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Am I strange or not?

Since I was a teen I enjoyed being used by men especially older men for their needs. I have a fetish for it and want to please men.
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  • Am I strange or not?

    Speaking as a lifelong Dom, your natural inclination possibly from early formative life experiences is to become and BE a 'Submissive'. You intuitively find both satisfaction and clarity in sexuality defined unambiguously by... and to... YOUR 'Master'.

    I have no greater wish on your behalf than that you find yourself in the cherished care of He whom appreciates the gift you've accorded him. May His /Their preferences reciprocally 'mirror' YOUR needs. May they TRULY savor their opportune direction to BE the impetus to bring you to the shameless expression and release of YOUR deepest lust & desires. May YOU ache emotionally & physically 'spent'... each time you're in his company. May you cherish the memories of the look, your behaviors have earned you in that lucky man's OWN desires as YOU call forth EVERYTHING he could but hope for!
    May your (pl) sexual 'fetish' be mutually cherished~ ;)

Most Helpful Guy

  • No I don't think it's strange at all I have that same weirdness then if you are because I love the please women even though I haven't been with one in over a year and is driving me freaking crazy it's hard to find even at person was to roleplay or have phone sex how to become friends with benefits just on the internet my but I need to do something my passion my desire is just so hot it's just bubbling over and just kind of sucks because all I want to do is please somebody over and over so what I'm saying is if you're weird then I guess I'm Mister weird

Most Helpful Girls

  • This is not strange. There are many factors that can contribute to this. Commonly it could be something you were exposed to growing up and seeing it with family members.

    • Not really

    • I have come across many situations on this. My first major exposure with sex was with someone older and now I have an obsession with older men always

    • How old were you

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  • It's hard to say. Would need more information because, on its own, having a desire to please others isn't uncommon.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • As an adult in modern society, each person is permitted to choose their own way. As a man, I would love to have a girlfriend who wants to please me (but not other men). I would wonder if you were abused as a child and that affected your views about sex later in life.

  • Its absolutely normal but in this society women are discouraged from expressing that opinion.

    If you're a gay man it's apparently fine tho to want to submit to another man as part of expressing your sexuality, but if you have a vagina, no.

  • Lots of us strongly want to please out partner, even if it is only a temporary partner. And wanting to have that partner be older is just a preference. The only part that would bother me is you doing it when you were a teen. But once you were of legal age, go ahead. If them being older gives you pleasure, that is good, and I am sure you give them pleasure. Glad that you can enjoy doing that for guys that probably love you doing it with them.

  • I would say exercise caution. It's one thing to have those thoughts, but don't let them cloud your judgment. Right now, I struggle with wanting to save past lovers from making horrible decisions. I know I can't have them for myself, but neither can I stand the thought of them getting themselves killed. Of them dying young and senselessly. Too many are already dead.

    Trauma makes everyone quirky, but in different ways.

  • Yes it is strange and not a good attitude to have.

  • Interesting...
    As an older guy, I would be in heaven and say you are just fine.
    Society might think otherwise.

    To answer your question, one can say it is a 'Fetish' or that you have Daddy Issues, or a DD/LG fetish. I myself don't see a problem with it.

  • I enjoy pleasing my partner or just someone I find attractive lol

  • I'm sure there's probably many experiences and/or thoughts that have created this feeling so if that's what your preference is then I don't think it makes you strange.

  • For some it's normal, for some it's super duper strange, i am on the (strange) side.

  • Nah, it's just your fetish. As long as you're not pushing out kids, or being abused. It's just your kink.

  • Strange? Maybe. But I’ve always been the same way, not necessarily with just older guys though.

  • All women are like that. Men > women

  • I wouldn't say you are strange. Everyone has their own preferences.

  • It's fine to have a fetish if it's not hurting you mentally or physically and it pleases you.

  • Well according to Jim Morrison all people are strange. 😏

  • Maybe a bit strange but thats not usually bad.

  • Let me know if you visit Australia. 😈

  • I wouldn't say it's necessarily strange. If it's not hurting you physically or mentally and it's something you enjoy I don't think it's the strangest thing I've heard of

  • My address is...

  • Don’t think you’re weird it’s just your fetish.

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