Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health After having sex for the first time, did you realize that sex wasn’t as big of a deal as you thought?
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46 57Sex was what I expected it to be
after having it for the first time i loved it more than i thought i would.
Sex feels great its also really good for stress relieving and depression.
My first time was painful.. I was raped and almost got pregnant.
Sorry to hear that
This is a assuring for a Virgin.
Wasn't till my like 3rd partner that I realized what all the hype was about.
Haha sadly same
Why’s that?
A lot of guys don't know what they are doing and its just mediocre
Fair enough. I don’t see how we’re just meant to know. It seems like women don’t really have anything to worry about as they just lay there doing nothing complaining.
95% of sex is the man putting effort into it. What do women do? Women are useless. You can be blessed with an 7.5 thick big dick like me, intention to really try and satisfy each other. Yet a woman won’t be happy because she doesn’t have the sense to explain what she wants. Another thing. You’ve had 3 partners. I’ve never understood how women make love many guys then ‘love’ another
I’m a virgin by the way
I had sex with someone that I didn't particularly like, and even that totally blew my mind. So it turns out it was a big deal :)
On the contrary, I was hooked. It might have been awkward and a little painful and too intense at first, but I crave it frequently.
Good sex is amazing. If sex was never good for you, you probably are not good at sex
No one stated sex doesn't feel good. It's just not everything either.
Yup. I thought that when I lost my virginity, I would go from being a girl to a woman. Lost my virginity at 24, and I'm like "great what now?"
Nope. I found out I love it. Still do.
If anything, I thought sex was much more of a big deal than I thought before. I think that your first time must have been pretty mediocre, and disappointing overall. So to me, that’s simply not how most guys view their first time.
The answer to your question is: of course NOT.
No it’s a really big deal
First sex was great. Disappointment came few years later with other girls.
We will have to find out after I lose my virginity, lol. For now, I look forward to it and dread it all at the same time.
Yeah i thought first time wasn't hard and painful as i told for lifetime. I enjoyed a lot
First time I just did it because I could, and I wasn't blown away.
The second time, I did it with someone I really liked and it was fantastic.
The person changes the experience
The sensations in the sense of body pleasure disappointed me. But something else, the erotic feeling was highly addictive.
That's an interesting way to feel
No my first time was one of the best and strongest orgasm I ever had. It was a deal breaker.
What made it so good? What do you mean it was a deal breaker?
Actually after the first time all it did was make me want to do it again
Yes. I thought that first time would bring me heavenly bliss but I was very disappointed. I was in love with the guy, wanted to do it with him.
i did not feel a slightest sign of happiness when we did it. I had already orgasmed when we had oral sex before or when he just caressed my labia or massaged my pubic bone.
Immediately after I phoned with my best female friend and she said this will be better in the future. Only the fifth or sixt time I orgasmed slightly and a few weeks later I feeled that bliss I was expecting from penetration.
Sounds like you felt at least a bit of pain during your first time?
@scooogy A sharp pain but only a few seconds when he entered.
@helva yeah but I guess that ruined your mood.