Why can't some women understand that men NEED Sex?
Unit1Editor
It is like a requirement for us. Those testosterones are not giving us a choice but we need it. It was also said, that if we are not using it then we are losing it - our tool. This is biology.
There are of course exceptions for asexuals and aromantics. But a "normal" male human being would not like to go through sexual abstinence gladly. We are "burning" inside if we can't get some action.
I need to get laid 😣 we all need to.
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To clear some things up with the angry and confused crowd: 1. Never did I say that women *should* be having sex with us in a demanding manner. This was merely a question with some explanation how it is like being a man dealing with constant high sex drive to see if women can understand what I am saying. Which leads me to... 2. The amount of women not understanding it seems to be MUCH higher than I expected. 3. PORN TO THE RESCUE :D!!! I LOVE PORN!!!
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I did not know, that most women hate sex. Yikes. But my expectation about women not understanding it was way too low. This question should now be "Why do most women not understand our need for sex?" Guess it has something to do with never experiencing it in first hand as we do. How typical and tedious. Alright, I had enough of angry and offended anti-sex women. I don't need to deal with this here. I will find my answers elsewhere.
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I was missing the answers, that i was looking for. Glad they showed up 🙂. Those, who agreed with me or supported me - I thank you ladies and gentlemen. You all are sexy 😀😁 stay sexy! I found, that i am just below having satyriasis and as such i just need (=strongly desire) a lady just below being a nymphomaniac 😋😛 Now picking a MHO is a challenge. So many good answers and just one to choose as "best". Oh well. Thanks again. Sex!!! Sex, sex, sex 😍😍😍
Women don't hate sex lol... But anyways, humans don't NEED anything but food, water, and oxygen. Sure, it sucks to not have Netflix, or brownies, or sex, but it is not a necessity for anyone. You can survive without it. So no, you don't NEED sex.
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Daermon
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yes we do need sex lol. it's an instinct. SURVIVAL, aka reproduction
UNCWgal63
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But you don't need it to survive. You instinctually want to reproduce, but it is not a NECESSITY for your own life.
David14
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Speaking of instinct lmao. Think about this. Ain't it funny how women claim men just want to have sex and yet they comolain that men finish too fast? Think about any animal having sex. A horse thrust like what 3 times? And then they're done. I don't think God indended for men to last very long.
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David14
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Lol.
UNCWgal63
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Lol okay that's unrelated to your argument. And I just realized you're 14! Dude stop worrying about sex and go enjoy your life before you have adult responsibilities to deal with.
David14
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Shit, my life as a child is over. I wish I listened when people told me not to grow up smh.
David14
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And what's wrong with wanting to know about something before hand. I like to educate myself.
David14
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Look, my point being. I like to be prepared, and I'm considered mature for my age. So don't pull the "You're only blah blah" card👌.
UNCWgal63
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Aw that's a bummer :( well at least enjoy not having to worry about work and student loans and all that *fun* adult stuff yet.
David14
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I'm getting a job this year and I got my future planned out, but thanks for the advice. Unlike my friends I know how to handle money.
UNCWgal63
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I'm sorry, I'm not trying to demean your thoughts and questions because of your age. That is actually really good to educate yourself about things.
David14
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Lol. I bet I'm smarter than have the people in this thread tbh. I'm not offended by you, it's cool of you to actually listen. You don't have to be a child to me childish, anx you don't have to be an adult to be mature. Just hope you understand that.
David14
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My bestfriend is 16 and his girlfriend is 18. Get what I mean? fyi I'm 15 in 2 weeks.
UNCWgal63
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Oh I definitely agree. You can generally get an idea of someone's maturity level by their age, but of course there are always outliers of people who are more or less mature than their age.
David14
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I forgot what we're talking about. Nice talk, good day.
David14
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😅😅
UNCWgal63
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If you're saying you're more mature than your age because you hang out with older people, then yes I get what you mean.
David14
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Honestly I think my friends an idiot, but that's beside the point 😂
UNCWgal63
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We were talking about sex being a necessity or not, and I proved to you that it wasn't lol 😝 but nice talking to you too, have a great day, dude!
UNCWgal63
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I got your point hun, but sorry, you're waaaay too young lol
David14
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🤔..
David14
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I guess you didn't get what I was saying after all😅
UNCWgal63
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Apparently not then lol
Daermon
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dude, you sound really mature for 14. good on you! just trust me and do yourself a favor. be as humble as you can be while still doing badass things with your life. and yes, the points you made earlier are good ones. I have 10 years on you by the way
awesomespoken
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makeup, shoes, jewelry, aren't a necessity to life, but I bet you'll be hard pressed to find a girl not lusting after them
UNCWgal63
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People lust after many different things, but very few of those things are actually necessary to sustain life. If you were stranded on a deserted island, you would not need makeup, shoes, jewelry, sex, or other things like that to survive. It would suck to not have those things, but you would survive without them.
David14
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Thanks @Daermon 👌 I appreciate the positive feedback.
Daermon
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yessir
Daermon
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by the way the tag function didn't work
UNCWgal63
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I had trouble with the tag function the other day too! Do you know how to get it to work Daermon? (sorry to eavesdrop on your conversation by the way haha)
David14
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Yeahhhhh, I figure but I see people do it and at listen you know I was talking to you.
Daermon
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lol OK cool
David14
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My phone is retarded.. Sometimes it auto corrects actual words to random letter mashups, lol.
Daermon
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yeah sometimes they do. you should be able to turn auto correct off in either your keyboard or phone general settings
hsg14002
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preach.
Yami_DemonXper 3
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We don't need sex. I don't need sex. It's not a make it or break it thing and if it is as long as your clear about what you expect your not an asshole.
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SkylinnXper 3
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This is a joke. Hormones can drive girls crazy, especially aroung teenage years, and even if we decided to abstain, the moment we start telling ourselves that there is no room for compromise, we act out. I'm sorry to break it to you but girls want sex just as much as guys do and thinking you NEED sex to survive is just dumb
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lord_chilled
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trust me, its not even close
Starlord47Xper 2
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dude I'm 16 so I'm horny as hell but I can still control it because I know that most girls want a gentleman who needs love not a sex machine who wishes to use them like some tool
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Puppyz123Xper 6
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u don't need it, it's just a desire
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DutchDude_99
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That's where you're wrong kiddo
trisarahtops94
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You will not die if you don't have sex. You will for if you don't drink water or eat food for a certain period of time. So no, you do not need it. You're just a horny teenager bro.
DutchDude_99
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Yeah probably, just wanted to share my opinion, sorry to have triggered you @trisarahtops94
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trisarahtops94
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original 😂
nationwantstoknow
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not completely a desire, sometimes it's a need also
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow how is it a need? what is the purpose of sex? I think ur mistaking the words 'need' and 'want'.
nationwantstoknow
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there are some circumstances which you can overcome if you have sex, like stress anxiety etc there sex can be a great medicine
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow it can, but what is the purpose of it?
nationwantstoknow
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lol, you need a purpose to have sex its a feeling like love, you want your partner to touch you, make you feel comfortable, and once you get into each other for quite long you then also start describing your love with sex sometimes
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow the purpose of sex it to unite the husband and wife and to have children. So there is no need for guys to just hook up with girls, just so that their desire is complete.
nationwantstoknow
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well even I'm against hook ups I hate when people just want sex to fulfill their desires but if you are in serious relationship then you can have sex with your partner and for that you dont always need to have a reason yeah basically people do sex to have babies, but some couples also do it to relax you will come to know when you will be in relationship
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow the only time i will have sex is with my future husband, when i am married
nationwantstoknow
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well being with husband would also mean a relation so just to make point, once you will have sex with your husband, you will get to know whether its for a purpose or not
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow yes, i know that there is pleasure in it, and God created it for that between a husband and a wife and for the purpose of multiplying.
nationwantstoknow
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well you have very traditional thinking on relationship and I really like it very few people think so you really remind me of my childhood
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow thank you. and thanks for being respectful
nationwantstoknow
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respectful? in what sense you said so like what made you say so
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow lots of guys i talk to try to make me believe in their point and get mad if i don't.
nationwantstoknow
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lol everyone has it's on views on love, relationship so I don't force my point and you had your views very clear and I respect that
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow thank you and i respect ur veiws too
nationwantstoknow
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thank you and good luck for your future well if you have another account we can talk over there
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow what do you mean another account?
nationwantstoknow
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on other social media this social stage is something different so that's it
Dave_
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you do ffs
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow yeah, i have other accounts for other social media
Puppyz123
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@Dave_ what is ff?
nationwantstoknow
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@puppyz123, what other social sites you use
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow i use Instagram
nationwantstoknow
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oh cool mind if we can connect there PM your link
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow i don't think that's necessary
nationwantstoknow
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lol, you need a reason or purpose for every thing you want to do respect that and don't mind for any later recalls
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow yeah, i do need reasons and purpose for most things. because i don't want to do something stupid
nationwantstoknow
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well I aspire your intentions and also worries but knowing someone is simply a gesture, where no one can act stupidly its just I like your views and just want to extend it a further
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow yeah, true
nationwantstoknow
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that's why said you if we can connect there and you can PM your link
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow why can't we talk on G@G PM?
nationwantstoknow
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lol, you tried but seems some setting problem in your account, so could not reply you there, that's why asked you for another account
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow oh, ok
nationwantstoknow
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well, now I hope you got a valid reason
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow not quiet valid, because there's no reason for us to talk
nationwantstoknow
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yeah, seem very conservative cool be what you are that's good
Puppyz123
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@nationwantstoknow i am sorry, most people think I should be more chill and just go with the flow. But if you go with the flow you might end up some where you don't want to. it's like you are going along in a stream and then go off a water fall.
nationwantstoknow
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nothing to be sorry about but yeah there's nothing wrong in going with the flow unless you know with what pace and in which direction you need to going along the stream and knowing your goal, you will never fall into a water trap but yeah again its you who has to decide what flow you need to follow
nationwantstoknow
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chilling is on one side, and knowing where you want to head and then enjoying accordingly is what you need to learn
LittleSallyEditor
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I'm pretty sure everyone knows that people (not just men) feel the NEED for sex... But no one is going to DIE without it.
But the part most normal people have issues with is how they go about getting it - lying and cheating...
-Only talking about those kinds of men - and they're usually the ones who feel the need to write these kinds of Qs...
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itiskissieXper 5
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If you are married... yes. she is required to have sex with you... if not... no not really :) it's our body so we decide. ok?
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itiskissie
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Not just that but you should read about the biology behind a women's body. We also need sex actually and desire sex more than most men thinks we do but comments like this is some of the reason women gets dry down there I guess..
David14
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I wish more women were well educate on the topic of sex likr you.
awesomespoken
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but it's still as far as I've found impossible for women to like sex more than normal guys
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Daermon
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according to what is a married woman "required" to have sex with her husband? because legally that's false. if the woman doesn't want to and calls the law, it is indeed possible for a man to get in legal trouble for RAPING his wife.
itiskissie
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I know... a married women doesn't NEED to have sex with her husband if she really doesn't want... but with marriage comes sex - an intimate commitment to each other that you will become one... I worded it wrongly I am sorry
Daermon
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it's cool. I would expect every decent male and female to know that marriage involves regular sex... lmfao
itiskissie
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No but if you read about sex drive and what scientist says... it shows that women loves and wants sex as much as men do. :) we might want it at different times, and variations when it comes to sex drive... but trust me. Women LOVES sex. We talk about sex all the time, and many of us are horny all the time and think about it often.
itiskissie
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When you can have multiple orgasm at the same time... why wouldn't women love sex?
Daermon
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that's great to hear! I know my girl is. we just need to get her out of her parents house and living alone with me so it can flourish lol
Daermon
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wait whoa what? tell me more about the multiple orgasms simultaneously and how to achieve them please!
David14
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Lol.
itiskissie
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I can only tell you have I achieve it with a guy. Remember every girl is quite different... but try and see if she likes it :) You want to get her relaxed at first, when she is relaxed, it is time to get her aroused but do it carefully, but giving her soft kisses and touching her body, make her feel sexy and wanted, tell her to relax and just enjoy it and start working the CLITORIS! This is how 90% of women have orgasms. Most of the focus needs to be here... this is how most of us achieve our own orgasm. I would start rubbing it gentle in circular motions, and go a bit faster by listing to her breathing.. if she breath faster, you will go a bit faster. I get so horny that most of the time I don't mind having a penis inside of me... just gently penetration.. so you can do that if she is trying to reach for you penis. Just to this, and I like getting my ears licked or bitten to or eye contact, some girls like that too... if she is relaxed enough, she will orgasm.. even multiply times
Daermon
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OK thanks!! I'll see her next weekend and try it. it's pretty hard to get her to orgasm...
itiskissie
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In spooning position of course... but she can make her self have an orgasm right?
Daermon
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yes. what part (s) exactly in spooning position?
itiskissie
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Is she completely comfortable with her body... or you touching her body?
itiskissie
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Hard to explain it... 😅 you need to google it.
Daermon
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you can do it... and yes she is.
Daermon
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she's never stopped me except a couple times that I tried anal before licking her there first lol
itiskissie
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Oh... I see you love your girlfriend a lot 😅 most girls can orgasm even with guys it is just about how relaxed and comfortable she is. And get to know her clit. This is the secret to any orgasm... penetration does almost nothing to a girl
Charlerpi68Xper 5
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Ladies and gentlemen from my experience in life and knowledge... guys we are programmed to want sex... girls you can get the D anytime you want... Now the issue with how important is sex in a relationship... to some guys it is and I'll tell you why some are you guys no fence have the entitlement that you should get it at any time you want at your disposal
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Charlerpi68
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On the flipside to that coin lady's when you have a man who wears his heart on the sleeve you can express your love through sex some couples bond that way... if the woman is having womanly issues at the end of the month guys you need to be more understanding of her needs going to the bathroom take matters in your own hands and move on with it...
taurus10jXper 5
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i just have to laugh at this question. i won't give my opinion but in time you will learn the answer to this question
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lcassell0901Xper 4
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I love and enjoy sex personally. so I'm not sure and don't understand why women hate or make excuses to not have sex. it doesn't make sense to me either and I'm a woman, sorry
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Unit1
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THANK YOU!!! Thanks!
lcassell0901
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You're welcome
Asad1ONE1
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Pregnancy maybe lol. Orgasm is the need I guess. Intercrural sex might be the best option
Totoro91Xper 4
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are you fucking retarded? of course no man with regular levels of sexual activity would ubdergo abstinence the same can be said of women, if you can't deny your hormonal impulses to the point it becomes a "need" IE something you cannot function as a normal human being without, then you might need to see a therapist because A thats a dangerous point of view and B a "normal" human being can quite happily do without sex, I'm one of them just because I'm over the amount of drama that having a partner brings, do I enjoy sex? fuck yes. is it a need? fuck no.
learn some self control you'll be all the better for it.
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iron_smithXper 3
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why the fuck os this popping up on my alerts 24/7?
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DP0122Xper 7
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I don't need it, maybe I have low test though, maybe I need that checked
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curiousnorway
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You can survive without sex and doesn't literally need it, but someone rather wants it.
SassyPinkLittleRWRXper 4
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I guess we should all just throw in the towel and be empathetic to men's needs. I'll just bend over at the first sign of a testesterone crazed boy having a serious medical issue... -_-...
How did you manage to get both your hands cut off? Must have taken a long time to type this post with your feet.
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Unit1
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Hahaha, why do you think so?
tangymarmalade
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Guess he thought you were a sex addict. @panda, bro, love for sex doesn't means the person is a sex addict and can't see and think anything beyond sex. 😂
Zer0GhostExplorer
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This is bullshit
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Wwwyzzerdd
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Just because you don't understand it doesn't negate the subject
Kate_XxXper 6
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They should understand. I feel the same way. Oddly though not just for some good d*** but for that person I am lusting over. That's just me. And women crave it too. They are lying if they say they don't. It may not be just to get laid but for that contact of a person you want to be inside you and intimate with
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forestprincessXper 5
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You seem to be confusing 'needs' and 'wants'. The idea of survival is real, meaning someone would die without their needs being met. This includes things like food, water, and shelter. A want is one step up in the order from needs and is simply something that people desire to have, that they may, or may not, be able to obtain. You will not die without sex, and there are plenty of humans on earth as it is. If you really want a kid, adopt or foster one. No one is there for just being a sexual object to make a baby then put back on the shelf. You ( and anyone really) are not entitled to any person and their uterus. And if you are really 'burning' on the inside because you're not getting laid, I would recommend a sex doll.
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SupaOnIt
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damn right
Kiels01
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the populations would die off if mens "needs" werent met..
SupaOnIt
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population would die if women stopped having sex/babies
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Kiels01
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correct.. whats your point?
SupaOnIt
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same point as yours
cldawson
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technically someone can die if denied sex frequently.. it can cause stress/depression that can lead to congestive heart failure etc. but that goes both ways, not just for men lol. we are equipped with sex drives for a reason though.. most of the time it is instinctual and chemical balance changes in our bodies that force us to crave sexual intimacy.. so I would say that it is a need and a want at the same time. I have yet to have sex, but that doesn't mean that I don't crave it.. everyone copes differently to those urges and deals with it differently as well..
Unit1
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Sex dolls are nice =)
ssilver
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It would take a very long time for 9 billion people to die off and a long time to even notice a decline in the population at all, even if every woman on the planet decided to become abstinent. But nice try making a case for male "desire" out to be a biological "need" to populate the world.
Kiels01
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@ssilver so if everyone stopped having sex now, the population would die off in around 100 years.. no human race left at all! our bodies are put together to multiply therefore it is a need no matter how much you want to argue it isn't..
ssilver
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It isn't even a possibility that people would all stop having sex. It would never happen. Even if all the women said no, which would never happen, men would just see as their duty to rape them. Justified by biological need, I guess
Kiels01
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@ssilver so you agree it is a NEED then?
ssilver
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Perhaps in part, bit I think it's more of a desire. If it were a need, no man could practice celibacy or be asexual, and there are many people who are, and they have not died. Maybe originally it was to promote the species, but the population is huge and it is less necessary for everyone. People have options and there isn't a huge demand for every single man to reproduce. It is an ego thing for sure though, in a lot of men. There are some who couldn't possibly fathom that their "name" or "legacy" (lol) to not live on.
cldawson
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yes biology changes with circumstances.. sex was used as a survival instinct but it isn't as necessary now.. but your argument still has flaws. for example, I am an only child.. the need for me to have sex to prolong my family and keep my bloodline running could be a instinctual motivator as well as a want.. as a human being we need a lot of things that look like they are wants, like acceptance, gratification, appreciation, consolement.. humans are complex and each person is handled differently from the next, so I think that it is in fact possible for a man to feel the need to have sex..
ssilver
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in that regard, sex is more like a stepping stone to get to a real need, like acceptance, approval, human contact, love, etc... I see where your coming from, but I think the real need is actually deeper than the the outward expression of what a man feels that he "needs".
ssilver
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To add on to that point, I think a lot of men rely on sex to mask other emotional problems, that they cannot or do not want to deal with. It may be too painful to face. I think that's why men turn to porn frequently, because it is a numbing experience, free from obligations of life and a way to divert emotional pain instead of exploring the root cause of it.
melodicstaceyXper 5
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I have emotional needs which includes sex.
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David14Xper 4
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I hate how men are stereotyped to be sex hungry peices of shits.. I want to LOVE someone, but where I live everyone is a whore. I'm for someone I can have mutal respect and trust with, but it's hard.
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kilmor
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Small town?
David14
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No, just a shitty neiborhood.
David14
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I'm on dating apps and shit now so here's to hoping🤞
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Unit1
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I know that feel kind of bro. I was dealing with gold diggers in a village for some time myself... It wasn't good at all. It warped my view on women, dating and relationships. Damn that sucks! Keep it tight bro!
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128 180Women don't hate sex lol... But anyways, humans don't NEED anything but food, water, and oxygen. Sure, it sucks to not have Netflix, or brownies, or sex, but it is not a necessity for anyone. You can survive without it. So no, you don't NEED sex.
yes we do need sex lol. it's an instinct. SURVIVAL, aka reproduction
But you don't need it to survive. You instinctually want to reproduce, but it is not a NECESSITY for your own life.
Speaking of instinct lmao. Think about this. Ain't it funny how women claim men just want to have sex and yet they comolain that men finish too fast? Think about any animal having sex. A horse thrust like what 3 times? And then they're done. I don't think God indended for men to last very long.
Lol.
Lol okay that's unrelated to your argument. And I just realized you're 14! Dude stop worrying about sex and go enjoy your life before you have adult responsibilities to deal with.
Shit, my life as a child is over. I wish I listened when people told me not to grow up smh.
And what's wrong with wanting to know about something before hand. I like to educate myself.
Look, my point being. I like to be prepared, and I'm considered mature for my age. So don't pull the "You're only blah blah" card👌.
Aw that's a bummer :( well at least enjoy not having to worry about work and student loans and all that *fun* adult stuff yet.
I'm getting a job this year and I got my future planned out, but thanks for the advice. Unlike my friends I know how to handle money.
I'm sorry, I'm not trying to demean your thoughts and questions because of your age. That is actually really good to educate yourself about things.
Lol. I bet I'm smarter than have the people in this thread tbh. I'm not offended by you, it's cool of you to actually listen. You don't have to be a child to me childish, anx you don't have to be an adult to be mature. Just hope you understand that.
My bestfriend is 16 and his girlfriend is 18. Get what I mean? fyi I'm 15 in 2 weeks.
Oh I definitely agree. You can generally get an idea of someone's maturity level by their age, but of course there are always outliers of people who are more or less mature than their age.
I forgot what we're talking about. Nice talk, good day.
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If you're saying you're more mature than your age because you hang out with older people, then yes I get what you mean.
Honestly I think my friends an idiot, but that's beside the point 😂
We were talking about sex being a necessity or not, and I proved to you that it wasn't lol 😝 but nice talking to you too, have a great day, dude!
I got your point hun, but sorry, you're waaaay too young lol
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I guess you didn't get what I was saying after all😅
Apparently not then lol
dude, you sound really mature for 14. good on you! just trust me and do yourself a favor. be as humble as you can be while still doing badass things with your life. and yes, the points you made earlier are good ones. I have 10 years on you by the way
makeup, shoes, jewelry, aren't a necessity to life, but I bet you'll be hard pressed to find a girl not lusting after them
People lust after many different things, but very few of those things are actually necessary to sustain life. If you were stranded on a deserted island, you would not need makeup, shoes, jewelry, sex, or other things like that to survive. It would suck to not have those things, but you would survive without them.
Thanks @Daermon 👌 I appreciate the positive feedback.
yessir
by the way the tag function didn't work
I had trouble with the tag function the other day too! Do you know how to get it to work Daermon? (sorry to eavesdrop on your conversation by the way haha)
Yeahhhhh, I figure but I see people do it and at listen you know I was talking to you.
lol OK cool
My phone is retarded.. Sometimes it auto corrects actual words to random letter mashups, lol.
yeah sometimes they do. you should be able to turn auto correct off in either your keyboard or phone general settings
preach.
We don't need sex. I don't need sex. It's not a make it or break it thing and if it is as long as your clear about what you expect your not an asshole.
This is a joke.
Hormones can drive girls crazy, especially aroung teenage years, and even if we decided to abstain, the moment we start telling ourselves that there is no room for compromise, we act out.
I'm sorry to break it to you but girls want sex just as much as guys do and thinking you NEED sex to survive is just dumb
trust me, its not even close
dude I'm 16 so I'm horny as hell but I can still control it because I know that most girls want a gentleman who needs love not a sex machine who wishes to use them like some tool
u don't need it, it's just a desire
That's where you're wrong kiddo
You will not die if you don't have sex. You will for if you don't drink water or eat food for a certain period of time. So no, you do not need it. You're just a horny teenager bro.
Yeah probably, just wanted to share my opinion, sorry to have triggered you @trisarahtops94
original 😂
not completely a desire, sometimes it's a need also
@nationwantstoknow how is it a need? what is the purpose of sex? I think ur mistaking the words 'need' and 'want'.
there are some circumstances which you can overcome if you have sex, like stress anxiety etc there sex can be a great medicine
@nationwantstoknow it can, but what is the purpose of it?
lol, you need a purpose to have sex its a feeling like love, you want your partner to touch you, make you feel comfortable, and once you get into each other for quite long you then also start describing your love with sex sometimes
@nationwantstoknow the purpose of sex it to unite the husband and wife and to have children. So there is no need for guys to just hook up with girls, just so that their desire is complete.
well even I'm against hook ups I hate when people just want sex to fulfill their desires but if you are in serious relationship then you can have sex with your partner and for that you dont always need to have a reason yeah basically people do sex to have babies, but some couples also do it to relax you will come to know when you will be in relationship
@nationwantstoknow the only time i will have sex is with my future husband, when i am married
well being with husband would also mean a relation so just to make point, once you will have sex with your husband, you will get to know whether its for a purpose or not
@nationwantstoknow yes, i know that there is pleasure in it, and God created it for that between a husband and a wife and for the purpose of multiplying.
well you have very traditional thinking on relationship and I really like it very few people think so you really remind me of my childhood
@nationwantstoknow thank you. and thanks for being respectful
respectful? in what sense you said so like what made you say so
@nationwantstoknow lots of guys i talk to try to make me believe in their point and get mad if i don't.
lol everyone has it's on views on love, relationship so I don't force my point and you had your views very clear and I respect that
@nationwantstoknow thank you and i respect ur veiws too
thank you and good luck for your future well if you have another account we can talk over there
@nationwantstoknow what do you mean another account?
on other social media this social stage is something different so that's it
you do ffs
@nationwantstoknow yeah, i have other accounts for other social media
@Dave_ what is ff?
@puppyz123, what other social sites you use
@nationwantstoknow i use Instagram
oh cool mind if we can connect there PM your link
@nationwantstoknow i don't think that's necessary
lol, you need a reason or purpose for every thing you want to do respect that and don't mind for any later recalls
@nationwantstoknow yeah, i do need reasons and purpose for most things. because i don't want to do something stupid
well I aspire your intentions and also worries but knowing someone is simply a gesture, where no one can act stupidly its just I like your views and just want to extend it a further
@nationwantstoknow yeah, true
that's why said you if we can connect there and you can PM your link
@nationwantstoknow why can't we talk on G@G PM?
lol, you tried but seems some setting problem in your account, so could not reply you there, that's why asked you for another account
@nationwantstoknow oh, ok
well, now I hope you got a valid reason
@nationwantstoknow not quiet valid, because there's no reason for us to talk
yeah, seem very conservative cool be what you are that's good
@nationwantstoknow i am sorry, most people think I should be more chill and just go with the flow. But if you go with the flow you might end up some where you don't want to. it's like you are going along in a stream and then go off a water fall.
nothing to be sorry about but yeah there's nothing wrong in going with the flow unless you know with what pace and in which direction you need to going along the stream and knowing your goal, you will never fall into a water trap but yeah again its you who has to decide what flow you need to follow
chilling is on one side, and knowing where you want to head and then enjoying accordingly is what you need to learn
I'm pretty sure everyone knows that people (not just men) feel the NEED for sex... But no one is going to DIE without it.
But the part most normal people have issues with is how they go about getting it - lying and cheating...
-Only talking about those kinds of men - and they're usually the ones who feel the need to write these kinds of Qs...
If you are married... yes. she is required to have sex with you... if not... no not really :) it's our body so we decide. ok?
Not just that but you should read about the biology behind a women's body. We also need sex actually and desire sex more than most men thinks we do but comments like this is some of the reason women gets dry down there I guess..
I wish more women were well educate on the topic of sex likr you.
but it's still as far as I've found impossible for women to like sex more than normal guys
according to what is a married woman "required" to have sex with her husband? because legally that's false. if the woman doesn't want to and calls the law, it is indeed possible for a man to get in legal trouble for RAPING his wife.
I know... a married women doesn't NEED to have sex with her husband if she really doesn't want... but with marriage comes sex - an intimate commitment to each other that you will become one... I worded it wrongly I am sorry
it's cool. I would expect every decent male and female to know that marriage involves regular sex... lmfao
No but if you read about sex drive and what scientist says... it shows that women loves and wants sex as much as men do. :) we might want it at different times, and variations when it comes to sex drive... but trust me. Women LOVES sex. We talk about sex all the time, and many of us are horny all the time and think about it often.
When you can have multiple orgasm at the same time... why wouldn't women love sex?
that's great to hear! I know my girl is. we just need to get her out of her parents house and living alone with me so it can flourish lol
wait whoa what? tell me more about the multiple orgasms simultaneously and how to achieve them please!
Lol.
I can only tell you have I achieve it with a guy. Remember every girl is quite different... but try and see if she likes it :) You want to get her relaxed at first, when she is relaxed, it is time to get her aroused but do it carefully, but giving her soft kisses and touching her body, make her feel sexy and wanted, tell her to relax and just enjoy it and start working the CLITORIS! This is how 90% of women have orgasms. Most of the focus needs to be here... this is how most of us achieve our own orgasm. I would start rubbing it gentle in circular motions, and go a bit faster by listing to her breathing.. if she breath faster, you will go a bit faster. I get so horny that most of the time I don't mind having a penis inside of me... just gently penetration.. so you can do that if she is trying to reach for you penis. Just to this, and I like getting my ears licked or bitten to or eye contact, some girls like that too... if she is relaxed enough, she will orgasm.. even multiply times
OK thanks!! I'll see her next weekend and try it. it's pretty hard to get her to orgasm...
In spooning position of course... but she can make her self have an orgasm right?
yes. what part (s) exactly in spooning position?
Is she completely comfortable with her body... or you touching her body?
Hard to explain it... 😅 you need to google it.
you can do it... and yes she is.
she's never stopped me except a couple times that I tried anal before licking her there first lol
Oh... I see you love your girlfriend a lot 😅 most girls can orgasm even with guys it is just about how relaxed and comfortable she is. And get to know her clit. This is the secret to any orgasm... penetration does almost nothing to a girl
Ladies and gentlemen from my experience in life and knowledge... guys we are programmed to want sex... girls you can get the D anytime you want... Now the issue with how important is sex in a relationship... to some guys it is and I'll tell you why some are you guys no fence have the entitlement that you should get it at any time you want at your disposal
On the flipside to that coin lady's when you have a man who wears his heart on the sleeve you can express your love through sex some couples bond that way... if the woman is having womanly issues at the end of the month guys you need to be more understanding of her needs going to the bathroom take matters in your own hands and move on with it...
i just have to laugh at this question. i won't give my opinion
but in time you will learn the answer to this question
I love and enjoy sex personally. so I'm not sure and don't understand why women hate or make excuses to not have sex. it doesn't make sense to me either and I'm a woman, sorry
THANK YOU!!! Thanks!
You're welcome
Pregnancy maybe lol. Orgasm is the need I guess. Intercrural sex might be the best option
are you fucking retarded? of course no man with regular levels of sexual activity would ubdergo abstinence the same can be said of women, if you can't deny your hormonal impulses to the point it becomes a "need" IE something you cannot function as a normal human being without, then you might need to see a therapist because A thats a dangerous point of view and B a "normal" human being can quite happily do without sex, I'm one of them just because I'm over the amount of drama that having a partner brings, do I enjoy sex? fuck yes. is it a need? fuck no.
learn some self control you'll be all the better for it.
why the fuck os this popping up on my alerts 24/7?
I don't need it, maybe I have low test though, maybe I need that checked
You can survive without sex and doesn't literally need it, but someone rather wants it.
I guess we should all just throw in the towel and be empathetic to men's needs. I'll just bend over at the first sign of a testesterone crazed boy having a serious medical issue... -_-...
Or you know... Maybe not.
www.womenshealthmag.com/.../5-myths-about-female-desire
How did you manage to get both your hands cut off? Must have taken a long time to type this post with your feet.
Hahaha, why do you think so?
Guess he thought you were a sex addict. @panda, bro, love for sex doesn't means the person is a sex addict and can't see and think anything beyond sex. 😂
This is bullshit
Just because you don't understand it doesn't negate the subject
They should understand. I feel the same way. Oddly though not just for some good d*** but for that person I am lusting over. That's just me. And women crave it too. They are lying if they say they don't. It may not be just to get laid but for that contact of a person you want to be inside you and intimate with
You seem to be confusing 'needs' and 'wants'. The idea of survival is real, meaning someone would die without their needs being met. This includes things like food, water, and shelter. A want is one step up in the order from needs and is simply something that people desire to have, that they may, or may not, be able to obtain.
You will not die without sex, and there are plenty of humans on earth as it is. If you really want a kid, adopt or foster one. No one is there for just being a sexual object to make a baby then put back on the shelf. You ( and anyone really) are not entitled to any person and their uterus. And if you are really 'burning' on the inside because you're not getting laid, I would recommend a sex doll.
damn right
the populations would die off if mens "needs" werent met..
population would die if women stopped having sex/babies
correct.. whats your point?
same point as yours
technically someone can die if denied sex frequently.. it can cause stress/depression that can lead to congestive heart failure etc. but that goes both ways, not just for men lol. we are equipped with sex drives for a reason though.. most of the time it is instinctual and chemical balance changes in our bodies that force us to crave sexual intimacy.. so I would say that it is a need and a want at the same time. I have yet to have sex, but that doesn't mean that I don't crave it.. everyone copes differently to those urges and deals with it differently as well..
Sex dolls are nice =)
It would take a very long time for 9 billion people to die off and a long time to even notice a decline in the population at all, even if every woman on the planet decided to become abstinent. But nice try making a case for male "desire" out to be a biological "need" to populate the world.
@ssilver so if everyone stopped having sex now, the population would die off in around 100 years.. no human race left at all! our bodies are put together to multiply therefore it is a need no matter how much you want to argue it isn't..
It isn't even a possibility that people would all stop having sex. It would never happen. Even if all the women said no, which would never happen, men would just see as their duty to rape them. Justified by biological need, I guess
@ssilver so you agree it is a NEED then?
Perhaps in part, bit I think it's more of a desire. If it were a need, no man could practice celibacy or be asexual, and there are many people who are, and they have not died. Maybe originally it was to promote the species, but the population is huge and it is less necessary for everyone. People have options and there isn't a huge demand for every single man to reproduce. It is an ego thing for sure though, in a lot of men. There are some who couldn't possibly fathom that their "name" or "legacy" (lol) to not live on.
yes biology changes with circumstances.. sex was used as a survival instinct but it isn't as necessary now.. but your argument still has flaws. for example, I am an only child.. the need for me to have sex to prolong my family and keep my bloodline running could be a instinctual motivator as well as a want.. as a human being we need a lot of things that look like they are wants, like acceptance, gratification, appreciation, consolement.. humans are complex and each person is handled differently from the next, so I think that it is in fact possible for a man to feel the need to have sex..
in that regard, sex is more like a stepping stone to get to a real need, like acceptance, approval, human contact, love, etc... I see where your coming from, but I think the real need is actually deeper than the the outward expression of what a man feels that he "needs".
To add on to that point, I think a lot of men rely on sex to mask other emotional problems, that they cannot or do not want to deal with. It may be too painful to face. I think that's why men turn to porn frequently, because it is a numbing experience, free from obligations of life and a way to divert emotional pain instead of exploring the root cause of it.
I have emotional needs which includes sex.
I hate how men are stereotyped to be sex hungry peices of shits.. I want to LOVE someone, but where I live everyone is a whore. I'm for someone I can have mutal respect and trust with, but it's hard.
Small town?
No, just a shitty neiborhood.
I'm on dating apps and shit now so here's to hoping🤞
I know that feel kind of bro. I was dealing with gold diggers in a village for some time myself... It wasn't good at all. It warped my view on women, dating and relationships. Damn that sucks! Keep it tight bro!