A guy friend asked me to give him a blowjob for his birthday?

[Anonymous]

i'm not that close to this guy, but i have a feeling he used to like me? or at least likes the way i look because he's told me i look pretty and cute on various occasions. its his birthday so i asked him what he wanted and first he said nudes, then i thought he was joking so i asked him again then he said blowjob? i'm honestly quite scarred from that interaction but i'm not sure if this what guys do? and i don't know if i'm overreacting so please tell me, guys and girls if you've ever asked your friends this as a joke or if you've received such a request? and do i tell him that i'm creeped out?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like he see's you as judt a friend.
He was being kinda disrespectful considering that you're not a couple or even dating.
He sounds like he was kinda joking and kinda not to test the waters.
Still, a blowjob is a pretty forward thing to ask you for if you're just friends.
It seems a bit disrespectful.

[Asker]

THANK YOU!!! i was kinda offended by it but didn't know if it was right to feel that way sigh i don't know what goes on in that brain of his...

[Opinion Owner]

Hormones I guess? It's tricky if you really want to be friends with boys. He should've at least asked you on a date or something instead. Not ask for nudes or a blowjob. That's rude. He needs to treat you better than that. You're right to be s little offended.

[Asker]

thank you so much!! yeah guess he's just got that 22-year-old hormones raging

[OlderAndWiser]

A joke is when one person says something and other people laugh. This does not sound like a joke.

There are some things that should never be the subject of a joke and anyone with a modicum of social sensitivity should know this. Drop this guy from your friends list.

[Asker]

thank you!!! i'll take note :(

[Anonymous]

If I like him and he's single.. I would do... hmmm... Wait... *Slaps my cheek* when he's done with me, he would ran into other female dogs... So no.

[Asker]

HAHAH true!!

[Paris13]

BLOW JOE OFF FOR HIS BIRTHDAY GIFT. xxoo

[JackSmy]

He likes you, and really does want you to blow him!!
You need to tell him that it isn't going to happen!! Tell him your boyfriend, and say something about him being HUGE or a Navy SEAL or something, wouldn't let you, and just have a happy birthday, but it's not happening!!

[Asker]

HAHAH thank you!!! i will!!

[pierre7i]

He's not a friend, that's a more than creepy thing to ask of you (and I bet anything you like was not joking !!)

His sense of entitlement is quite pathetic really, scary too, and totally disrespectful of you. Don't interact with him again, keep him well out of your life

You can find better friends for sure !

[Asker]

thank you!!!

[blkgold33]

It could be both you know. The real question are you going to do it?

[Asker]

haha nahh i'm not into giving friends sexual favours

[Nohbdy]

Ahhh i dont rwally know but if you are a strong independent womon then say something smert and nice while meaning no but not the no where its like yea but no like I respect you but im independent but not the stuck up kind... I've never dated or had this situation so what do i know

[Asker]

thank you!!!

[oncpl]

It is not joke. He certainly likes you to give him bj. I believe you too are somewhat mentally agreeable otherwise instead of posting the question, you could have refused him.

[Asker]

ahhh i never entertained the thought tbh i just wanted to know if i was right to be offended and creeped out

[oncpl]

I still go by my comments. You were not annoyed, rather thinking was it appropriate, and what should you do.

[strraku]

Bj is nothing he wants to fuck u
If u want to test it then ask him will he mind for sex damn sure he will be jumping with happiness
It is normal to be creeped out
U r not overreacting

[Asker]

thank you!!! i don't think im going to ask him about that, but if our friendship ever progresses into a relationship, maybe i'll consider it lol

[hisokadb]

Wtf thats prob a joke that wants to be true but what u gona do

[Asker]

i'm going to pass unfortunately LMAO i don't really wanna blow him as a friend omg

[blythely]

You did ask

[Asker]

yeah but for a birthday present? FOR A FRIEND? not sexual things fml

[blythely]

Buy him a Fleshlight

[Valnac]

Friends don’t ask friends for something like that. Tell him to grow up.

[abc--123]

Be honest and tell him he crossed a line

[CubaPirate]

Tell okay as long as your friends can watch. Then when he gets his cock out all point and laugh saying he's a disgusting loser

[Asker]

HAHAHA thank you

[blythely]

Lol.

[Anonymous]

lol u should tell him to follow u to a room and drop to ur knees and then be like jk im not gonna suck it haha

[Anonymous]

What the hell seriously 😂?

[Asker]

i know right... this was really weird i've never had this said to me before