Sexual Relationships 
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Why Do I Need A Guy?
Anonymous
Let's start with sex. I can take care of myself. I already know exactly what I like. If I want to orgasm six times in one day I can. If don't want to at all I don't have to. As a virgin, I don't have to learn how to have sex, who I'm going to lose it to, when I'm going to lose it. I have a high sex drive, and I can take care of it and not have to depend on anyone to help me contain it. STDs aren't a problem, and I don't have to worry about cheating. Unwanted pregnancy, nope. As for kids, I want to adopt anyway, so that isn't a big issue. And no pressure about going through pregnancy from a guy who wants kids of his own blood. Also, most women end up being single mothers anyway. And I get to raise my kids exactly how I choose with no interference. Moral support? Love? I have family and friends for that. I'm not without either. And these people already know me pretty well. Loneliness? I already prefer being alone, but I don't have to be. I can be a bitch at times but who isn't, and in this case I don't have to worry about a boyfriend getting offended or mad. I can do whatever I want, talk to whoever I want. I don't have to worry about controlling or jealousy. Money? Well even on dates I always prefer to pay for myself. I want to make my own way anyway. I wouldn't be satisfied to have someone else make my living for me. Protection? I've been through a lot in my life, and there was no guy there to take care of me. I've obviously proven that I can get through it on my own. If I didn't need one before why would I need one now when things are going pretty good? I'm also very protective of the people I love, it would be just one more person I'd be worried about. There would be a big issue about me protecting him. I can live without that problem. Commitment? I suck at commitment, and every guy I have ever looked up to, that wasn't family, left when things got too rough. Drama? Who needs it? I get enough of my fair share with my family. If I want an argument it's not hard to find one. (I hate arguing, I was being sarcastic.) Marriage? Most guys don't even want to be married anymore. And I think I can live without a wedding. In conclusion, I'm seeing a lot of upsides to being single. I'm free, no one to answer to, no one I have to cook for but myself. Any responsibility I have is for myself for the most part. In this day and age I have everything I could need to live a single yet suitable lifestyle. I get to choose how I want my house decorated. I get an entire bed to myself every night. I can have any career I want until I decide to adopt. Any money I get I get to spend how I like or need to. It just seems to me, that to bring a guy into it would just be the pure definition of lunacy. I'm fully comfortable with myself and who I am. And yes I'm attracted to men but only when I'm not with them. Did I miss anything?
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There seems to be a misunderstanding among some of you that I hate men or something. That is certainly not the case. My best friend is a guy, and he's like a brother to me. I love him dearly and I'd give my life for him. The point of the argument is not why I hate men, for I surely do not, but why a relationship with one is so important. These points are opinion, not fact.
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As for those who say a guy would not even want me, well I definitely know that is not true. It doesn't matter though. What does bother me about you saying that is what you could do to the self esteem of a girl or guy who would take that to heart. This is girls ask guys, a place where you can ask questions you might not be able to ask your friends. We should be supporting each other not tearing each other down.
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Alright fine. I wasn't being completely honest. The real truth is that my dad was an alcoholic who would beat my mother and my brother. I'm sorry that the thought of ever living through that again scares me. I'm sorry he broke my heart when I'd forgive him and give him a second chance. My brother died three months ago. He was twenty years old. Again my heart was broken. So you want to know what I know about love? That whoever you love will either hurt you or be taken from you.
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 15Having sex with a cucumber may feel great, but the cucumber doesn't love you. Women want security, protection, someone to be physically and emotionally connected too. Someone willing to die for you. As a guy I can't wait to get married, and treat the lucky girl as a queen. Showering her with love, respect, and awesome sex. Being her protector, a great listener, and a shoulder to cry on.
Wow, I'm too tired to properly answer all of this.
Only thing I can say is this day and age it's okay to be a single female if that is your choice, no big deal.
There are more upsides to being single than being in a relationship with a guy. It's true.
True arguments are not hard to find. For sure you got that right.
In fact the people who want to be in a relationship probably crave arguments.
It's fine, fine, fine...all of it. You don't want it and you don't need it.