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Why wouldn't a one night stand add me on Facebook?

I lost my virginity to this guy on a one night stand (drunken experience) . Despite the fact that he didn't call me the next day, he wouldn't even add me on Facebook. I don't understand what I did to not just be a "Facebook friend". Obviously, I'm never going to see him again but I thought I was being polite asking to be his internet friend. Am I wrong for this? I was thinking about writing him a letter on Facebook asking what's up, what's the deal. What else should I say?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Ok, that's the thing...Facebook is for friends and adding you on Facebook or having any contct with you ...period...defeats the purpose of a 1 night stand. Realize that all he was interested in was sex and dosen't want anything more than what he wanted that night. Not a friendship and basically wants nothing to do with you. I would just move on and learn from this experience...You shouldn't say anything...Move on, girl...most Guys are like that...they get what they want and move on --you should too.

    • Thank you

  • OMG PLEASE DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES WRITE HIM A LETTER ON FACEBOOK OR A MESSAGE! If someone doesn't add you, don't send them a message. You will look desperate. I'm sorry you lost your virginity that way, but most guys do not want to speak to one night stands again. That's why they're called one night stands because you f*** one night and then stand up and get the hell out preferably never to be seen again. Please learn from your experience and move on.

    • Its not really the act of desperation, more like what a f*cking jerk! But anyways, thank you.

    • Of course he's a jerk, but you knew what you were getting into.

  • you are thinking about WRITING HIM A LETTER? that is PRECISELY why he doesn't want to be in contact with you! look, he got what he wanted, and if he keeps connections with you, you will want something more out of him no matter what.

    he's playing it smart. you have to forget him.

    • That makes a lot of sense. I didn't think about it that way. . .

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you made ANY attempt to contact him afterward? If you want him for a Facebook friend--or just for Round 2--speak up! Make it known.

    • No, I havent. But I did add him as a friend to just keep in contact but he didn't accept the request. So, I'm finished with that

  • Probably because you were a one night stand. You were just someone that he got to bang and now he wants nothing to do with you.

    • That was harsh, but true.

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  • Why would you want something to do with someone who obviously wants nothing to do with you? Save you breath, he is an ass and isn't deserving of your time.

  • i'm so sorry for your stupidity.

    • I am sorry too

    • Now learn something from it and forget about it and better your life.

    • Me 2, me too

  • Umm it was a one night stand, you weren't that good that he wants to do you again...sorry get over it...

  • Reason why you should not drink!

    • Exactly. I actually gave it up.

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