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Who has the power during a blowjob?
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So, I was having a political discussion with a gay friend of mine about blowjobs. Who is in a position of power during a blowjob? My friend think that the guy receiving the blowjob has the power since they person performing the blowjob is like his sexual slave pleasing him. I, on the other hand, as a feminist, think the girl (or guy) doing the job has the power since the guy is in a vulnerable position (his d*** is in someone else's mind) and he surrenders himself to the pleasure. I even remember a funny line by Samantha from Sex And the City about blowjobs: "The sensation of power is amazing. Though you're on your knees, you got him by the balls." So what do you guys think? Who has the power during a blowjob?
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I think it's the one giving the blowjob, unless they're tied up. They can bite the thing off and you'll live dickless
Not really political but anyway... It depends... Either can be more dominant... the guy could be tied up... or the girl could be tied up for that matter...
This is a really great question. Tbh it's both and depends on how it is during the intimate act.
On one hand, the girl has the power and the sensation of it and isn't that hot? To be in a position of giving pleasure to a lover?
On the other hand, the guy feels powerful and sexy with the girl pleasing him. The fantasy of a sexy slave is also there.
I guess it's about both pleasing each other as the girl is pleasing him and he also gives himself to her and she sees him going wild and being driven crazy hot. The best thing is when both have fun and that makes it extra special right?
Great question by the way. Could you help me on mine? It has a similar theme and I need some help. Would appreciate it! www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1589447-why-is-this-female-friend-behaving-like-this-please-help-can-you
I do because I say so damnit
The blower can make the blowey (made up word) do anything they want. I would do many things for my wife if the carrot was a blow job.
My first thought was the woman, but then I thought of p*rn. Many men in p*rn seem to have the power because they seem to almost force themselves into a woman's mouth sometimes. I guess it depends on the situation.
Porn is p*rn. Reality is, the person giving the blowjob has the power. If the guy receiving the blowjob tries to force the person giving the blowjob to do anything that he/she does not want to do, the guy receiving the blowjob runs the risk of having his d*** bitten off.
No, she's right.
thank you karking!