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I'm 27 years old virgin, religious guy.
I'm good looking about 9/10 (as told by many) and I'm 6 feet tall. (1.83 m)
I earn 6 figure salary in Microsoft.
I got so many opportunities to get laid in my life. But all I ever did was making out because sex is not allowed before marriage.
Now, Im looking for a woman to marry.
When I take her out for a date , I tell her that I don't want to hide anything, I had a lot of casual sex and a lot of relationships. (I lie)
And She says she had few relationships as well.
I block her after that. She is out.
My friends told me that I'm shallow to want a virgin. But I think that if I can control my desires and save myself for 1 woman.
Why should I accept a woman who didn't respect her body, who didn't respect her future husband when she opened her legs in front of a guy just for temporary pleasure.
Also, i have seen on Google that a woman who had a lot of past sexual partners can never become a good wife and a good mother.
And the risk of promiscuity and divorce goes up dramatically.
I don't want to sleep with one eye open for the rest of my life.
Loyalty is my top priority, and I will never accept a disloyal, promiscuous woman as my wife.
Am I a shallow person?
What Girls & Guys Said
16 22Since you're a virgin. You're not shallow. You have standards. You're fine.
It's not wrong to want a standard one self matches, but it's not cool that you're a liar neither.
You sound like you wasted the best years of your life.. There is a chance you will find a virgin in your age group but she will be either crazy or 1/10 visually.. So, good luck mate..
Not really there is a lot of girls who save themselves for marriage and i dont think we are crazy nor 1/10 visually. Some people have different morals amd values than you people who have sex like animals just saying..
@soomin_kim Where? Japan? The Amish?
All this nonsense is pretty much a thing of the past...
Its not a thing of the past some people still have morals not all of us are ahem sluts
@soomin_kim Morals? Screw morals, if you're not living life to the fullest you're wasting it. You get one, that's it. And following this close minded 18th century thinking is wasting it in my book. You might think you are better thanks to this but you are not. not in the slightest bit. All you're doing is standing in the way of progress.
Yeah im not living my life to the fullest i should fuck a lot of guys get diseases and maybe get pregnant by one i should be like americans i should have been a teen mom oh no what am i doing with my life , just shutup man being an animal is in no way progress im not going to be a whore just so you accept me lol bye 🖐
@BeHappy1985 I feel sorry for you.
@soomin_kim I think everyone should do whatever makes them happy, and what I know is that girls that aren't as closed minded as you are, are having a lot more fun. Enjoy making your parents proud.
@Asker Not as much as I feel sorry for you.. And for any girl that will become a subject of your desires..
@behappy1985 you call it close mindedness while it's not it's just being a strong human who can control his desires and not be am animal , don't worry about me i have a lot of fun in my life if you think the only way to have fun is by fucking strangers then your life is pretty boring hun and im doing this for myself not to make my parents proud anyways have a good life take care
@soomin_kim Hypothetically speaking, what if the guy you choose to lose your virginity to turns out to have a 3" penis and is so bad in bed that he can't make you orgasm not even once, ever?
@behappy1985 i am actually engaged to a wonderful guy and you know you can ask questions if you are that curious before getting married right? I won't say how big his out of respect but he is way bigger than 3" and idc if he is bad in bed as i probably am as well since we are both virgins but we can learn together and we have the same kinks and stuff so i don't think that's really an issue for me
@soomin_kim I wish you guys the best of luck. Take care.
Thank you , you too~~
You're shallow, and totally unrealistic.
Sex is fun for both parties. and if you see it as a "sin" before marriage and see it as a women "disrespecting her body" then you seem like a shallow person yeah
You're not shallow. Everyone deserves a virgin
wheres my fkn vurgan? gimme! You will get even two of them @CT_CD!
@Andreas300787 Thank you
I don't think you're shallow per se, but the way you're thinking isn't right. What if the girl was raped or was really in love with a person but wasn't able to end up with him (can also be because the guy was dead). You need to have a better way of understanding a person than just looking for an unbroken hymen. Girls can be promiscuous even if they're virgin and can be loyal even if they aren't virgin. You can prefer a virgin girl, but giving it the importance you're giving isn't right. You might be losing on some best human beings. And humans have the tendency to mature a lot and develop as a person after they're hurt. Good luck on your search though :)
I have to say that your base is very strong and really you are a champion. I am also part of this championship and give up completely to marry because of not found a single virgin girl till now and started spying only for find truth for the sake of world and humanity because I also tell lie and misguide the enemies of world and humanity and also spread misinformation to them who already harmed people enough to block them forever. I see very great future in you against enemies of world and humanity. I do not mind if I die because you are going to the right path and you will find the truth of this cruel world that there are no virgin girl in this earth and if you find any and trust her which means she is the greatest spy in intelligence world who fooled you very well. I wish all the best and keep searching virgin girl to find the real truth. Best luck
You're not shallow. I want the same thing. God intended us to enjoy sex in marriage and in marriage only.
I don't know if you're shallow but you definitely have issues.
Firstly, you're dishonest or deceitful (pick which you prefer). You lie to her on a date and she opens up, so you block her? If you eventually find a girl you want, your relationship begins with a lie. What if when you tell her the like on the first date, she's scared to be honest with you, maybe she doesn't want to come off as not knowing stuff, compared to you, so she lies too.
Plain and simple, you come off as pretty ignorant but that's your own issue.
On the topic of wanting a virgin, everyone has the right to go for who they want to. It's your choice. You just seem to be going about it in a despicable manner
Another utopian! thanks for your contibution to the natural selection. You're doing the right thing!
Just natural selection... people who believe in such things maybe aren't supposed to have sex ;)
I don't think you're shallow. I'm same and refuse to have sex until I meet someone decent who I'll gonna love for all my life.
It's not like I wait till marriage though. I wait till a long term relationship or engagement.