Am I a slut for this, I feel ashamed?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with a guy for 2 months now and i sent him a nude. I just feel really ashamed I don’t know why? Is this slutty? I just feel stupid. My face wasn’t in it and I trust him he’s 30.

[Mangospacho]

Good thing your face wasn’t in it but they can get leaked pretty easily even if your 30-year old boyfriend doesn’t leak it himself. There was a girl who made a bunch of nude videos of herself back in the 2000’s for her boyfriend. Her college boyfriend’s roommate saw them and copied them and released them and she basically had to change her name. Since your face isn’t in the picture, it probably couldn’t be traced back to you so if you don’t mind it being leaked (come on, there are trillions of naked photos online), you should be fine.

[MotorcycleMan]

It's a fairly common thing, and I don't think of it as "slutty" if you've been dating a couple months. More just sexy and playful. Good idea to keep your face out of it and everyone trusts the guy they send pictures to, but somehow they often get spread around. Be careful.

[Anonymous]

Honey I've randomly sent my husband nudes in pic and video form since about a month after we started seeing each other... its not slutty, you are sending them to your partner... realistically your body is his so why not show him his goods

[Asker]

Thank you this made me feel better!!

[Opinion Owner]

I'm glad it made you feel better 😀

[lovedejj_xo]

Wow if you call that slutty yikes …. wonder what that makes me lol but seriously all jokes aside who cares don’t slut shame yourself who cares!!! Just be safe.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well said

[DonkeyDan]

Plenty of people do it these days, even with people they aren't in a relationship with. It's not something that I'd want to do, but I don't think it's slutty.

[Nik1hil]

Haha.. Relax girl..
What's wrong with being a slut?

I do not see anything wrong with that...

[PuNishant]

You ain't a slut till you have only fan account.

[Neosporin]

I like what the other girl said. Maybe you did it impulsively but if it's received well then no harm done

[Lottifan]

Plenty of people do it. Stop feeling ashamed of yourself. What’s done is done. At least you didn’t show your face.

[Caunsos]

No your not a slut. I would let him know your not comfortable with nudes.

[Wise4myage]

Stop beating yourself up for this and just don’t do it again. You did it right, so don’t stress.

[joeldalton]

No, not slutty.

[vald9inches]

How is that even remotely slutty? Are you Amish or something? Lol 😂

[IncognitoBandito]

You were feeling sexy no harm done

[Tj87479]

it probably wasn’t the smartest thing to do but you could of definitely done worse. Lol. As long as your face wasn’t in it you should be ok, but he could show his buddies and say it’s you. I don’t mean to scare you but maybe you’ll think twice next time. Just trying to help.

[FireFox001]

Then you shouldn't feel ashamed. Period.

[IronsKev]

No you aren't very good you kept your face out though

[andy530]

No you’re not a slut. You likely feel shame due to internalized shaming messages about females and their sexuality. That shame can ruin relationships so best if you identify and work on it now rather than let it ruin you later

[alltafgradur]

Relax, it's not such a big deal ☺️

[Bdsmaster]

You don't need to be ashamed dear, you did what you felt right.

[anylolone]

Yes, every great ape is a slut.
Shame is inevitable, if it wasn't this it would be some other stupid shit.
Learn when shame is appropriate and that this hasn't made you more of a slut.

[Better_off_here]

everyone does that to a degree so as long as you feel alright with it

[Bklynbadboy12]

Trust me your fine and your definitely not a slut

[Zlantur2]

No, I wish girls were sending pictures after a while we are together.