What race(s) are you attracted to and what's your race?

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I'm attracted to black, hispanic, and white, and I am black, but what race do you find yourself attracted to in the opposite sex? and what's your race? and have you ever dated someone outside your race?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am a European man.  Part white of many nationalities and part romani(gypsy) so I have a tan skin color very black hair and lots of it.  I was raised essentially as a white All American guy but a lot of people perceive me as maybe latino or as an immigrant from some exotic land.  Its kinda funny or annoying depending on my mood when people ask me what are you or say you speak really good English.   I love when white people try out their awkward high school Spanish on me.  I know awkward Spanish too from both Comm College and living in places and having Mexican friends.  But back to ur question.  I would like to say I am attracted to all women and have no preference.  However I have never been that interested in white girls, especially the blonde cheerleader types or the preppy homecoming queen girls.  I have been attracted to a few black women both African American and African.  The first sort of girlfriend relationship I had as a 14 year old was with a girl from Kenya (she was a few years older than me so we never officially went out but we did make out and stuff, that was good with me lol.  But the women that really drive me crazy are almost always Latina or Native American, the Latina girls I am attracted to are the ones with native looks not so much the really Spanish ones that look white.  I don't know what it is the long hair the faces the skin tone, their cute noses.  Their accent, if they have one.  Its a stereotype and I don't really like having those but I tend to see Latina women as womanly women assertive sexy spending a lot of time on their appearance.  Even though a lot of Latina women are more conservative when it comes to dating or sex a lot of Latina women will be talking to you and just tap you on the thigh, white North Americans tend to be much less warm and affectionate, they tend to like their space, personally I am that way to, except when it comes to hot women,no problem being affectionate then lol.  I am also not really into stick figures not into obese either but I tend to think real women have curves.  I like a woman who is soft to hug, or more lol.  It makes me feel warm.  This might sound wrong but Latina women tend to seem motherly to me and as gross as it is to say out loud subconsciously we have a crush on our opposite sex parent first that we then replace with someone outside the family.  I have noticed a lot of Latina women totally dote on their men and older sisters take care of little brothers.  There is a lot of sexism in that but lets face it who doesn't enjoy that.  Latina women tend to be more into old fashioned romance and appreciate romantic gestures.  Much of what I say is stereotype that is sometimes but not always true.  I can see myself dating a lot of women but in my dreams I always see myself as together with a muy hermosa Mexican mujer.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am attracted to just about any race. a pretty women is a pretty women regardless of race. all flavors of sugar are just as sweet. were I live it seems like the majority of guys prefer to date white girls but to be honest there is not many black girls or other ethnic background girls to like. I would definitely date a black girl, I find them very hot whether they be light black or dark or any other race, but just like any, I'm not gonna go out with one of them just because I find them attractive, id prefer to be there friend first so I know there is a connection before id want to ask them out.

Good Luck, God Bless.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am Asian. I am attracted to my boyfriend and Taiwanese men. I guess I like Taiwanese men because I was brought up that way. I like their accent and the way they look... I just melt for them. Unfortunately, from my personal experience, Taiwanese men are more likely to be mama's boy who doesn't know how to take care of themselves and others. I am very disappointed by all the Taiwanese men that I've met.

My boyfriend is Caucasian (American - part Irish, Native American, and German). He has dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, and red skin. He has those inward Caucasian eyes... if you put your hand across his cheek bones and his eye-brows, there are those deep holes where his eyes are. Very different face structure from me. My parents are cool with him, but people in general made such a big deal about him being "non-asian." In the beginning of our relationship I had it really rough, because random Asian guys and girls would point finger at me and question my character. I cried so many times about this. They think I am a bad girl, a bad person, just because my boyfriend isn't Asian. It is really sad, because my boyfriend totally respects me, loves me so much, and take really good care of me all these years. It is not his fault that he isn't Asian. I think its really sad and unfair that people look down on interracial relationships with no basis what so ever.

confusedgirl22 · Accepted Answer

I'm most attracted to white guys simply because that's what I see 90% of the time where I live. I do like hispanic guys theyre very hot! Eastern European guys esp some Polish guys and Scandinavian men can be very hot too. I know lots of guys like Polish girls too incl my male friends-Polish people are usually just hot full stop lol!

I also really like mixed race guys- I think they get the best blend of genes. Like Obama could be my dad but I think he is mega hot. The only type I'm not mad about would be asian guys; I'm just not physically attracted to them. I do see why guys like asian women though. Indian guys have lovely smiles and are usually super friendly so I would giv them a chance too even if they are bit small lol! so as you can see I'm not fussy!

RobotsWillEatUs · Accepted Answer

I'm a hispanic/white mix. I'm attracted to white guys, Asian guys, Middle Eastern, South American Hispanics (don't ask me why it's only South Americans because I don't know; All I know is every hispanic guy I have ever been attracted to has been South American as opposed to Caribbean). Hm, does Jewish count as a race? I don't think so but I am definitely mostly attracted to Jewish men. Funny enough, Jewish men is the group probably most attracted to me.

I once was in a relationship with a Chinese guy. I have messed around and dated other people outside of my races but that was my only serious experience.

overthetop67 · Answer

"Update: So, I see everyone saying they like Asian women. What about them?"

They're just so... hot. The eyes (Oh the EYES) and the hair and the... yeah...

Ahem. I would have to say I like the combination of the general facial features, structure and characteristics and the way their eyes look.

*Must... resist... making... miso horny... joke... gah...

overthetop67 · Answer

I have to say I like the Asians the mos,t followed by black girls (love the color)Then Hispanics/Latinos, East Indians, and the rest. I'm white, but I love color.

ashleynatasha · Answer

Well I am white and I am 21 I only date men that are Mexican!Iv  never dated I whit man I dated black and other types of Hispanic men but I seem to always go for bald tattooed Mexicans

Siendo · Answer

I am white, & I have NEVER dated anyone within my race ^^

I can't . Just not attracted to them, & I don't se the need , since I can learn more about what I'm not.

Anyways.. I like to make relationships as educational as possible,so I date the areas that I study. ^

Native American / Navajo

Latin American / Mayan

& Actors, of many varieties.. :-)

Jessica1810 · Answer

I'm a white female and I have been attracted to white, black, hispanic, asian, arab, jewish and oriental guys before! I think an attractive person is an attractive person! Period.

kodocha77 · Answer

I've always thought my barrier to dating other races was my skin shade. I like it--- like I love all skin shades. I like all races, because what does skin color have to do with anything? A person is a person---I appreciate people for who they are, not for their skin color. A skittle is a skittle right? Just a different color--that's all... (and flavor...but every person has a different backgroud...kind of like a different flavor...ya know?).

KaneJW · Answer

im an asian dude...korean...and I lived most of my life in europe...like 11 years...

and I only dated white girls before...

i like white girls (european...never dated an american before)...and I would date mixed race (black+asian, black +white, white+aisan...etc)...and I would love to date a black girl! because all the black friends I had were reaaaaaaaaaaaally fun and funny! so I would like to know a black girl in a romantic sense 2!

Marshall33 · Answer

Asians, Germans, Polish, Hungarians, Czechs, Serbs, Scandanavian. I am french caucasian. Yes I have dated outside my culture more than not and am with a German goddess now and I must admit I prefer women outside of my culture anyday. Those in my culture are way to "masculine" in their behavior for my taste.

trukita · Answer

I'm mainly Irish and Iranian, and I'm attracted to Latinos first (esp. Dominicans and others with a lot of African heritage) and black men second. I've never been with a white guy, and I'm rarely attracted to them. I've also never dated a guy who spoke English, but that's a different story lol.

LovelyLadyBlue · Answer

I'm hispanic and I'm attracted to the good looking members of any race really. I especially love english guys though, its their accent that gets me =]

the-love-guru · Answer

I like ALL kids of ethnic backgrounds. Although, I always did have a soft spot for the smoldering Latin-based language cultures... but alas, my boyfriend is Dutch. lol. Hurray for pale skin, blonde curly hair, and blue eyes.

But I think it makes for an interesting pair. I'm Sicilian, Portuguese, Skots-Irish and English.

Mutt children are always the most exotic. Anyone else agree? :)

A-Soldiers-Wife07 · Answer

I'm attracted to pretty much any race :) I don't think color plays a key at all with attraction for me. When I was in high school I had moved from Michigan to Tucson and, being so close to the border, I was surrounded by Mexicans so I was really attracted to mainly Mexicans for a while and dated a few.

play-wright-boy · Answer

I like girls of all races. I hate it when people just automatically dismiss the possibility of being attracted to certain races. As an Asian guy, my race has rarely ever helped me gain an advantage in dating, so I think that's why I try to eliminate any biases in my own tastes.

If there's a smoking hot girl in front of you and you can't be attracted to her because of her skin colour or a certain variation of her facial features, then I say that you either have latent homosexual or latent racist tendencies.

If you find that you're not attracted to a certain race, ask yourself why. Things like facial features, skin tones, and body size all vary enormously within races. Are you not attracted to that race, or more likely, are you not attracted to the perceived social standing of that race in your culture?

girlsguys88 · Answer

I'm chinese, attracted to chinese and caucasian guys.  Not into korea or japanese, latinos, black , indian, middle eastern guys generally. but pharrell williams is damn fine.

alexithymia · Answer

I'm Asian and I like Hispanic men, I've been with one and he's very irresistible and sweet

ALWAYSclassy · Answer

I'm black and I'm mostly attracted to black guys but I can be attracted to any good looking person of any race.  I have dated outside my race in high school, he was white.

AL2000 · Answer

I'm white and even though I like all women, I find myself mostly attracted to women of other racesin particular.  Black and Asian girls really get me going, followed by Hispanic girls.   Black women are beautiful,  have dated one before and we clicked so well.  Very passionate women.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

I'm half White/Half Asian-I like Hispanic or Asian guys-I haven't had the greatest history with White guys so but I don't care about race, it's more about their personality that I look at anyways

BrettH · Answer

for me I like asian and white. I am white and I have never really been attracted to Latino or black women. and I think its mainly the stereotype of them being loud and bitchy. but I don't know I just have seen asian and white as more attractive to me.

setcheck67 · Answer

I'm mostly attracted to asian oriented. However I'm not really caring so much about color. I've dated at some point a variety of every race I can think of.

I don't think interracial couples is wrong, but it does sort of bother me that at some point everyone is just going to be a mix of every race which sort of completely destroys any kind of aesthetic diversity ( people won't be as diverse in colors and you meet someone that looks completely different from you that you can be friends with. All you will see is people that look VERY similar to you EVERYDAY). However that's past my time so I don't really have to worry about it.

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WolffyLove · Answer

I'm black and honestly, I like all races, but I'm more attracted to black and asian guy. Mostly the asian guys because they are so mysterious and they are cool to hang with ( ended up going to a winter ball with my asian friend and black friend and ended up dancing with 5 drunk asian guys lolz)

I have dated a Panamaian/Italian guy and a Jamacian/Hispanic/Black guy before, but the rest and my current boyfriend is black.

RandomR · Answer

I'm black and I'm attracted to white guys. And i wouldn't technically say I've dated outside my race.

kaiten · Answer

hmm off the top of my head all hispanic/latinas. italian, greek, armenian, albanian, indian, australian, english, all asians, all middle easterns, russian, african-american, and irish.

I'm Mexican...[latin spice and everything nice =) jk]

yes, and they were asian

ChaosxLov3 · Answer

I'm white. I typically like white guys...but there are some instances that I've thought some hispanics were cute. I'm really picky with guys, though.

Charnelle · Answer

I'm typically attracted to white or hispanic guys.

kika_rocks_92 · Answer

im  really into mixed guys favorite mix is black and white for some reason I'm hispanic :D

hot_princess7 · Answer

I am white & I am attracted to white, Hispanic, and *sometimes* Asian. Europeans are sexy. But maybe its just their accents lol.

SavingHer · Answer

I'm Puerto Rican, Spaniard, Italian, Corsican, French and Cherokee but I like white guys for some weird reason.  Most white guys are superficial and egotistical.

ChicaLuv · Answer

i am black, and I am attracted to all types of guys...race isn't an issue with me unless the other person has a problem with it, then it just gets annoying

i haven't dated outside of my race yet, but that's because I don't do much dating

fireandice · Answer

i am asian but I have no clue. I have dated white people but that's really all

katiesmuff · Answer

I am white, have pretty much always had a thing for black guys, have dated several and am now engaged to one.

dtaylor31906 · Answer

im attracted to all girls except some western indians and most asians i m black

red91 · Answer

Im an African American female and I'm most attracted to African American,White,Dominican,Asian men. It doesn't really matter to me though a guy is a guy. If I like them and I find them attractive race doesn't matter.

cjwright79 · Answer

Indian and Chinese. My parents are both from northern England.

cjwright79 · Answer

Asian princesses are really great.

Camilus · Answer

I'm just attracted to women, dude - I don't really give a sh*t what color they come in.  I'm a Caucasian male.

MadHatterni · Answer

Asain, black, white... Not into hispanics. I'm white, I dated 3 black girls, 1 asian, 1 native american, and rest white

tongakid · Answer

Responding to the update : For me, it's been about the intelligence (a positive stereotype, but a stereotype nonetheless), but the eyes, and the skin tone. I've also been drawn to brunettes/brown eyes too. They're typically (but not always) well raised and disciplined, strong family values.

My $0.02

tongakid · Answer

Well, I've always been attracted to asian women (which is good because I'm seeing one), white, and south asian (indian, pakistani, etc.). And I'm white.

That being said, there are very attractive women of races I have not mentioned... but if we're going for the average, my head turns at asian women more often than not.

Race isn't important to me at all. Both brains and beauty (positive) and ignorance and hatred (negative) are colour blind.

SnowLover · Answer

I don't discriminate! I just tend to go for guys with nice arms and darker coloring, like darker eyes and hair color.

somedude555 · Answer

any race.  but some races have more hot chicks than others... like Brazilians are almost all strait up 11/10 and I'm a honkey.

TR33HUGG3R · Answer

I'm Jamaican and Guyanese but I really like the rocker guys, they tend to be really confident and I mean really/ What sexier than a guy who can play guitar, drums and or sings. But yeah any race, just don't like stereotypical anything. There's nothing cute about saggy pants.

Amrit · Answer

I am Indian. I have a dark complexion. I am attracted mostly to Japanese and Chinese girls, Asian girls to be more precise. I don't know why, but I find these girls very cute. ;-) No, I have not dated anyone as yet.

Littletad · Answer

Spaniard/mexican/white. I'm attracted to Hispanic/Asian girls.

Standingpretty · Answer

I am white and attracted to white, philipino, native american, and italien men. Yes, I dated a philipino guy once.

armyguy176 · Answer

white guy-white girl, latina, light skin. not very attracted to black or asian.

Crazycanuck · Answer

Well I'm a mix of English,French,Swiss,Irish and Native Canadian and the only race of girls I'm not attracted to is white don't know why but its just the way it is...Other then that I'm attracted to all races and ethnicity's...

whyteroses · Answer

I am a white slovakian European girl, and I love white guys.

quinner23x · Answer

there are good lookin women in every race. but for me it is black girls I love them.

eSHkidd · Answer

I would date all races but I am white and am mostly attracted to white mixes. (white-latino, white-black, white-asian, etc) but I do like 100% white girls a lot too

drummerdude25 · Answer

I'm white and typically attracted to white and Hispanic girls... a girl with dark hair and brown eyes is something I find VERY attractive!

Dimonik · Answer

I'm white and prefer white and asian girls.

Sexy-Senior-09 · Answer

My family is from Spain so I'm a Spaniard. The only girls outside my I've dated were white, but that's just because I haven't met anyone else from a different race

drakal76 · Answer

I am hispanic. I am attracted to the girl regardless of their race, ethnicity or religion. Unfortunately I have only hooked up with hispanic girls (I guess other races don't find me appealing), but would love to enjoy any. There are so many black, hispanic, white, asian and middle-eastern girls that I have been attracted to, but haven't gotten to enjoy.

My father, when he was married to my mother (who is white) once advised me try not to marry outside of my race/ethnicity, as he (hispanic) did not have many commincalities with my mother.

But I think we are all pink on the inside.!

What is inside of our souls is what matter most. Beauty comes in many different shapes ans sizes. Hell, I think our differences are what make humanity so much stronger and so much more interesting.

bimbolena · Answer

Black and darker men (and women) are great but colour is not so important. I'm white myself.

sheltielov3r · Answer

ASIAN TAIWANESE AND KOREAN ALL THE WAY. and chinese I guess

Happyfeet · Answer

I am half white and half asian, and I'm attracted to any race. No preferences, well at least not when it comes to race. Currently I'm in a interracial relationship. :P

ayannabarnett · Answer

I'm African American and I mostly date Jewish guys

justhat1chick · Answer

im white and every white I dated conviced me I very much dislike white men(dating them)

i prefer hispanic, latino, black, and very few asians and pacific islanders catch my eyes =]

i like men with color =]

boribori90 · Answer

i like mixed looking girls, especially if I can't tell what they are. if I had to pick just one kind of woman, I would say Lebanese or Mediterranean in general. nice tan skin and dark hair are just too much for me to resist. I also like asian women in general

I'm mixed, asian and white

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