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Why are older women attracted to me?

I'm starting to notice that more older women are showing an interest in me. I don't think there's anything wrong with it but I notice that most of the females who are attracted to me are either a few years older to about 20 years older. One woman who is about 40 said to me that I'm easy to talk to, goal oriented, love to have fun and financially stable. Another just said that there's just something about me. Why doesn't this normally appeal a younger woman or a woman my age? Maybe it does and I just haven't noticed it.
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  • women are wiser, fresher thinkers. men in the past, have been teritorial and thinking women were for their plesure and to stay mostly at home. Now the mentality of men that are in their twenties are much more sensetive, aware, equal to women. And older women find it refershing, how men have evolved in these past few decades. A man in his 40's was tought by his father from the 40's, a man in his 20-30's was taught from a father in the 60's. Much better, much more aware and gentle awarness for a man. And we love that men are changing from a wild man with a stick to a man with logic and awarness. Huge difference. And because of that, women can relate to men better. So we're experience a flip side, to women no longer want older men to take care of them. And now women can relate to younger men because they're evolving. But younger women don't know that yet.

    • Great answer. Thank you very much. They one woman did say that I seem more keen to her needs. I am actually thinking about asking her out on a date and see what happens. She is an attractive older woman with a lot of stability, intelligent and fun. A little harder to find that in my age group but I know it exists. I guess right now is just good timing. This is definitely a new venture.

  • I don't know but I get older guys who creep on me all the time. I am 22. At work I've gotten hit on by older customers (40s) and co-workers (30-40). It's so weird. I attract all these creepy guys. I think it's just my personality. I am nice and friendly. I'm not the prettiest girl, but I'd say I'm cute (def not ugly! haha)

    I wish I would attract more guys my age though!

    help me with mine please? link

  • The whole 'cougar' phenom has made women think differently about the playing field. It is hard to find decent guys or guys that may be interested. Going younger widens the pool. Also the older some guys get the nasty and crankier they are. Some young guys are way more understanding and patient. Perhaps you are less intimidating. You should ask them.

    • Thank you for the first REAL answer, lol.

    • Well honestly, I justme20 was a bit blunt but she has a point. Old horn dogs are a big turn off especially if they are overweight. I'm not flattered when these washed up guys with kids in tow approach me with their stories. Younger guys are probably more open to learning from their mistakes. Older guys seems to have a one-trick pony formula that appies to all women. If the formula is decent OK but mostly they are lame.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You asked this same question maybe 2 months ago? Again your English grammar is awful like it was last time. They are attracted to you because you are assuming they are. What you believe is true it the truth. Fruition my furry friend fruition.

    • First off, I never asked this question before. I think you are confusing me with someone else. Second, I had one grammatical typo in my question. Third, your second to last sentence wasn't grammatically correct. So thanks for the English lession :-).

    • True lol but when you 1st asked this it was almost the exact same-having severe headaches and meant to have the it as an is. I do not care though. you can ask this 78687678 more times

    • Haha. I'm telling you dude. I never asked this question. You are confusing me with someone else. I even checked my account. So maybe those headaches are affecting your memory.

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  • shouldnt have done anonymous for this question

    • Why is that, lol?

    • Example, my friend and I were catching up on FB and I wrote "ok cutie gotta go" and then he wrote back " why do girls always think/call me cute? :-) " The moral of this story is he wasn't cute and I quickly logged off after that and he still till this day ask me that same dame question

    • oooook

  • we want young d*** not some old, washed up used d***

    • Ha OK. Well I'm 28 so I don't think I have an old washed up one.

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