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What's your reaction to a guy with an erection in public?
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Okay, here's why I ask. I was recently, as in yesterday, on a crowded subway train. I mean it was REALLY crowded, people packed in like sardines. I was crammed up against a corner and this really attractive girl is standing in front of me with her back to me. Eventually it was packed enough that she had no choice but to basically be pushed up against me. When this happened her ass was in direct contact with my groin... and despite my efforts to keep it down, the swaying of the train made it so she was kind of rubbing up against me and pretty soon I had a raging hardon that was quite obviously poking her in the ass, the way it lifted up it was almost prodding between her legs... and there wasn't really any way for me to fix it without drawing attention to it. There was no way she couldn't have noticed, we were so close and the train was moving around so much it was practically like she was grinding me unintentionally. I was just waiting for her to turn around and slap me or something but she made no comment or gave any sign that she knew. Eventually when the crowd thinned out and she went to get off at her stop, she turned around before she got off the train, looked down at my crotch and just giggles a little before exiting. So the question is, girls, how do you react to seeing (or in this rare case I guess, feeling) a guy with an erection in public? Do you look to see what he was looking at? Are you wondering whether it was you that caused it? Have you ever purposely tried to cause it? Does it turn you on? Does it gross you out? Do you just find it funny/amusing? etc. Any specific examples you can think of? And what would you have done in the situation I described above? Because honestly I can't believe she didn't slap me or something.
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Speculation about what was going through HER head is fine, but I'm also wondering what goes through YOUR (i.e. other girls') heads in situations like this where you've seen or felt that happen, or what WOULD be your reaction, etc.
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What Girls & Guys Said
31 7i would lmao, I'm so serious and think, wow...wtf ? o.o
Awesome story bro.
Haha Indeed!
Im jerking to it right...now...
"Do you want some help with that?"
http://i.imgur.com/4Rbz4gx.png
I would feel kinda special, I mean like really. It's more of a compliment that aguy thinks you're hott.=D.
1 : If a guy had an erection in public , and I fI notice it, I think I would giggle a little then smile at him :)
2 . I probably would look to see what caused it , and to see if it isn't me to get in front of the person, and aim it at me ( Yeah, I like attention)
3. Yes, I would wonder if I did it or not
4. Yuppers, I certainly did try to cause it, It's very funny to do so, like wear a mini-skirt then "accidently" bend down, or just flirt with him LOADS, and touch him...
5. I would think it's more funny then a turn-on, If it would be my Boyfriend , it would certainly be a turn-on, otherwise , no.
6. It doesn't reallly gross me out, cause girls kinda have their own way of "erecting" (it's just not as visible) .
7. I would realy think it's amusing, cause It's a thing girls don't experience to a day to day basis.
Hope that helped!
xx
Alyce
That's really hot!
What gives you the right to talk about my friend you peasant 😂
And what did you want her to kiss you please ✋
Well all guys get them sum show there's more than others like my dad I have seen his my whole life and he isn't ashamed of it he always walks around the house naked since I can remember but I always thought it was weird that he would always want me to sit on his lap and rock me like while we watched shows but i guess I am use to it especially when I always could see it cause it was between my legs I would giggle and say daddy I'm a boy but hated how the skin would peel back and exposing that wet red tip. But all girls I dont care what they say every girl has relieved there dad one way or another. Most dads just tell and say stand right there while he cummed all over his chair and himself I loved when my dad would do that it would make me feel like he really loved me.
Omg you've been abused by your father you need to speak to someone ok first go and tell your mom or a close relative about what happened
You've been abused your whole life without knowing it and no, no girl has relieved their father you need to speak to someone about this asap
Asker your an older mature guy? you know advice her that this isn't normal and she needs to take action
@24carrots I love my dad he let's me kno how beautiful I am all the time and all u haters that r jealous I walk around the house in thongs all the time and I walk around naked in front of my dad been doin it my whole life
This is clearly wrong and disgusting you need help and I can't give that to you unless you wake up or your just playing a sick game online
Hey you wrote about me that not nice I had to see for myself
Please delete it and reply back to why you had to write this. You crazy!! No one needs to know this happened LOL
One more thing wish I replied sooner when this Actually happened then you could have deleted it and asked me why I didn't 'slap you'
I think I know who your talking about lol.
It happened on a Friday right? I tell you what she thought she felt embarrassed for both of you guys I think she told me she tried to cover it up
My friend deleted her account after she wrote a comment lol
My friend who wrote the comment wanted to know how you felt about the situation and you know she is a M... So what exactly made you attracted to her
One more thing, the girl you are talking about wanted to apologise for taking up all the space and making you feel uncomfortable
I must admit, I get turned on when that happens to me, a guy I don't know on the crowded train poking me in the ass. It has happened a few times, as the train I get is usually very crowded. I just ride the train and enjoy it, and I position it in the center, as that is the nicest position.
i find it really exciting, I love the thought of getting caught, and I find it a complete turn on lol
totally agree with the "best answer," but also wanted to add that the girl prob thought you were cute too
So, if you ride the train often... and it gets that packed...does that mean you popped wood from a guy rubbing against you at some point in your life?
No, usually I'm facing a window or sitting down, and even if I was in that position... I'm not really attracted to guys. There's a difference between having an attractive woman unintentionally rubbing up against you and someone you find unattractive doing so.
Actually it has been proven that a guy can get aroused even if he doesn't want to by certain stimulation. This has been proven in cases where women have raped men stating that he had an erection, he must have liked it.
I'm sure it's possible. But I know my own body better than any study or statistics about this. If I was in a similar position as this with a guy I'm pretty sure it wouldn't have been a problem. The main reason THIS one happened is because it was an attractive woman, she wasn't grinding on me, there was very little physical stimulation. If it had been a guy, I'd likely have been too uncomfortable. Maybe I'm an anomaly but if I'm repulsed by something it won't do that to me.