Why , why and why some guys do not like to wear condoms when having sex?

I mean I know the eternal excuse "it does not feel the same". Is that really the only reason for not using them, if it won't be for that would you still use them?

Protecting yourself from unwanted diseases or pregnancies just cost a few bucks why to risk getting a disease or get a girl pregnant that will cost the person her and his whole life instead? Dont some guys think about that? isn't that selfish?

I mean the guy just plant the seed and do not have to worry of carrying a baby with all the pregnancy effects for 9 months or possible complications a woman or the baby may have, the guy do not have to go through that but us women do!. Dont you think also about that as well?

Also if neither one has no plans of having babies, WTH the guy still do not want to protect and use a condom in case the lady can't use BC for some particular reason. Also it is an adult wise choice to use it, not using them is like acting like a kid, act as a responsible adult and wear them.

There must be in the market some condoms that are of thin texture so you can feel something at least, but remember that is not about your pleasure and security, it is most for the woman safety.

I had a friend several years ago that told me that the guy she liked told her that he does not like to use a condom because it does not feel the same and she told me like joking "imagine me at the precise moment of sex worrying about it if I will get pregnant because the guy is not wearing a condom, I be all worried at that moment, I may not even relax myself and simply won't be enjoying the sex because she is worrying about the consequences" That is not pleasurable sex at all!! If you ask me, but the guy is only thinking in himself, not us the women.
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I understand that here the responsibility lies in the man just as the woman and men could ask, well let the woman also protect themselves not just us right? But there are countries where many female BC methods are not even sold in the country, and condom being the cheapest choice is sold everywhere. BC pills are only prescribed by the doctor. For example in my case I have never been on any BC method at all in my life because I had never been sexually active so no need for me to ever been on..
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any method for so so so many years. Probably soon I may get laid for the first time so my only choice in this case is for the guy to wear a condom and he told me he does not like to use one because it does not feel the same, and neither one wants to have kids but we are not like a couple, we are friends who are just getting to know each other.
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  • The sexual desires sometimes overtake the rules that needs to be followed while having a type of sex in which partners do not want a baby like wearing a condom or guy likes the feeling he gets when the penis is inside the vagina.

  • I don’t have sex with condoms because it’s just not even close to being as good.

    Physically, it’s better without because condoms would affect my erections, feel rubbery and weird and smell horrible. They also look really, really weird!

    Mentally it’s better because without a condom there isn’t a physical barrier between my partners vagina (fuck buddy or GF) and my cock, and that’s important to me. It also allows for more spontaneity!

    Once you go bareback you never go back to wearing condoms 😉

  • I totally agree, you pretty much said it all with valid points, it’s usually after you have been exclusive with each other after awhile and get checked for STDs that you would even consider to start not using one and have some other form of birth control

  • I wouldn’t have an issue with a new girl. A girl I’ve been with forever and we know each other and have taken the right measures then condoms are gone.

    • They shouldn't be if she wants you to use them.

    • Absolutely! Or don’t do it.