Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health After a while, would you feel like you’re no longer “enough” to sexually satisfy someone whos slept with a lot of people in the past?
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Call it insecurity if you will, but I just feel like people who need to sleep with a lot in life aren't sexually satisfied for long. I’d feel like theyre always looking for something new. I remember my first ex said no matter what we do or try sexually, there would always end up being someone else because he can't be with only one pssy in life. He continuosly cheated on everyone he dated. He even told me once “Hey you’re gonna be wifey but a man’s gotta have girlfriends too.” GOSH, first boyfriends are the worst 🤣 So glad i stepped up and stopped taking him back. At the same time, I dont feel sexually satisfied for long, but i dont allow myself to be with many. I rather watch porn if need be or if im dating, keep learning some new tricks (though i’m not open to most). Personally, I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if i surpassed a certain number of partners in life. But at the end of the day, we’re all different. #FeelFreeToList #AnEasyScore #NeverSatisfied
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13 43Well, since I have a highh number. I can't really answer this and be objective. Lol. Why I, never disclose how many I, have been with. Because, a lot of people get disgusted. Lol.
But do you still get satisfied easily? Or not for long?
Oh most definitely. As long as she gets off first. Like a few times. Lol. And I always produce good results. Lol. Again why they always return. Even if it os just to have closer. Lol.
What i mean by this question is that, if it was truly good, you’d commit to just one right
Possibly. But I am to old to be commenting these day's. Because then they would want to get married. And I, am never getting married again. Lol. I have a few partners these day's that know it's just physical. And when I am with them. No one else matters. Just for the time we are together. Lol
Some people do what you are describing, but it is unrelated to sex really.
Whats it about then?
It's complicated but think of it as an addiction.
I’ve been with my girlfriend for twenty five years I’m not sexually satisfied only because we don’t do it as much as we did in the past but I wouldn’t cheat on her
Oh yea i can relate to that. I hope she gives you more
It won’t happen I haven’t had any since October last year
Then leave her ass. I wouldn't date someone more than 3 years without marrying em anyways
The marriage thing is a long story but we have kids together the youngest is 11 the others are 25-23
Thats old enough to understand that mommy and daddy are no longer working out
It’s gonna happen soon already been talking with my youngest about it
Just dont jump in bed with the first pussy thrown at you. Take your time and find the right one who will give it to you whenever you want it
I’m definitely taking my time I’m going to focus on getting a new place a new job then my son if I have time maybe start dating
Yes yes yes
Nope. Just means they got around. That shouldn't equate to them not being satisfied.
But why else would they get around
Either by hoe phase and ready to settle down or that was the only way they knew how to express themselves. Probably both. Unless he admitted to cheating multiple times. Then, just refer to the former of my reply.
I wouldn't be with someone i knew had been with many
Me either lol
Having an unusually high sex drive can be a little... frustrating to say least lol
Yepp
No. Id just remind myself theyre with me now so I must be SOME sorta special...
Or just another experiment
Sure, possibly. But, I have to remind myself daily not to be so pessimistic. can't live yoyr vest life thinking like that. Sure you may avoid a lot of troubles but, you may also miss out on treasures. Just my.02?
Im often optimistic. Vut with this topic, not so much
By using this logic, you're essentially giving others lower and authority over your life. Dont fall into that!!
Nooo because i wouldn't date someone whos had a lot of partners lmao
Lmao! So one of your very first (first 24hrs) conversations with a prospective mate is, "whats your body count?"
I can't even say proudly 2 because i was mad at myself for even surpassing 1
I have a high drive, when I was with my ex wife she loved the attention and closeness from how much I wanted it but also didn't care about my body count either. After a while it did get bland because she didn't want to try new things. Then it got to the point where we're almost 30 minutes in she'd cum and then tell me to stop because it hurt
Damn. Yea you needed to date a freak and she needed to date a vanilla. But you're married so ig you gotta make it work
It all depends i don't think it's my folt women I've been with don't have much of a sex drive so I've been with more but it's cause they lie and say they was a addict and not if I have it I need it all the time. It's a problem.
They lied and said they wanted sex a lot?
And didn't even want once a day like wtf the?
Lol i make it clear that i won't be puttin out til sometime after 6 months at the leas lol
I can't be round a gal I like and do nothing for 6 months its not possible too want too i don't think lol
I still jerk em off and some other teases. And i love to get my tits sucked and get fingered and makeout. But thats abot all they’d prob get
Yea okay I'd love to see you not let that lead to sex. If you have a guy that knows how to lol
They did very well and it didn't lead to sex. I have to be engaged or nearing engagement to wanna give it up
I mean a good tease
Like what
Like I dought you know and I won't tell you I will say yes when you have covered it all if you want to try pmsl 🤣
No. Only felt like not enough a couple times and it wasn't the number of men she'd been with. It was just because of one guy and the sex they had. So it wouldn't matter if I was 2and after him or 50th. I would never be enough.
Oh wow
Ended up catching her with him multiple times
It seems reasonable to think that if a person has a high number of sex partners, that it would be more likely that they would stray during marriage or in a relationship. Some of the reason are that they obviously take sex more casually than most, don't find having sex something that tends to make them want to stay in a relationship, etc.
Ahh ok
How come you you don't stay sexually satisfied for long?
I don't know. I want more and more but i understand people gotta breathe 😂 but i dont wanna breathe. I wanna keep going til i can't go no mo
So if you could find an Energizer Bunny like you, would you then not lose interest in the sexual part of your relationship? Because with your ex, he was just a guy who doesn't like monogamy. I'm trying to understand if you're the same, but just choose to not act on it.
Oh no i definitely prefer monogamy. And i definitely want an energizer bunny. My first ex didn't like monogamy but he was also a selfish lover. He didn't allow anyone else to cum. Also he was a minute man. I recall only 3 times we actually went 30-45 mins. But the majority, he came in 2 mins and went to play ball. I didn't know what cumming was until nearing the end of our relationship after we had got back to together for the 50 Millionth time
I think it would be rare to find a guy that can go for 30-45 minutes, but I could be wrong. And I think the reason they can go so long in porn, is because the camera has a pause button. So, what if after the two minute thing, instead of leaving you hanging, he went down on you and finished the job that way? Would that have changed your view? And of course he could have used toys on you.
Oh no i mean i need him to cum in less than 15 mins. But i want him to cum multiples times throughout the day. When i have sex, i like to go all day. He needs to be able to cum 3-7 times that day. Im not into sex toys and i prefer to give rather than receive. But yea i just like to go until it hurts. My other ex and inwent from 10am one morning til 2am the next morning. I couldnt spread my legs or walk after and i finally was satisfied
Holy shit, that's 16 hours. If you don't like toys or receiving oral , that would be very hard for you to get what you need. I know how you feel about having too many partners, but you'd be perfect for polyamorous arrangement. Just you and your 4 boyfriends/husbands. LOL
I also dont masturbate. But yea if i had that many bfs, one would suck my left tit, the other would suck my right tit, another would eat me out, and another would makeout with me lmao
No masturbation? So do you have a guy now?
No guy atm. My last was in September but i didn't have sex with him. And i only masturbate during phone sex or when teasing the guy. Other than that, i dont masturbate when watching porn and atuff
Well, with your drive, it must be driving you crazy. When you have phone sex, does it have to be with your boyfriend?
My drive doesn't exist until im giving in. Once i give in, I don't know how to quit
And the phone sex wasn't with just boyfriends. Ill make a question about it soon
I'll watch for that question. What do you mean by "give in? "