What is your biggest turn off and turn on?

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Guys and girls can answer this. My turn off is mustaches. And turn on is full lips.

collegegrl18 · Accepted Answer

MY turn offs are: Short, dreadlocks, permanently frowning faces, bad teeth, bad breath, bad smell, most bald guys, body hair, big nose, Big ears (unless they look good for his head like Will Smith), Skinny, bad style, smoking or any kind of drug use, messy to the point where it's just gross, punk, jerk, selfish, cheap, snobbish, light voice like Jack from Will and Grace or really feminine gay guys, man boobs, and disrespectful.

My turn ons are: Tall, great bone structure (esp. jawlines), Confidence, abs, big body frame, pretty smile, gorgeous eyes (dark or light), amazing smell (preferably oranges not the fruit but more of the fragrance like from a citrus cologne or shower gel, aftershave etc.) I don't know when a guy smells like Oranges I love it haha, Smart, Kind, Charismatic, Outgoing, Compassionate, Strong, Romantic, Flirtatious but playfully, Hilarious, plays hard to get, protective, gentlemen (old school type where he opens my car door or brings me flowers), facial hair but no over lip moustaches that should be one of my turn offs so add that haha, driven, diligent, Knows what he wants, and good sense of style.

alleycat42 · Accepted Answer

I've decided on a top 5 most unattractive qualities personalitywise

1) unintelligent

2) cocky

3) insecure

4) closed-minded

5) wimpy/scared to try new things

as far as looks, it's just bad to have poor hygiene. Bad breath, smells bad or too much cologne, long fingernails (ew) lots of acne (I guess if it's really a medical condition it's not something to be judged on, but if you just don't wash your face it's pretty gross) long greasy hair, clothes that look like they haven't been washed in weeks, lots of facial hair (mostly mustaches) all turn-offs

most attractive personality traits:

1) intelligent

2) down-to-earth

3) confident

4) adventurous

5) funny but can also be serious

I'd be most attracted to a guy that looks clean and healthy, to get picky I'd say dark hair, (a little on the shaggy side if he can pull it off) gray eyes, olive skin, nice teeth, physically fit but not huge muscles (sometimes it can be too much) and tall :) and it always helps to be musically talented :D

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

on: facial hair, sexy jawlines...stylish glasses on some guys that suits them...they look intelligent...a guy who wears white shirt with blue jeans...i don't know why but I love that combo!, nice cologne not too strong...tall height...deep intense eye contact...nice smile...deep voice

off: hits on every thing that moves, moustache as well, beards, dirty nails or hands, bad breath, girly voice, skinny jeans, tight clothes...

gentlemanattbay · Accepted Answer

From the guys side:

Turn ons: fortitude, honesty, trustworthyness, a calmness about ones self, sense of humor, politeness, manners, ability to conduct oneself like a lady, poise in public.

As far as physical features: Hair that really shines, a smile, a well proportioned face, eye color does not matter, breasts do not matter, but a cute behind matters!

Turn offs:

facial piercings, smoking, drugs, starting bar fights, any physical or emotional abuse of others, great big fake t*ts that are not in proportion with the rest of your body, having lip injections done (you are fine just the way you are) piercing of your private area, yelling at other people, not giving a person a fair chance in dating, women who spit on the floor, and finally ...

women who are so self centered that they think they are the epicenter of the universe.

( I slept with a woman last year who in the first two times together, did not finish the job for me, even though I finished her multiple times. )Brutal. Whatever happened to reciprocity?

Hughman · Accepted Answer

Turn ons: Natural redhead with striking eye colour. Slim and stacked bodyshaped (tall or petite). High heels. Form fitting clothing. Feminine voice/mannerisms.

Turn offs: Hair anywhere beyond the scalp (I'll allow pubic hair if it's been taken care off, ie no GNP/forest). Smokes more than a few cigs a day. Swearing more than once in a blue moon (plus other male characteristics - like drinking shed loads of beer). Droopy breasts. BO. Chipped/unloved nails. Poor oral hygiene (including wonky teeth).

rdabby · Answer

everyone here says smoking is a turn off...

To me its a turn on actually ! but

turn ons: piercing eyes,great smile,wide shoulders,dark hair,dirty looking guys yet clean and smells good.

turn offs: sissy, skinny, cocky,bad smell and toooooo hairy.

MesiJessy · Answer

Turn on: Deep voice, mavericks, creative minds, sense of humor, adventurous hobbies, and tattoos.

Turn offs: Momma's boys, guys who are still in love with their ex-gfs, if they dress better than I do or put more time into their appearance than they do our relationship, and jerks.

BTW, I personally love smokers and drunks. But I guess I'm just the type of girl who is game for a laugh...

CaliRSX · Answer

On: Blue eyes and brown or black hair, a girl who can dance, a nice ass and a great smile, flirty and outgoing

Off: Negativity, immaturity, girls who are prone to getting super emotional and at the same time irrational, girls who constantly tries to manipulate myself or others

CuddlyCarla · Answer

Turn offs: People who lack confidence, aren't assertive, low self esteem, people who don't take care of themselves, people who hide behind excuses and whines or blame other people for their problems, shyness, smokers, apathy

Turn ons: The exact opposite of everything above. Intelligence. Creativity. Problem-solvers. Strong people.

lollipopgirl23 · Answer

turn on: nice eyes, lips, hands, tattoos, funny, outgoing, nice tan or dark skin, muscles, nice, friendly

turn off: bad attitude, selfish,no job, ugly teeth, bad breath, curses alot, mean, smells bad, bad hygiene., long hair. dirty fingernails or long nails.

zombielove22 · Answer

Turn Ons:goofy guys that are funny, skater/rocker style, longish hair, nice guys, nerds, straight teeth, snake bites/lip piercing etc...

Turn Offs: smoking, drugs, drinking too much, "gangster" style, baldness, "guidos", large muscular guys, facial hair, etc..

cgiddings · Answer

Biggest turn off: Smoking or belching. Biggest turn on: Glasses or confidence.

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

TurnOn: Dark hair on guys, cute eyes, strong arms (toned or muscular) TurnOff: Unshaven or Beard or not taking care of himself

khayyam · Answer

ONs: Smart, social, polyglot, dancing (no grindlines, I'm talking any form of real dancing), good music (not Top 40, MTV, etc.), artistic (fine arts, film, writing, etc.), athleticism, easy to talk to and tolerance for randomness.

OFFs: Too much makeup, attention whores, watching too much TV, not physically fit, social network whoring

probablynuts · Answer

turn on: good laugh/smile/voice turn-off: guys who act p*ssy and have attitudes like eminem

BellsBabe · Answer

i don't care about size as long as he's got abs, he's got a chance ;P turn off, beer gut (ew!) excessive drinking smoking chest hair major turn on is  one heck of a P E R S O N A L I T Y;; baby!

kriskiss · Answer

turn on eyes and shyness. turoff girls who talk a lot and like being center of attention.

volleyball5 · Answer

My biggest turn on and turn off are:

turn on--ABS! doesn't matter if I think the guy is "hot" or something it definitly adds :)

turn off--SMOKING! even if they are crazy hot its a major turn off. the smell doesn't jusstay with them, I smell like it too after being around them, and honestly I wouldn't wanna kiss an ash tray

hunnie-bunches · Answer

my two biggest turn offs are stinky breath and dirty fingernails my turn ons are like yours the full lips and clean shoes

Nijababe99 · Answer

turnoff 4 me is moustache and being rude and acting like a jerk turnon -> humor nice funny kewl 2 be around love adventures doesn't act different around his friends

joinup · Answer

Turn on: Guys 4 or 5" taller than me, straight shoulders, glasses, good hairstyle, body hair, nice jaw, a little bossy :) Good smell :) ability to forgive, a little immaturity, good dressing habits

Turn off: Whining, bad breath, drugs, too thin, no sense of humour, short-ish guys. Too political, or always trying to make a debate out of everything. Controlling. Distant.

Syl63 · Answer

Turn OFF: long hair. Turn ON: sexy body .

myspacemybroke · Answer

For turn off: decidedly smoking (blech), the "party girl" type, one of those types who has low self esteem, and is constantly fishing for compliments, obesity, an actually ugly face (very few *actual* ugly faces in the world). I'm sure I could come up with more if I could think right now. For turn on: intelligence (for me this is huge), pleasant face, nicely shaped, feminine but not to the point of irritating girly girl. These are sort of base things, if a girl was lacking some of the good stuff, but we had compatible personalities and got along well it would be fine.

victoriaa · Answer

my turn ons; smoking, bros, taller, confidence, respect. jaw lines.  turn offs; weed, cocky, slutty, LYING, disrespect.

WeaponZero · Answer

turn off - tattoos, piercings, fake tans/unnaturally dark looking tans, poor hygiene turn ons - athletic legs, intelligence, witty sense of humor

Arwens-Fire · Answer

Turn on:Fit body Turn off:Yup..smoking and too much body hair

sport1523 · Answer

turn offs: smoking and tattoos turn ons: facial hair, nice body, and tall

MadHatterni · Answer

My turn on is legs and eyes. My turn off would be a female that had 3 or more guys in her

Wowz1 · Answer

I'll just name my top one for each.

Turn-on: gorgeous voice and smile. (Okay, that's two. But they go so well together. :D )

Turn-off: being ditzy and purposefully stupid. Read some books, then we'll talk.

Duchess930 · Answer

Turn offs: Smokers, guidos, excessive and cheap cologne, wide hips, narrow shoulders, slouchy clothes, acts like a tool, treats others disrespectfully, irresponsible with money, stupid, boring, no sex drive, too horny

Turn ons: Full lips (me too!), light to tan-ish colored hair, plaid shorts, long sleeve shirts, plays a sport, wide shoulders, tall, eyes that can smile, is not afraid of having some humility, confidence, stands up for what they believe in, smart, can make me laugh, smiles often

mistaecks · Answer

Turn ons: Curvy hips, jello butts, small boobs, jet black hair, glasses Turn offs: bad attitude, kids, over 25 and still live at home with parents, excessive drinking, prudishness, bible thumpers.

brunettebabex3 · Answer

ON: Height, smell, puts effort into being with/talking to me OFF: makes no effort, smoking, drinking, hitting on everything with a pulse

music-diva · Answer

turn off-hairy chests. turn-on-sick dance moves

shorty_79 · Answer

Hate: chest & back hair (only deal with it if it a small amount & soft), bad teeth, short (since I'm 5'1) and bad toes.

Turn offs: smile, broad shoulders, certain walk & behavior, nice or full lips and facial hair.

Nashton · Answer

curly hair I love it with girls and turn off when they think they are hot sh*t... who want a b!tch?  no I

Teeruss · Answer

On:  likes sports (specificly the bruins and celtics) :p, can deal with nerdyness, playful, good personality Off: smoking, bitchiness, kinkiness, narcism and  whores

Dan2287 · Answer

on: Eyes, ass, hair. Eyes are the most important of all off: smoking, bad teeth, bad hygiene

xxviet · Answer

Turn off: Girls that are like jessica simpson, and smokers Turn on: Girls that have a pretty, funny, smart

vMort · Answer

turn on's: red hair, glasses, mini skirts, Japanese girls, school uniforms, accents, and boobs

turn off's: stomach that sticks out more than there breast, dirty teeth and stupidity(unless I'm trying to get laid)

poulette12 · Answer

turn offs: bad smell, not clean, belching, too fat or too skinny ( I'm talking about the extremes), drugs, heavy smoker, alcoholic, selfish in bed, too much body hair ( again talking about extremes), clingy, a ton of acne, can't let go of his mom, is hypocrit, dishonest, macho,bad teeth, lazy, etc.

turn ons: nice teeth, nice smell, decent body, decent taste in clothes, independent, warm hands, manly voice, respectful, open to conversion about a lot of things, ambitious ( not too much though), likes to travel, independent thinker, intelligent, likes to cuddle, deep looking eyes, etc.

Happyfeet · Answer

Turn off-No sideburns Turn on-Muscles :) oh yeah

ryanryan90 · Answer

turn ons: broah shoulders.. talll. dark...brown or black hair. brown eyes. muscular.. CONFIDENCE. good sense of humor. HAppppyyyyy. playful.. COLOGNE. smile

turn offs: BODY ODOR. BAD BREATH. guys that get depressed easily.. insecurity.. guys that try too hard to impresss. thin guys.

FutureSoldier726 · Answer

when a guy picks is nose in public is a turn off and Country/Farm Boys are a turn on also a man in a uniform.

fartlard · Answer

turn on-- sweethearts turn off-- jerks

darkknight1x · Answer

turn offs:party girls, smokers,girls that hate cats, women that don't have a big heart,

narrow-minded & judgemental & women that like RAP music.

turn on's:piercings,tattoos, big lips & eyes & ass, long & smooth sexy legs, great sense of humor, a great smile & laugh, women that love Rock & Metal, or in a nutshell women like Cassadee Pope,Ashley Tisdale,Valerie Poxleitner & Britney Spears from back in the day.

Swampwater · Answer

i like it when girls hit me in the face. hard. the harder the better.also punching in the arm repeatedly in the same spot.. feels sooo good.

my dislikes are when girls tell me they can't shoot a bow and arrow while doing a handstand

Titi18 · Answer

Turn off's: stinky breath/yellow teath/mustaches/bad dress code.  Turn on's: nice dress code/nice colongne /nice body/nice eyes :)

stevo · Answer

Turn ons: Great personality, friendly, warm, inviting--- Turn off: Cold, rude, unfriendly, selfish.

Marrryyyyy · Answer

on: confidence off: cockiness + smoking + drugs

Virtuales · Answer

turn off : hair(armpit hair, arm hair, legs) and a stupid girl who thinks she's smart turn ons: piercings (except tongue), and sense of humor, and a playful personality

averagejoe · Answer

Turn Offs: Bad hair, bad breath, acne, smoking, bad teeth, bad laugh (lol), not phycally fit (hate to nit pick but no excersice isn't cool), *SLOPPY KISSERS*

Turn Ons: Smell great, music lovers, understand sports, pretty eyes, athletic, like to dance, don't rely on parents or me to get something for them ($)

Curlyfries316 · Answer

Turn ons: long legs, small/medium boobs, round butt, long hair, shyness, blue eyes, red or blond hair, pale skin, clean smell. Turn Off: smoking, tattoos, ugly feet, "party girls"

jenny101 · Answer

turn off: guys that are full of themselves turn on: tattoos

The_Love_Guru · Answer

on: great smile, nice ass and boobs, good sense of humor, personality, belly button piercing off: bitchy attitude, drugs and smoking,

wertlif · Answer

Turn ons: face, hair, body, smoking (its a fetish, dun judge me D:) all body hair well removed, personality Turn offs: braces, body hair, obesity

nyczpyro · Answer

SMOKING IDFC DONT SMOKE.

Bad Smells.

your teeth need to look like teeth.

FAT I'm sorry but work the fk out it maybe hard but do it otherwise don't try putting on make up.

Too much hair, and I mean like vaginal and facial AND LEGS.

My turn ons are skin, legs, hair, waste.

larry69 · Answer

My turn ons are personality, eyes and hair and then breasts. My turn offs are body odor.

yasie_xoxo17 · Answer

on: strong muscular arms, killer smile, piercing eyes offs: bad odor, bad teeth, black guys with mohawks, guys with a girly laugh

WizardofDarkMagic · Answer

I cannot stand smoking or anyone overweight! Biggest turn on is a girl that can beat me in wrestling!

DarthGameRuler · Answer

My biggest turn on is when she is as tall as me

Abdulwahh · Answer

Turn offs are very fat and rude and bad dresser  Turn ons are nice dresser, kind, feminine, realistic beauty, trimmed pubes that is a bit of vulva hair.

Lifezabeach · Answer

Turn off: Beards, smoker, long nails, bad breath, really pale, really stupid Turn on: Darker skin (especially Spanish guys!), nice hair, happy, nice arms

Icyfire8894 · Answer

Turn on's : 1. Shaved arms and down there! 2. Big brown or blue eyes. 3. Good kisser 4. Not fat but not super skinny I want a girl with a little meat on her.

Turn offs : 1. Body hair! 2. Crooked teeth 3. Short hair 4. Huge muscular girl 5. Not romantic

Missdancer27 · Answer

on: taller than me, smells good (not too strong), can be sporty, sweet, generally kind and romantic off: regular things like: bad odor, rude, full of themselves, try to be 'cool'

livybivy · Answer

off: smoking/drugs on: funny/witty, flirty, tall

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