What was your first time like? Ladies and gents, detail is required!

I was 18, and she was 17 and to tell you the truth of it I think she called me up because I think she was bored and horny, and I was the only bloke in her life who was interested in her at that time of her life. I wanted to have sex with her 2 years prior( I was a horny rascal in my teens) but she wasn't ready so respected that in the end and after she broke it off we didn't contact each other for 2 years. When I got in contact with her again she was more confident with herself and we were more like friends and boyfriend and girlfriend. I remember the night before there were 3 of us talking and we had realized that she had fallen asleep , I got her bed sheet, wrapped it round her a kissed her on the head. The next morning she asked me round to her house, talked for a while and kissed her like the love was still there from two years ago, and she said "do you want to go upstairs". I followed her up and she asked me to get into bed and if I wanted to have sex with her, I was scared to even go up the stairs let alone to get in to bed with her, but I had in my mind what I needed to do. I had read 2-3 sex manuals and naturally sexually adventurous and keen, and knew where were all the pleasure points were and what to do, so I managed to get her off several times during the afternoon by going down on her and getting the right position, however she had no clue what to do, she never on me tried to pleasure me in any way except grabbing my penis wanting to get it hard and giving it a quick suck so we could have sex It lasted over an 60- 90 mins, and I was getting bored so I pretended to come, she was breathless when I finished and the bed was a mess, although I felt like she used me by not giving me enough loving and kissing that I wanted. When I left I felt a little dejected and cheap when I left, because I felt like she didn't want to pleasure me as much as I wanted to pleasure her. I carried on doing it, sometimes it lasted 2-3 hours and I never got the same passion/ connection in the time we spent together, I tried talking to her about it but I never got got the same investment I got from her, in the end I ended with her What was your first time like? regrets, lost love... love to find out
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  • i was 19, it was about a year and 4 months ago.

    we were in my room, I think we were just looking at each other(we were in that "i can't believe I'm so lucky" stage), and I told her how cute she is.

    we were on my bed so kissing and touching came naturally.

    so we started kissing, and touching, and whenever we would do that, we would joke around at the same time, it was like playful making out. and somehow, she began playing with my d***, to tease me(I really miss that), so I started touching her p**** too.

    then she got my d*** out and started jackin me off. so I started fingering her.

    i must have been doing it right cause next thing I know, she's begging me to put my d*** in.

    but we'd only been going out for a month and a half, we were trying to wait 6 months or at least 3.

    so I was like, "i'll put it in once, but that's it" and she goes, "but that's already doing it, so lets just do it"

    it took her a few minutes but she convinced me.

    so I told her to lay on her stomach, she did, and I stuck my d*** in.

    the whole time I was thinking "holly sh*t I'm having sex with ____, its really happening. who would have known I'd end up banging her one day?"

    and I couldn't take my eyes off of her face and the way my d*** looked as it was sucked into her p**** over and over.

    a few minutes into it, we noticed my bed was being very loud, so we moved to a chair I had in my room.

    but then I couldn't get it up.

    and it was the weirdest, and up to that moment, worst thing to have ever happened to me.

    so then that was it, we couldn't continue after that.

    the next time we f***ed tho, I f***ed her on the floor(put down some blankets) and I made her come twice. so I guess I could say I made up for it haha

  • Heh...I was 19 and she was 20...I met her working in the University Food Service and invited her to our dorm house party...and she came! She was the first female I successfully brought to orgasm from giving oral and she was the first girl that I had intercourse with...my only concern was pregnancy...my parents REALLY jammed on me about that, not because of religion but rather how some female would deliberately try to entrap me...anyway the whole scenario was totally awesome...was only later that I found out she was married to a Pakistani who was in grad school in Texas...O.O

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  • Well I'm still a virgin, I was suppose to lose in last June but things changed as my boyfriend couldn't come and see me. But I do really value myself as I don't just want to give it to anyone, I do want to find a person who will love me just as much as I love them. People are interested in me and do ask for my number, as they don't believe I'm a virgin -_- but I am 100%.

    But maybe she thought it was like a friends with benefits kind of thing as you guys weren't dating, have you tried to ask her out?

  • i was using a dildo b4 I had sex so I knew wht to expect...pft >.>

    anyway, I was wiht my bff and I said I'm horny, he said me too, then were laughing he was like you wana go do it? and I was like yea...but he was nothing compared to my dildo but I stil liked it. we been friends for years and I would fk him whenever wer older no so I'm sure he has gotten better but I haven't had sex wiht him since high school

    • are you just down to cheat whenever or is your guy OK with you f***ing other guys?

    • i didn't say cheat now that's a diff story. I shouldve mentioned that but in general and if I'm single id f*** him whenever. he's a bff with benefits and I dnt think his boyfriend would like it too much if we did lol. yea my bff is gay btw

  • I was 19 and he was almost 20, we were classmates. It was a few hours after he broke up with his girlfriend. He didn´t know I was still a virgin and It happened in my car. I totally regret it, not because we were not in love but because he is such a jerk.

    The sex was OK, no pain but he was very rough. He didn´t come but then he fingered me and I did.

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  • I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn't start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

    My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. I was more than a bit reluctant, but I was in love with him, so eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away. I couldn't resist anymore.

    He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn't realize why.

    He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

    Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That's when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

    I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

    I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

    Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I had two or three orgasms and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's first time can be.

    Afterwards, I felt a mix of emotions: sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, a bit of regret, but also happiness, satisfaction, and a myriad of other feelings. It was all something of a jumble.

    It was a wonderful first experience, very romantic and tender. He was patient and he was very good. I felt like part of me had just died, but I also felt like I had just started an exciting new adventure, one I would enjoy many times afterwards. What a great birthday present!

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