Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health After how many dates is it considered ok to do anal sex with a guy?
Anonymous
A few guys seem to have different expectations. 1st date, 3rd, 8th, 6 month anniversary, 1 year? Prob is, I kinda like it, we have had sex a few times, dated for maybe a month but I don't want to look like a skank and turn him off. Other guys have said they liked it but no way would have a relationship with me cuz of that.
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2 31When you feel its time.
There are no rules about this. You can have it whenever you want to and whenever the guy is willing.
we did it on first date haha but yah maybe after how many dates I know some
It happens when it happens
However long it takes for you both to be comfortable with the idea. Maybe talk about it first?
if you like it do it, grab his cock and put it there if you want, if he has a problem it is that he is a boy, not a man
Like you said, every guy is different and there's no time table exactly. But you've had sex already, so it's probably safe to start "exploring". Maybe just get his thoughts on anal sex in general first and go from there? You also have to be the real you with him or you're not going to be happy (and you want a guy that accepts the real you right?). So if he doesn't like that you brought up the topic, then he's not right for you anyway lol. That's the way I see it.
if your already sleeping with him just do anal
yeah i dont get it just ask him to put it up ur butt lol. have u had anal yet?
@MarkyMark77 oh yeah, most of the time it's great
After marriage; if you even do it at all.
Never? At least with me.
If I don't fuck her in the ass on the first date, they won't be a second date.