It's a visual thing. Guys naturally are more stimulated by visual. That's why they instantly get s boner just by seeing a girl in a small dress. So, while he's just watching your reaction:
One- to see if what he's doing is right.
Two- because it's a turn on for him to see how much he's pleasuring you.
Three- it boosts his ego and self esteem knowing he can bring you pleasure just with a couple fingers. You know how guys are.. Hahah.
I personally love it when my boyfriend watches me. It sounds creepy, but it's true! I LOVE the fact that he is getting turned on just by seeing me all hot and bothered. And not to mention, I feel loved because there's that bond. And when I actually do open my eyes, I see not only the lust, but also a lot of love in his eyes.
So if you ask me, it's totally natural and definitely not creepy. Especially if you are in love. Hope this helped! :)3 7 0 0I guess I like it, especially just the eye contact. He'll usually just stare into my eyes if I'm too distracted to kiss him haha, so it's nice. He told me he likes to do that because he can kind of see the pleasure in my eyes, but he also likes when I can't even keep my eyes open lol.
1 2 1 0I like him staring at me, to be honest, 'cause I feel like it's turning him on, and so that turns me on, etc. etc. :) Mine sometimes will touch me as I touch him, and I've noticed him watching my face a couple times, so I think it's just some kind o visual stimulation.
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I saw an experiment once where they tracked eye movement of men watching p*rn.
Everyone expected the men to focus on the genitals and breasts, even the subjects themselves.
Truth was, the men spent the majority of the time looking at the girl's faces.
When they did the same experiment with women, they found that they indeed focussed on the penis.
The explanation given was that in a man, you can tell he is aroused by his erection more than anything.
In women though, the biggest give away is facial expressions. Men seek for confirmation that the woman is aroused and thus focus on her face.10 2 0 0Interesting.
i don't necessarily stare but I do look for the reactions, its the only thing that lets me know if I'm doing right. If I am and the reactions are what I expect them to be then it turn me on. Either way I'm good at it so I guess its just another way to get more into it.
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9 9I've always kinda wondered that too. I assume they're just watching your reactions.
I guess it does turn me on, though more so if we're making eye contact. Hah, and yeah, if my eyes are closed, it's not going to make much a difference if he's staring or not.0 1 0 0Both reason are correct. It's to see your reaction to what he is doing, if what he is doing, does he do it a bit longer then if it is something you don't like? It's a turn on for him knowing that with just a fingering he can bring you pleasure.
0 0 0 0Yeah, I notice that he does it again and longer by a certain reaction I give off. You are right.
The reason he stares at you is more for YOU then himself.
it changes but my ex would stare sometimes because watching my reactions would turn him on.
i didn't find it creepy at all I kinda liked see his reaction to me getting off...0 2 0 0I'd prefer to just be making out with them. I think the guy just sitting there staring at me would be creepy. Or maybe staring in my eyes. That's about it though.
0 1 0 0maybe he wants to see your face while your getting turned on lol
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