Will he lose respect for me?

[Anonymous]

Last night, I ended up giving this guy I have been seeing a blow job and let him go down on me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 months and have been friends for about 6 months.There is no commitment... but we are dating/hanging out. I really want a relationship with him. I'm a good girl so this isn't the norm for me. Will he think less of me (think I'm easy or lose respect) for doing this? Is 2 months an okay time frame to do this? I cuddle with him a lot and we make out but I told him I won't have intercourse unless I am in a committed relationship. What is an acceptable time frame in a relationship to do this kind of thing?

[kheserthorpe]

That's pretty slow, its not too fast. I don't know what commitment means. If it matters to you to know if he's seeing other girls, ask that specifically. You can be willing to take things slowly and see where they go while also saying you're not willing to fool around with him if he's seeing others.

If that matters.

[Asker]

He's not seeing anyone else. I just meant we aren't officially a couple.. no label yet. We are sort of dating / hanging out but it's complicated because he's friends with my brother. I have been taking things slow which is good... I was just worried he'd start thinking I was easy and lose respect. I really like him. Thanks for your answer!

[kheserthorpe]

I think you're fine, and basically 'casually dating'. You're not 25-29 are you. It does impact timelines, though in this case probably not by enough to change any of our answers ;)

[Asker]

I am 27 and he's 24... first time I've ever been involved with a younger guy.

[kheserthorpe]

2 months to fool around at 27 is not remotely fast. Relax.

[Asker]

Okay, great. Thanks. haha... Yeah, I really need to relax. I just don't want to screw things up. :)

[sunseeker11]

that is a good amount of time and iam sure he don't think less of you He was trying not to be a dog but he would have taken it sooner, good luck

[Asker]

That's a relief! Thanks... yeah, I hope it works out! :)

[MorganTey]

No he won't lose respect for you. You didn't just jump into this. You guys knew each for a while before seeing each other. And 2 months is a respectable time frame

[Asker]

Ok, good... I've been kind of worried. Thanks so much!

[Anonymous]

Aww sounds like you like him a lot that's sweet. Just try to keep it cool and no 2 months is a good time to start doing.. Stuff.. lol. Have fun :) link

[Anonymous]

I think your doing just fine girly. Stop worrying. Youve known him for 8 months, that is alot!:)

Answer mine? :$ link

[Asker]

Okay, great! Thanks for the response! I answered yours as well. :)