ADULT XXX: The main argument I have seen/heard against porn is that it is unrealistic and gives false expectations... can I ask this question?

[laurieluvsit]

... unrealistic with false expectations meaning that the things seen in porn never really happen, and that every girl should allow every guy to do everything he has seen in porn or vise versa. But does that argument make sense to you?

So if you watch an action flick like they are making now where the female star karate kicks every muscle bound he-man in site to the ground means that every male is going to expect every female to be able to preform like that? ... Hello?

I know there are many reasons why some people don't like porn even though the majority of both guys and girls watch it, or have watched it, according to dozens of surveys. I don't want to focus on all the reasons, but for this post, only the most predominant one that I have seen over and over again.

If you had a magic wand or were writing or producing a porn film yourself and were going to show EVERYTHING THAT "IS" REALISTIC, exactly want would you show to make it more realistic?

Put even another way could be, what exactly are they doing in porn that is not done in real sex?

Could it be that those that say it is not realistic are just those that have never done anything outside of vanilla sex, so they are looking at it from the perspective that if they aren't doing it so no one else is either?

This is a sincere question. No crazies please. I really am curious as to how people think about this, aren't you?

[Anonymous]

To be fair it's mostly the girls doing most stuff. The majority of girls just lie and play dead, in porn or in real life. However, each person can have their fetishes, kinks. I doubt one guy will fantasize about all acts in porn.