Well, firstly, i'm male so anything I say here might be completely wrong!
But I hear about this kind of thing all the time, and usually, that sensation to pee is actually felt just before orgasm, but a lot of people stop at that point because their afraid they're going to pee. A lot of the time, it's just finding out about how to make yourself comfortable enough to continue even when you have that feeling, then, you shall eventually orgasm! I think that's the "magic" they're talking about. The reason why it feels like you need to pee could be multiple reasons, such as you might be on the verge of squirting, or just an orgasm - It feels like pee because your bladder, urethra and vagina are in so close proximity to eachother then it can be difficult to tell what your feeling. It's why some people enjoy masturbating after they haven't used the toilet for a while, as when the bladder swells, it applies pressure to the G-spot and can result in a more intense (and possibly longer?) orgasm. But that's just for some people, others don't like it.
Again, I could be wrong on any of those, 'cause i'm not a girl. That's just what I know. :P
Okay, based on what I learned on this website, fingering provides minimal sensation unless you manage to stimulate the G-spot, but what you actually want is clitorial stimulation which is on the outside at the top in the intersection of the two sides or somewhere around there, haha. Female anatomy is confusing and I'm not a doctor, but they claim that they either rub that or use something that vibrates, some even claimed that sitting on a washing machine works which is honestly kinda funny to me still.
Obviously it's different with a penis, though. There's only so much you can do with fingers, and afaik the penetration part feels decent only if you're aroused, and I guarantee you that no visual stimulation (porn for example) matches how you can be aroused by a partner you're devoted to.
I get nothing from fingering myself either, don't worry about it, every person is different... the wee feeling might be because you're stimulating your g-spot, try doing that and your clit at the same time and see if that's any better... I can't believe I'm giving masturbation techniques to a minor... what have I become!
A big sister to the girls on here better she reads it from you than some perv. Now lets take care of you to be clear you do not achieve an orgasm when you stimulate your clit. And as a woman I'm sure you have found your G spot I just feel sad that you don't get an orgasm
No, I do orgasm from clit stimulation, just don't get any pleasure from merely inserting my fingers inside myself. If my boyfriend does it I do, just a mental thing I suppose.
Hahaha it's ok! Thank you for helping me! After all we are basically the same right
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Firstly, I have no experience being a girl... that said I absorb information like a sponge. So here are my thought based on stuff I have read...
There are 2 places that simulate sexual pleasure. The G-spot and more importantly the clitoris.
The way I understand it, the g-spot is difficult to find, you may google "how to find my g-spot" It should be a small area of ridges roughly 2 inches in toward the front...
The clitoris is a small patch on nerves near the outside.. I suggest googleing how to stimulate it...
Anyway... there is a lot more to sex than putting something in between your legs. When you find someone you really like, experiment a lot with 4play.. And also... ALWAYS use a condom...
no girl answered your question. that is because you are under 18. it is not just like push button it little bit mental and physiological combination. please ask this question to an adult girl. let her put it here then wait for girls answers. please take it easy every thing will be okay. do not rush. you are still under age. good luck.
don't worry about that sensation to pee. And try clitoral stimulation if penetration isn't achieving the desired effect. Most girls can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation so that may be your solution. However as RBT-RS stated that sensation to pee if often felt before orgasm so maybe just keep going on what you're doing. Clitoral stimulation is a more effective way of achieving orgasms though
Try your bf to finger you! You might get aroused by that
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