Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Advice for a 18 year old virgin about to crack?
Anonymous
Hey so I’m a virgin and never had a kiss or boyfriend. I’m lonely and I keep going on tinder finding cute guys and saying I’ll come over. Then I get scared and tell them nevermind. Honestly I don’t want to lose my virginity to someone I don’t know, but I’m really lonely and sexual. I don’t know what’s wrong with me I was raised with morals and I want to be a traditional woman who isn’t a whore, but I’m struggling. Can someone give me honest advice on self control and how to wait for a romantic partner. I’m very sad about my decisions to even consider giving myself up to strange men. Something inside of me wants to be wild but I know I will pay for it later.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 40It you don't want to lose it to a guy you don't know then don't do it. Occupie your mind with other things wait until you get a boyfriend you don't want I lose your virginity to some random ass dude if you do I promise you'll regret it
Go talk to guys in nonsexual manners and find a guy you like then go lose it.
Hmu and I'll give you some tips
You need to find someone you like and care for clear don't want just anyone if your horny touch yourself but toys
Just be careful, a lot of sexual predators hang out on Tinder.
You're not whore unless you charge money for sex. Get to know them first and see how things go. All guys are not just looking for sex. Some people just want someone to spend time with and talk to and are happy with that.
Avoid social media. Get an actual hobby, because media splashes in your face sex
It is a major dilemma, but you are right to want to wait. Society has overly sexualized women to the point that if a woman isn't a slut, she's a prude and that is far from true. I have only had sex with one person and she was my only serious long term relationship. But it takes serious focus and restraint to not cave to these desires. I did it by finding something in myself that gives me satisfaction and enjoyment.
just let what happens happen you will learn and grow
You do have good morals. That's why you realize yourself. Don't you have anyone to talk to for companionship?
no before the pandemic I didn't have anyone I liked and that carried over to now unfortunantely.
That's okay. Are you feeling more impulsiveness to find & get with a guy, or are you feeling more lonely?
Also, get rid of Tinder. It makes you feel great for a few minutes, but you're really hurting yourself, long term.
What are your interests?
How about doing other sexual acts instead?
You and I are actually in the same boat luv. I'm a virgin at 21 soon to be 22, and if that's not enough I was born with "conditions" that heightened my emotions and senses, which makes sexual feelings intense among other things.
For me, feeling alone is a permanent and crushing feeling, sometimes i have to punch a tree till my hands are bloody just to focus myself. My advice luv, is don't do anything reckless as you will likely regret it later, keep trying, maybe throw yourself into doing something, anything to keep your mind off of it. Whatever you do, don't sit still.
Just wait till it's right
Don't give it to randoms. My advice is to actually develop a relationship with someone and be sexually active with them.
Go with right person
be patient.
it is common to be sexually active aat your age.
avoid tinder like websites.
don't be desperate nor you will lose your virginity and dignity to a pervert.
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Question? Have you used a dildo yet. If so your not a virgin. If not go buy you one satisfy your needs and make that pussy rain girl. Have fun😎
We'll don't do it with a stranger. If you have best guy Friend, do it with him
stay strong. That voice in the back of your head telling you you will pay for it... IT'S CORRECT. You've done well so far, don't throw it all away to some loser on tinder. As some guy below said, focus on finding someone long term. You're going to have to keep it in your pants for a while. If you put out quickly guys are more likely to view you as a hookup, and I can totally see how easy it is for girls to be used this way. It's a slippery slope... be careful