Will my boyfriend be able to tell I had sex with someone else?

So a couple days ago I f***ed this guy with a huge d***. Since then I've noticed that my vag opening seems bigger and more stretched out..will my boyfriend be able to tell I was with someone else? I think me and him will see each other tomorrow and we will probably have sex..
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  • He'll definitely notice. The only thing is that he won't actually know, unless he finds cum stains on your cloths, so you should keep fucking this other guy & maybe 1 of his friends.

    You should get your boyfriend into bed & ask him if he wants to watch porn with you.
    That way you can play with him, while asking him what he would think if it was you being fucked in that video.
    That way you can open him up to the idea & let him know you've always thought about being with another guy, like maybe 1 of his friends (while you're currently stimulating him talking about it).
    Then ask him to record you blowing him & tell him that you want him to think of you as one of them other girls in the video & imagine that you're blowing someone else.
    Then stop & tell him to call one of his friends to come over tomorrow & grab his phone to send your home made video with your number.
    That way you can fuck however you like, when ever you like & as long as you share a video of it with your boyfriend, he'll be ok with you being his very own slut.
    This just means you're going to have to be having a lot more sex

  • No, your boyfriend won't be able to tell just by how your vagina feels when having sex. If both guys have said you're really tight then unless you have sex with this guy a lot of time plus your boyfriend then he won't be able to tell because you'll always shrink back each time after you're with this guy because it won't be all that often. Even if there is a slight difference your boyfriend won't notice that unless he's very suspicious ahead of time. It would really have to be a lot looser in order for him to be able tell the difference. Just make sure you're your usual self when having sex with your boyfriend so that there's nothing else to question.

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  • Your vagina doesn't automatically become loose because you have sex with a lot of men. Unless he's trying to shove his head up your cootch repeatedly, you hoo-ha will retain it's shape until you have babies. Think of your vaginal walls as a balloon - blowing a little air into it does not distort the shape. It's when you blow it up completely - leave it that way for a while - that causes it to be stretch beyond repair. Fortunately, that vag is not made of latex, but muscles. There are exercises that can be done to retain your virginal tightness - or at least get close.

    I'm thinking it's more of a psychological problem that you feel you vag is larger than it really is. Could be paranoia that you're going to get caught or remorse for betraying your man - something I guess you need to figure out on your own.

    • I disagree. He will more than likely notice

  • You know I'm getting really sick of people on here being so judgmental. All this girl asked was a question and I'm sure all she wants is a straight answer. Why is that so hard for people to do? I don't think she needs people lecturing her and what she "should have" done, because obviously it's too late for that now.

    And he might be able to tell the difference, but if you don't want to be with him, then just break up with him so you both can just move on.

    • Ya but it's not necessarily too late for her to not make the same mistake... Look relationships are all about COMMUNICATIONS... If your in a committed relationship you just cheated on him and quite frankly I personally would walk away without any remorse... But then again I'm not about commited relationships I just try to be the best man possible and let her decide whether or not she wants that. Just my two cents

  • I don't think he'll think anything of it because he probably doesn't have the possibility of you cheating with another guy in his head. It sounds like you don't want to be in this relationship and would rather live the single life of not worrying about things like this. So I suggest you just break it off with him.

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  • he might, I would. Not only body language as some people suggest, also the smell. Add to that the bodily fluids from yourself, if not present when they are usually there, then there's something wrong.

    But mainly the body language plus the smell. I'm a weird individual though.

  • 1) It's possible.

    2) Your actions, body language and what you say have a higher chance of giving it away than your vagina does.

    3) What do you think he'll do when he finds out?

    Intuition happens on both sides of the sex divide. If he becomes suspicious it'd be best to offer the truth than to have him deduce it.

    • Of course... that's assuming you're remorseful. If you're not, then just dump the guy and go for the d*ck.

    • No ways he will not find out,just try to be wet....

  • He will be able to tell a difference. And I have no respect for you. If you wanted out, you should have dumped him. Not cheated on him. You have no idea how terribly it hurts to find out your girl has slept with someone else. All it would take is a 30 second phone call... "hi, its over, bye". That would be soooo much better than cheating, and its just as spineless.

  • OK lets run through this slowly! Last night you f**ked a guy with a large d**k, cheating on a boyfriend that you think you are f**king tomorow night, but want to break up with anyway? Have I got this pretty close to right?

    • Yep. Pretty spot on!

  • Well that's not really the issue. The issue is, would you have a problem telling him the truth if he did notice and ask about it?

    • No, I would be able to tell him. I have been wanting to break up with him for a while actually..I just wanted to know if it's possible for him to tell by looking at it or if it might feel different.

    • Well it's not out of the question but I don't think it's something you need to be all that worried about! :)