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Why won't my guy go down on me?
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I go down on him all the time, like it's going out of style! I'm clean, I shower, shave etc. At first he did it when we were first together, but now (about a year later) he doesn't do it. I confronted hi, asking if he would do it, and that he SHOULD be doing it. All he said was that he didn't like it and wasn't good at it. He basically refused, no compromising.
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17 22If he doesn't wanna do it for you, don't do it for him. (even if you enjoy it)
You'll be surprised at how quickly he'll be willing to do it again :)
try finger ur p**** and smell it.If its stinks then its the reason behind
I'm sorry he won't go down on you. Have you ever tried laying on ur bed naked, legs spread wide open and say "Lick me"
I know exactly where you are coming from on this one! My guy is the same way. He went down on me way before I was comfortable enough to return the favor. When I asked him why he stopped going down on me he said that he didn't like to do it and he has to be in the mood. To me that is total BS! I give him head pretty much every time we have sex, so he's just selfish.
I also tried the I'm not doing you if you're not doing me thing, but that didn't work! I enjoy pleasing him, so I still did it even though he wouldn't. So now I'm just like you...again!
I get the enjoying pleasing him. I get that you talked about it. However, have you ever waited till the heat of the moment just before sex, and just straight up told him, "I want you to go down on me right now." Tell him you want him to lick your p**** and make you beg for him to be inside you. a little dirty talk can change his outlook favorably to this act. Maybe I'm saying more than I should, but sex should be about making each other feel good, right?
communication, making him feel comfortable while he has his mouth on your vagina... are you using that summers eve "crotch soap?" not saying it smells but little things like that turns me off. hey if you smoke pot your vagina would taste soooooo sweet... believe me it is true.
good luck.
I've heard of eating more fruit, i.e. pineapple, and avoiding garlic to change your taste, but pot..... wow! never knew that.
Let me go down on a woman anytime...No complaints here
How about you stop giving him head. He will soon or later get the picture. And if he is saying he don't know how tell him you'll direct him or something. geez I can't make my boyfriend stop going down on me. Not like I want to stop him he he he :D
what? a guy that doesn't enjoying going down on a woman?that boy needs help...seriously soon...if he won't do it get a new boyfriend or don't go down on him...ladies are ALWAYS first here...as any gentleman will tell you. She takes a little longer so the time should always start with her first. WOW! don't know what I'd do if I met a girl that didn't enjoy that. Good Luck...call me ;) hehe
your guy is a tool, go get a new one
DUMP HIS ASS!
maybe he's not experienced or it intimidates him.
i love it when guys go down on me. in fact, I wont' go down on a guy unless he does it to me first. or you can talk to him about it
The only time I refuse to eat it is if she's got some stinky crotch going on. Ask him if that's the problem.
I've heard of this before, the guy does it while you are dating and he needs to win you over, but then stops after he figures he has you. This happened to a F friend of mine.
You could boycot giving him BJ's, see if that works. Or just leave--he doesn't seem to care very much about your happiness. I wouldn't fault you if you just left.