I hear what you saying I'm single and put on talking with the girl about sex and if we're going to have sex I always ask what kind of sex do you like and 99 out of 100 girls I wish. Just a scenario the 99 out of 100 girls like rough sex and that's because guys nowadays are so fucking lazy they want to get on bang the fuck out of them come and then it's over with the last girl that I had sex with I asked her what she like she said rough I said okay we started for played and it went slow motion very slow motion we went to all the foreplay and the moment that I stuffed it in I did it in slow motion and deep she started getting pissy and I didn't say one word I just kept going slow motion and deep she had a couple Choice words to call me and I just kept going slow motion and deep they became a moment where she was hanging on for dear life and she wanted me to fuck her I knew right then and there what she wanted so I gave her the complete opposite I started to pound her and she said no stop stop I want you to go slow oh my God just keep going slow and that's what I did and when we were finished she held onto me so tight and she said don't ever fuck me hard fucking next time we do this do it just like that. No you're not messed up at all you experience something and to turn on we all have those experience something else and that will be a turn-on if it is done right handmade all about you
I loooovveeee it slow and passionate, but also I love being submissive. If I told somebody to go fast, and they said no, and kept going slow, it'd also turn me on so bad, because they didn't listen to me xD
When I'm with somebody and I take them home more than likely we have talks about sex what turns each other on and blah blah blah the moments that they say I like it rough hard deep fast I just shake my head okay and then I do the complete opposite most girls nowadays when they get laid that's how all guys fuck girls now they don't make love anymore they get on them they pump them they choke them and they do this because it's going to make him come quick but it shows the girl that I don't know what it shows the girl don't get me wrong there's a time and a place for hard deep and fast and I mean pounding hard but there is nothing light having a girl tell you that she wants it to be hard and deep and fast and you say okay and you don't do it can you just keep going slow and deep slow and she's bitching and she's motivated and getting pissy don't say a word just keep going nice and slow and deep and before you know do it she's ready to come she's ready to come hard headed you start pounding on her she says no go slow never go fast again go slow it's because they can have double and triple orgasms when you use your whole body instead of owning your dick girls can feel your energy they want to feel that
Don't get me wrong there's a time and a place for keeping hard and fast and rough but who wants to do a girl like that every single time I don't I want to make it different every single time
Nah, it’s just a kink you have within BDSM.
It’s quite mild tbh, however these things are all relative.
The abusive side is wrong unless you are experienced, and both know how to handle sub drop and what aftercare is needed.
for future partners, it’s a case of talking about it, sit down and communicate.
Trust is a huge part of it all.
Also remember, this is your kink, not ur partners, you set the limits, the boundaries and both agree to the rules. You say when you want it and when you do not,
it’s informed consent for each event, it’s important it’s not always expected by the guy, they must ask each time.
Lol i have a bondage fetish and yeah i would say we're pretty fucked in the head
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You are not messed up. It’s quite common to be turned on by that. It’s possible to experience bondage and domination in a consensual setting, with the right partner. You don’t need an abusive partner. I have that kind of fetish myself, and I like to tie down a partner and do things to her, even forcefully. It’s possible because we agreed that we want to do that, and we feel safe giving that kind of consent to the partner.
It’s totally fine and very normal, being manhandled is a thing a lot of women like as long as it doesn’t hurt too much.
Rope and leather bondage is just a way to free up his hands at the end of the day :p
I also have a bondage fetish
Bondage can be lots of fun.
It is good to have a safe word.
You might just be attracted to dominant people, but switching it up can also be fun for both.
Maybe, but as long as you're not hurting anyone who cares. Enjoy what you enjoy.
well honestly it doesn't surprise me that you got turnt on by that
Well you recognize that it is a fetish. It is not mainstream buy if it is enjoyable and you find someone that will not abuse you or hurt you, go for it. Be safe.
You are not messed up, you are a natural sub and crave to be controlled. It’s freeing to your mind so you can feel your body.
Just holding your hands above your head or tying them behind your back to your ankles so you can’t move and have to let him put you into position?
Most guys likes to do that if it's just about sex you ll find one
Yes.
No, you aren't messed up. Kinks are normal and part of who we are. Embrace and enjoy the things you like without regret.
You are messed up for time being. How long since break up?
4 years
Oh that's long long time. I was expecting it to be less then a year.
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Don't worry about that. Just need some time to readjust.
What do you miss about it?
I think I miss the excitement & I just get really turned on by aggression for some reason..
Well that's understandable.
Its not extrem its usually...
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Like another guy said on another post. Sometimes sex abuse can give people a high and than after that they try to find that high again by doing the same things and it turns into more and more. So i wouldn't say its bad but if it interferes with your relationship it might be a good idea to try and processes those emotions with a professional
you're not messed up honey
Pretty normal. My girl likes me to handcuff her hands behind her when we do anything sexual. Ahe said being restrained and restricted feels freeing from daily life
You are not messed up. A lot of people enjoy bondage, etc. Have fun with whatever you're into.
“I have an abusive ex and I miss him”
- women. Don’t try too hard to help em.
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