Am I a slut for this, I feel ashamed?

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I’ve been with a guy for 2 months now and i sent him a nude. I just feel really ashamed I don’t know why? Is this slutty? I just feel stupid. My face wasn’t in it and I trust him he’s 30.

Mangospacho · Accepted Answer

Good thing your face wasn’t in it but they can get leaked pretty easily even if your 30-year old boyfriend doesn’t leak it himself. There was a girl who made a bunch of nude videos of herself back in the 2000’s for her boyfriend. Her college boyfriend’s roommate saw them and copied them and released them and she basically had to change her name. Since your face isn’t in the picture, it probably couldn’t be traced back to you so if you don’t mind it being leaked (come on, there are trillions of naked photos online), you should be fine.

MotorcycleMan · Accepted Answer

It's a fairly common thing, and I don't think of it as "slutty" if you've been dating a couple months. More just sexy and playful. Good idea to keep your face out of it and everyone trusts the guy they send pictures to, but somehow they often get spread around. Be careful.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honey I've randomly sent my husband nudes in pic and video form since about a month after we started seeing each other... its not slutty, you are sending them to your partner... realistically your body is his so why not show him his goods

lovedejj_xo · Accepted Answer

Wow if you call that slutty yikes …. wonder what that makes me lol but seriously all jokes aside who cares don’t slut shame yourself who cares!!! Just be safe.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Plenty of people do it these days, even with people they aren't in a relationship with. It's not something that I'd want to do, but I don't think it's slutty.

Nik1hil · Answer

Haha.. Relax girl..  What's wrong with being a slut?  I do not see anything wrong with that...

PuNishant · Answer

You ain't a slut till you have only fan account.

Neosporin · Answer

I like what the other girl said. Maybe you did it impulsively but if it's received well then no harm done

Lottifan · Answer

Plenty of people do it. Stop feeling ashamed of yourself. What’s done is done. At least you didn’t show your face.

Caunsos · Answer

No your not a slut. I would let him know your not comfortable with nudes.

Wise4myage · Answer

Stop beating yourself up for this and just don’t do it again. You did it right, so don’t stress.

joeldalton · Answer

No, not slutty.

vald9inches · Answer

How is that even remotely slutty? Are you Amish or something? Lol 😂

IncognitoBandito · Answer

You were feeling sexy no harm done

Tj87479 · Answer

it probably wasn’t the smartest thing to do but you could of definitely done worse. Lol. As long as your face wasn’t in it you should be ok, but he could show his buddies and say it’s you. I don’t mean to scare you but maybe you’ll think twice next time. Just trying to help.

FireFox001 · Answer

Then you shouldn't feel ashamed. Period.

IronsKev · Answer

No you aren't very good you kept your face out though

andy530 · Answer

No you’re not a slut. You likely feel shame due to internalized shaming messages about females and their sexuality. That shame can ruin relationships so best if you identify and work on it now rather than let it ruin you later

alltafgradur · Answer

Relax, it's not such a big deal ☺️

Bdsmaster · Answer

You don't need to be ashamed dear, you did what you felt right.

anylolone · Answer

Yes, every great ape is a slut. Shame is inevitable, if it wasn't this it would be some other stupid shit. Learn when shame is appropriate and that this hasn't made you more of a slut.

Better_off_here · Answer

everyone does that to a degree so as long as you feel alright with it

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Trust me your fine and your definitely not a slut

Zlantur2 · Answer

No, I wish girls were sending pictures after a while we are together.

Nightmoon12 · Answer

He will love it you can trust him and no you are not slutty

sandeepgowda · Answer

first of all sending nudes to boy is foolish thing.
sending nudes to believed one is not is equal to slut. and don't be ashamed.

AND i requests every girl please DO NOT SEND NUDE to anybody if you trust him.

Anonymous · Answer

Send him a video next.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol. You think this is slutty? Girl you have no clue.

Anonymous · Answer

If you're not having sex then it isn't slutty.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not slutty just foolish.

Anonymous · Answer

No that’s fine, i’m sure he liked it actually and it’s not slutty to do

Anonymous · Answer

Can I see it?

Am I a slut for this, I feel ashamed?

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