Would you date a former rapist?

Question

Let say this person was covicted at some point in their life of raping an individal, but has since reformed 5 years latter. Would you consider dating them?

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Suppose the rapist guy looked like this

 

The rapist girl looked like this:

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think so. I do think that people can change to an extent, but I've always been terrified of rape, so much that I used to have reoccurring dreams about it. When I explain the way that my first boyfriend and I had sex, most people tell me that what he did was rape. It's sad that I wasn't even fully aware that what he did would be considered that. It never happened again and we broke up shortly after and said I "made a big deal out of it" and was a "buzzkill." Rape is just messed up. Pushy guys suck. Girls shouldn't have to live their lives knowing that people they care about would do that to them. Having that you raped someone on your record would be hard to overcome. Looks are irrelevant. If the best looking guy on Earth raped someone it would be hard to see him as anything but a rapist.

GirlScout · Accepted Answer

You are a rapist if you raped someone, you aren't a retired rapist, its obviously in your nature and you are perfectly capable of stepping over that social boundary again.

I'm all for second chances and reformation, but no. No way on earth I'm dating a rapist. My ex boyfriend confided in me once that he thought about raping this girl, he was following her down the street after a night out... I couldn't ever trust him again, couldn't get it out of my head. Thankfully the relationship didn't last long.

LightsOff · Accepted Answer

Hhahahahahahhahahaha no. And even if that guy wasn't a rapist his body still looks fucked up.

dangerDoge · Accepted Answer

I'd say maybe, but probably leaning towards no.

Despite the looks, I have to be damn well sure of her personality. I have to believe 100% that she has corrected her ways and that she is not like that anymore. I have to see true regret and her not just brushing it off like it wasn't a big deal. I have to know she'd never do it again.
If we clicked and I sincerely believed that she had changed her ways, I'd give it a chance. I think people can change, but it is rare that they do. I'm not going to completely shut her off because of her past mistakes-- it was in the past, but it is going to be a very big obstacle for her to convince me that she reformed.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hell no. Why on earth would such a hot woman have to rape a dude? She could easily have consensual sex with any guy she wanted, which means she has to be off her rocker. No matter how hot she is, there's not enough makeup in the world to cover up crazy.

XRabbitHeartX · Answer

I could never date someone who has raped enough person... people who rape are sick and twisted.

goflipaburger · Answer

Absolutely not. I could never trust him. Nooooo thank you.

Genie23 · Answer

No, no.. NEVER. Fuck no. I wouldn't ever date a rapist

SensualScribe · Answer

Not knowingly. I could never date someone who would take advantage of someone like that.

Analisa2015 · Answer

no, i would not.

justbanANNAz · Answer

no. messed up af. looks do NOTHING for me when i know something like that.

Whoooooooooo · Answer

That guy does look like the type to spice a girls drink so that he can take advantage of her. How does a girl so fragile looking rape a man?

thedevilwithin · Answer

Nope, i couldn't think of them romantically after finding that out.

Amyb90 · Answer

Never in a million years regardless of looks  Unrelated who's the girl though I love her hair

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Looks will fade in time but the personality changes less. However tempting it may be, I don't want an inhuman peace of shit of a partner, even if they're the most attractive person in the world.

Mesonfielde · Answer

The first guy looks pretty damn messed up body-wise. If I were female, it'd be a total no-go. In fact, I'd want nothing to do with him. The girl looks cute at first glance, but she's insane. NO.

TatyanaTheEmpress · Answer

Hell yes, that guy is hot, besides, he can't rape the willing ;)

zombiebabe · Answer

hell naw!! i won't date a former rapist!

starchick21 · Answer

Hell to the no! I don't care how hot he is, I could never date a guy who's raped someone before.

RandomUsername3464 · Answer

Stupid questions like these are why I will not use this site anymore. Please think before you type something, people not thinking before they type things is why this is such a horrible website. This question should be removed.

iamyourneighbor · Answer

Of course not.

Doffydood · Answer

I probably wouldn't actively seek them out, but if they say they have changed and that they are truly sorry for what they did and they asked to be my girlfriend, I think it would be unfair to deny them.