. Maybe one has a financial hold on the other. Maybe they're so scared of being single that they'll risk a bad marriage instead. Who knows? If you're that curious, ask--it'll give you a clue as to what you'd be getting into.0 1 0 0It appears simple to me - what he wants.
IT = what he has been missing from his wife = best friend, attractive female, companionship, teammate, co-parent, other things you have in common ... even sex couldn't be barred from this list. Knowing THAT was wrong, it seems it can be avoided in order to achieve the rest.0 1 0 0
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Despite how cool the relationship between this man and his wife may seem, the facts are that they still live together, and they are still married. If this guy was just lonely, he could reach out to other males for companionship. My guess is that he seeks from you the affection and attention that he lacks in his marriage. Unfortunately, this is not a good situation for you because he is committing adultery by sleeping with another woman while still married to his wife.
0 0 0 0He sees you as P*SSY, someone 2 talk to when he is bored or lonely or a distraction from his life. Marriage can be boring sometimes with many ups and downs and for right now, he's using you until he gets that high again from being with the person he truly loves... you know, the one he made his wife. If your're just looking for sex, then great! no harm, no foul! don't expect anything else though...
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2 1What does he want? sex.
0 1 0 0You are committing adultry.
0 0 1 1It's possible that he and his wife have an 'understanding', and are staying together for the kids.
Or they could be distant, and he is simply cheating.
Even still, it doesn't mean he only wants "sex". It sounds like there is an emotional attachment, too.1 1 0 0
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