A guy is calling me a racist because I won't sleep with him... he is black. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

I shouldn't have to prove myself to him. I think he is just trying to bully me into sex... it's not going to happen.

[StewieRH]

What an asshole! He is just trying to pressure you into sex.

Being racist means discriminating against them and not treating them the same as a white person with the same personality.

Not wanting to have sex with someone is not being racist: black, white, mixed race or any other colour of the rainbow - you don't have to have sex with anyone if you don't want to, that is up to you and you shouldn't be made to feel guilty for not wanting to do that with someone.

[Reallio]

I hate how everyone pulls the fucking race card nowadays. "I just tripped on the sidewalk!!! THAT SIDEWALK IS RACIST WTTFF #BLACKLIVESMATTER!!" (Kys who ever acts like that btw)

It's not racist to deny sex from someone, if you're not attracted, you're not attracted. You don't have to prove you're not racist to anyone, especially by sleeping with a black person. That guy's a retard.

[indoorkites]

He's a loser that plays the race card. Its hella tacky.

He probably actually believes that you are - it's easier to just write you off as a racist than to deal with the fact that he wasn't desirable to you.

[SinghSong]

She's playing you. She's actually a troll who's posted a few other questions, all with the message 'f*ck black people', and none of this is actually true.

[Asker]

@SinghSong this guy is very sick in the head. I think he escaped from a mental institution

[SinghSong]

Perfect confirmation of my point. Thank you, Asker.

[Asker]

@SinghSong you just confirmed mine thank you sing sing

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

Actually I was let out for good behaviour.

[SinghSong]

They can read my profile, and all of my posts, to affirm that I am who I say I am. They can't do that with you.

[AzureGirl]

He just wants sex and is bitter you won't give it to him. Ignore him.

[Thrifty]

Babe, you're right. And, what he is doing is BS, too. Just know that you don't have to be a people pleaser. You can't make everyone happy. You will disappoint some people.

But the point is that you don't have to please them because it's not about them anyways. It's about you and God. So do what is right for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

He is probably accustomed to playing the race card to get his way. This sort of bullying represents reverse racism, but I suspect that someone will jump in here, try to defend him, and call me racism for saying something critical of a black person. . . because that is the PC thing to do.

[SinghSong]

Aren't you the same anonymous 45+yo troll who did that "Discrimination against Whites" MyTake, and that thread about "To people who believe that the police are so evil... would there ever be a situation you would call them?"

[SinghSong]

Seriously though, I can't believe that so many people are taking the flamebait. Get a life...

[Asker]

I've never wrote a take. You have the wrong person

[Asker]

You don't know me. You get a life.

[SinghSong]

Ok, that reaction definitely confirms that you are the same woman, and that I'm spot on. Make up whatever you want if it makes you feel better about yourself, stir up as much racial hatred as you want. See if I care.

[Asker]

Go away I will consider this harassment

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

I will consider this a sex offence

[Asker]

@SnatchFinderGeneral you are so sick seek help...

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

I consider that fraud

[Asker]

@SnatchFinderGeneral LOL

[Goldie757]

He's an idiot who cannot take a rejection, feel sorry for the girl who says yes to him.

[Jxpxtxr]

Hahaha what's new?

[Asker]

This has happened to you?

[Jxpxtxr]

Oh god soooo many times, I think it has happened to the majority of women at some point. I think it almost comes natural for most guys to react like entitled butthurt brats when they get rejected nowadays..

[Asker]

Well I'm not attracted to short men... I wonder what that makes me.

[Levin]

They were human right? You wouldn't sleep with them because they were human :P

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

That makes you a racist, but a racist who also hates short people.

[Asker]

@SnatchFinderGeneral I have reported you for harassment... leave me alone

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral no, it makes her a person with preferences.

[Jxpxtxr]

@Levin lol I'm trying but it's so hard!

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

Yeah, that's what I said. A person with racist preferences.

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral how is it racist if she literally only stated she doesn't find short men attractive? Racist would be something like "I don't date Asian men because they are all ugly." or "I don't date black men, I don't date criminals" but she literally only made a statement regarding her own preference when it comes to height.

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

Yeah, if you want to ignore the whole point of the page that this conversation is happening on.

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral so first she was racist and now the entire website is?

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

umm, no? Do you know the difference between a web page and a web site cupcake? On this web page, OP asked if it's racist to not want to sleep with black men. That's a racist preference. She also hates short people. That part was a joke.

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

She was expecting an answer to what not preferring short people was called. The joke was that she's still a racist no matter what she thinks of short people. Get it, sweetheart?

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Web_page

What you're talking about is called a "thread".

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral she was also referring to ONE SPECIFIC individual, not all black men as a group. Learn to differentiate.

[Jxpxtxr]

@SnatchFinderGeneral lmao so this is what this is about? Your personal issues with OP? K, bye.

[madhatters4]

when some people are emotionally stung they sometimes resort to anything that will help make them feel better

he thinks by calling you racist it gives him a reason why he isn't appealing to you that soothes his feelings of rejection

[becca123]

^^^^^^^ This. ^^^^^^

[Soteris]

Just say that you would not sleep with him if he was the last man on earth and walk away. You have the right to chose who you sleep with in any way you chose even if they are "unfair" or "racist". The public does not have a right to your privates.

[Asker]

So you think it is racist I won't sleep with him...

[Soteris]

Not necessarily but even if that was true it would be in your right to be racist. It literally does not matter.

[Asker]

I don't want to sleep with a short man... what does that make me

[Soteris]

A person with a particular taste in men? I dont understand the problem here.

[JuicyBrain]

People will try to manipulate you all the time. I have been called a mangina by man and a mysoginist by women. I have been called a homophobic by some, gay by others and I have also been called racist. You don't let people manipulate you.

[Berethor]

He might as well think/say that you are racist, who care? don't give him what he wants.

[abc3643]

You are not a racist.

[ThisDudeHere]

He indeed is trying to bully you. And pathetically so.

[Blanchmess]

He is just trying to trick you to sleep with him

[wankiam]

depends, why won't you sleep with him? i suspect it has nothing to do with race by the way

[Asker]

I have a boyfriend... besides I don't want to just whore around.

[wankiam]

then i think he is just a c**t and doesn't matter what colour he is

[zombiebabe]

you can't change his mind... ignore him

[CHARismatic110]

You should ignore him.

[abundantlyrich]

You can call him a rapist to even out the racist label

[Rick_Woodlands]

Yes. He is. You are under no obligation to have sex with anybody.

[Phoenix98]

LOL OMG I have the absolutely perfect video for this !

https://youtu.be/H2HSRPBCJcQ

[Eugene]

You totally must take his cock up your ass and afterwards suck it dry to prove you're not a racist.

On a serious note, always ignore dumbfucks that at least once tried to play race card.

[AhGojira]

Typical victim complex. He has no personal responsibility. Everything that happens to him is someone else's fault, because he's incapable of directing his own life.

[jacquesvol]

White or black, that guy is a butthurt loser.

[JoannaB]

pathetic guy...
I'm sure that's why you didn't want to sleep with him :D
And not because he is black.