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Who has the power during a blowjob?
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So, I was having a political discussion with a gay friend of mine about blowjobs. Who is in a position of power during a blowjob? My friend think that the guy receiving the blowjob has the power since they person performing the blowjob is like his sexual slave pleasing him. I, on the other hand, as a feminist, think the girl (or guy) doing the job has the power since the guy is in a vulnerable position (his d*** is in someone else's mind) and he surrenders himself to the pleasure. I even remember a funny line by Samantha from Sex And the City about blowjobs: "The sensation of power is amazing. Though you're on your knees, you got him by the balls." So what do you guys think? Who has the power during a blowjob?
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14 38the receiver has the power cuz usually I f**k their throats with their hands tied behind their backs. Its hot when chicks choke on it
The person whose mouth and teeth are around my genitals has all of the power.
you are thinking too much into it, there is no scu thing as"position of power" in sex, just two people havving fun
I am with you. The person giving the blowjob is in control. They can stop at any time and be done (finished or not)…. or speed up/slow down. Prolong the experience, tease or make him cum as fast as possible.
That's who
Both : the woman holds the man's erection in her mouth and hands while just by a quick pressure on the back of the woman's head, the man can make her gag and cry ;) lol
It depends on the people.
But the day I receive a blowjob, I want the girl to have the power and feel vulnerable.
You have the most important part of his body between your teeth and can crusch his balls whenever you want, so you can have the power if you want to.
The person giving the blowjob. They have the power of teeth lol
They can bite them off during it.
Lol I am domme so I don't only get heads, I make em gag on it and I am really in choking fetishes too so I'd like that on my dick too. But mho is another t right
Teeth
I think the guy receiving the blowjob is in power.
I certainly think it depends on the pair that is doing it. In my opinion, it varies. Sometimes I like to be in control and most times I love for him to be the one in power because I think it’s hot.
i see your point but doesn't it feel like losing control if he took your head with his hands?
If a woman has me moaning a lot cursing, etc, she does have complete control. But when I tell her to "go deeper" the roles change for me. I'm around 8-9 inches so I definitely have the control at that point 💯
$10 bucks says your not that big
The girl
The girl, at any moment she could lock her jaw and clench her hand on your balls, worst nightmare, at any moment she could stop and leave you with blue balls, make you feel like shit not knowing why, she could even go tell everyone you raped her and not a soul will question it, doing anything with a female feels like your powerless, like every move is up to her, and it's up to you to keep her interested and convinced to keep going, anything you do other than trying to keep her interested and convinced can go very wrong
Well if she bites it off you're in trouble. Does that answer it?
Not that I ever considered doing it, but I assume that if I bite it really hard, the chances of me biting it clean off is lower than my chances of me leaving that room dead.
@liel443 what if you pull the ball sack really hard or bite the balls and ball sack? He'd die for sure
Yeah, I guess that would work
@liel443 have you ever squeezed balls?
Master does, of course, once I'm bound properly there's nothing I can do to stop him
The one with penis has. more power