Am I insane for hoping that this shy guy who crushes on me have sexual thoughts of me?

[Anonymous]

Like masturbate to me, thoughts of fingering me etc.

[Berethor]

You can't read his mind, though why would he think about fingering and not more than that? :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AllMenArePerverts

[abc3643]

No. He already DOES have sexual thoughts of you.

If you know that he's crushing on you, then, if you are both available and you want him, then make the move and become a couple with him. This is the 21st Century! Girls can make the first move.

[Asker]

How do you even know that he already has sexual thoughts of me?

[abc3643]

Because I am a straight male with a penis. If he is crushing on you, then he's jerking-off to you. That's like the 11th Commandment or something.

[Asker]

nah, i don't think he has jerk off to me. Cause he looks like an innocent, quiet kind of person who doesn't talk much

[abc3643]

All you have to do is ask yourself these three questions: 1. Is he straight? 2. Is he healthy? 3. Is he into me? If the answer to all of these questions is "Yes", then he's jerking-off to you. Every other straight male at G@G will agree with what I just wrote.

[Asker]

errrm, its a yes for all 3 questions. Wow so that shy, quiet guy has indeed jerked of to me

[abc3643]

That said, WHAT he's thinking about while jerking-off, I cannot say. For all we know, he is thinking about fingering you, but he's just as likely (if not more so) to be thinking about something else sexual regarding you. "Fingering" is not a big "go to" as something to think about when jerking-off because fingering you brings you pleasure and does not involve his penis which is what really craves attention.

[abc3643]

Yup, so go for it! The moment you show him any attention, he will pop a boner right then and there and, later, go home and jerk-off thinking about you.

[Asker]

can you like share what he might think of while jerking off? Like what does he want to do to me with his penis etc

[abc3643]

I will only discuss stuff like that in PM. So, PM me if you wish.

[Asker]

how does even giving him attention pops him a boner? That easy?

[abc3643]

Yes, that easy. The more a male subconciously thinks his chances of getting female attention (and thus the possibility of getting laid), the more likely he is going to pop a boner.

[Asker]

how about smiling at him across the room?

[abc3643]

That helps, but doesn't do anything to move things along. If he is "a shy guy", you need to be proactive if you want him to act in any way.

[MrOracle]

Not sure why that would be insane. It seems pretty normal - for him to have those thoughts, and for you to want him to - so what's the problem?

[RemoErdosain]

I'm sure the shy guy would love it if you told him so. It makes you a bit of a narcissist

[MysteriousT]

That sounds like me lol. I love fingering a hot girl and masturbating to her pleasure.

[Madhatter920]

I would think that's a very normal thing to hope of someone you're attracted to.

[BarryMcKohkner]

Why don't you tease him a little to make sure. They to dirty talk with him and see how he reacts. If it turns you on, you can only imagine how much it turns him on to know that you want him to think of you that way.

[JackSmy]

How do you know he is 'Crushing on You"? If he is, trust me, he has seen you, and liked some little things, and he is probably Wanking like a Rabbit, imagining/remembering things he has seen you wear, or do!!

[JPrez]

Unless the dude is into other dudes or is a soy boy, he is doing it. Men are visual creatures so if he “sees” you regularly, you can bet he has done it.

[JPrez]

The question is, do you to him?

[wankiam]

clearly your fantasy more than his but nothing wrong in that. especially if it gives you a good orgasm while thinking about it

[boggboss]

No as thats pretty normal

[Asker]

do you think he already has those thoughts?

[boggboss]

Most likely if he is sexualy attracted too you

[Apope16]

No. And if you flirt he probably does

[vampireelf]

Im pretty sure he masturbates to you and imagine to finger you! I did it with any girl i had a crush on

[DeeToPlay]

No you are not wrong in any fantasy you have. No one's business and maybe he is dreaming of being with you at this very moment.

[Outofcotrolboner]

Probably not even shy guys do this im shy and i have always done it☺

[Asker]

who do you have sexual thoughts of?

[Outofcotrolboner]

About my younger cousins your age and other family friends

[wondering_guy]

Trust me if a guy is crushing on you he's prob done it a 100 times already to you

[Wise4myage]

Not crazy, but you are getting to far ahead of yourself and that could lead to a huge let down.

[Asker]

why huge let down?

[Wise4myage]

Because you have idea If he is doing those things

[Dchrls78104]

Interesting thought, except, Would you let him touch you?

[pizzalovershouse]

No its not odd every 1 has different tastes in fantasies

[Steve37]

Seems like some natural thoughts to me.

[Twalli]

Not at all

[GreenGold1992]

not really insane, pretty normal actually