Am I a bad girlfriend for refusing to give my boyfriend a blowjob?
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So it is that time of the month for me so he as per usual expects a blowjob but yesterday I got badly burnt in the sun so it hurts and I didn't feel like giving a 30 min blowjob at all. I told him that after he asked me a few times, now he is kinda pissed/down. Am I really at fault here? Should I have just manned up and did it despite not wanting to?
No and if you don’t feel up to it then it’s not going to be good for him anyway, besides 30 minutes is bit long for that usually unless you’re liking what you’re doing and into it, I really don’t want a blow job from a woman who isn’t into it
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Anonymous
+1 y
he should've understood tbh
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Anonymous
+1 y
Ugh trying to guilt trip me never works, I’d just be like okay then, bye. Clearly he’s thinking about himself instead of you. That’s not love. Personally I’d seriously be questioning if I wanted to keep seeing him. My answer would definitely be no. If that’s not a complete turn off I don’t know what is.
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14 31No and if you don’t feel up to it then it’s not going to be good for him anyway, besides 30 minutes is bit long for that usually unless you’re liking what you’re doing and into it, I really don’t want a blow job from a woman who isn’t into it
he should've understood tbh
Ugh trying to guilt trip me never works, I’d just be like okay then, bye.
Clearly he’s thinking about himself instead of you. That’s not love. Personally I’d seriously be questioning if I wanted to keep seeing him. My answer would definitely be no. If that’s not a complete turn off I don’t know what is.