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Am I still a virgin if I only had sex twice?

I regret having sex and I decided I want to wait until marriage. I still feel like a virgin I've only had sex 2 times that lasted for about an hour each time. Can I still consider myself a virgin and wait for marriage?
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Okay I know I had sex but mentally I still feel like a virgin. Also it only happened twice so it's not like I'm experienced. I just really regret having sex and I want to wait until marriage. But I don't want to lie even though I consider myself a virgin still.
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  • Honey, that's not how it works. You can wait until marriage if you want to, but you're not gonna have much luck finding a guy who is willing to wait for someone who isn't a virgin.

    And if you've decided to wait for moral reasons, lying about your virginity would defeat the entire purpose of it. You would be less of a sinner if you continued to bang guys left and right, but at least had the decency to tell the truth.

  • I think you might consider yourself almost a virgin, having sex 2 times before marriage is still better than having it 3 times 😁
    Would you mind explaining why do you regret it, is it only for the cultural/religious reasons, or you feel like you really lost something?

    • Not cultural or religious, I'm a Western atheist, I just regret doing it and want to wait.

    • Oh, that's so special... I think that then you really understand how it is important to save yourself for your true love... And that it makes you in a way even more pure-hearted than those who do it just because they are forced to...

    • I'm also a Western atheist and I'm waiting ^^ There are just so few of us today... 😭😭😭

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Virginity is this whole weird thing made up to shame and control women. You are who you are, and if you want to abstain from sex until marriage now, that's your right.

    • Agreed virginity is a concept you choose to believe in. If you do believe then yea, two as sexual experiences means you are not a virgin. But ask yourself what benefit does Virginity really have

    • @Ghost_rider Following me around to harass me now? How cute. You're welcome to ask my husband what a great wife I have been. We just celebrated our 13th anniversary a week ago. You're right, I am sex-positive, responsibility-positive, and believe it's possible for women to be sexual in the ways that they desire and still be good people. God forbid! I'm not still stuck in the 1950s.

  • You've had sex. Twice. You're definitely no longer a virgin.

  • Confucious says virginity like balloon. One prick, all gone!

    • Thank you for MHO!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You are clinically no longer a virgin. There is nothing malicious about saving yourself for your husband. You should tell him that you tried it once and for whatever reason you felt it would be more gratifying with the one whom you love most.

    • I was thinking wtf, when I read your first 2 lines. Then I read " You should tell him that you tried it once and for whatever reason you felt it would be more gratifying with the one whom you love most." And I said fuck yeah, this is what I want, She should own it with confidence and tell her husband honestly what she did.

  • Once a dick has entered your vagina you are no longer a virgin.

  • "I still feel like a virgin"... Huh it's almost as if sex doesn't change who you are!

  • No. You had sex. WTH?

  • No. You are not a virgin.

  • Um... no?

  • Scientifically, you are no longer a virgin. If you make a pact with God, however, He'll give you the power to start over. It takes a lot of self control. Do it, wait for marriage and God will bless you.

  • LOL. Why the hang up over what is a nebulous concept anyway? What difference does it make?

  • How can you even think yourself as a virgin when you already had sex girl...

  • No hymen no ring, reap what you sow.

    • What do you even mean

    • If you have no virgin skin you are not a virgin and there is a lot of men that will not marry you unless you have it.

    • Hymens don't even work like that...

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  • Your not a virgin that goes away the moment you have sex.

  • Girl. I can't believe you just said some bullshit like that. Your virginity is gone.

  • Yes. The count is 5

  • You're not, but the better question is who gives a shit?

  • ARE YOU SERIOUS WOMAN? HOW IS THIS EVEN A QUESTION? OMG, I CAN'T EVEN...

    No, you're not still a virgin, even if you "feel like one". What the hell does that even mean anyways? Ugh, the education system keeps failing us.

  • You are not a virgin, but you are not very experienced also.

  • Obviously you are not a virgin

    • Agreed..

  • It's an entirely made up factor, so you decide what it means.

  • This is why aliens refuse to visit us. Right here. God dammit anonymous you're setting NASA back so many years!

  • what the fuck did i just read 👁👁

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