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Am I the only one who hates degrading sex?

I’m not into anal sex, facials, deepthroat, choking, BDSM, I would rather have vagina sex and would rather try sex positions which benefits both genders not just one person alone. Most of the porn (scripted porn) are targeted towards men to please men only. That’s why a lot of the sex positions are not meant to be pleasurable to women those porn stars are paid to fake it like fake moaning and all that. I think I’m one of those ladies who’s not into sex positions depicted in scripted porn. Scripted is basically fantasy and it’s not necessarily meant to be done in real life. Before you go do that to your partner, ask her first if she’s not into it don’t insist that she do that to please you. My ex was an idiot and he can’t understand that I’m not into it I had to tell him no twice on different days he wasn’t happy when I met him face to face therefore I’m glad I broke up with him
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There are definitely some guys who get mad when their partner is not into doing it. Like my ex he just have to keep persuading me into doing it. One thing I learned is that I don’t think he’s the only guy who act like this, there are some other guys who can’t seem to understand about ladies having different likes when it comes to sex he must be thinking that ladies all like the same thing and got so mad when he found out I hated it.
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I’m not against couples who are into it as long as both are fine with it then that’s what makes a healthy relationship. But if the lady is against it and the guy starts forcing her by pinning her down and do that to her which causes her to get mad or scared then the guy is being abusive and that’s similar to rape
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  • I don't think that you are the only one I know I think a lot of times when girls first start having sex when guys first start having sex they hear about people doing these people doing that watching on porn what happens and I think they think that's who you're supposed to be. And what you're supposed to do.
    Well I disagree if I know that I'm going to have sex with somebody I asked him what kind you like if the girl said she likes it hard and rough I just smile and say okay.
    I have pissed off a lot of girls because I go to the complete opposite way it for the first 10 minutes they start to get a little bit pissed because I won't do it their way I will go slow motion I will go deep I will go sensual I will seduce with hot passion in slow motion and as they're bitching and moaning in a roundabout way within about 10 minutes but after I don't say anything and I just keep doing what I'm doing all of a sudden things change making me feel and understand how beautiful it is. It's something they have never felt before most of the time so as I keep going to slow motion and deep are not deep just looking into her eyes and let her eyes her body everything and they're telling me everything she wants me to do at that moment without one word she starts to get into it before it's over she has totally and she's having an orgasm after orgasm telling me that she loves it don't stop and when it is over Holding Onto You so tight good oh my God I never felt that way before like I say I choose not to be like anybody else I like doing it my way I do compromise there's a time and a place for everything and I believe to just like with you there is a way that it could be done were you wouldn't feel degraded but it's all in your wording and the timing just like we making love or sex or fucking

    • Your first one I've ever seen be honest about it

    • See now you're talking about two different things I am one of the most kinkiest people you will ever meet when a girl tells me that she wants it rough I shake my head yes and I will do it that way first really do it my way and that is slow motion and deep where she feels every little detail touch and I can keep telling you about it but I'm not going to And then you have rough sex first I want to do it my way all the above and then I will take her to the rough sex where I'm still passionate and there's ways of being rough without being rough what you're talking about it's a whole different world the one right above this one that's consenting you both agree upon the limitation of being rough. What you're talking about is you have already said no I don't want to do it that way and he forces you into it that's not cool whatsoever that's not even right I think he's taking it way past the limit before with you and that's maybe why you feel the way you feel and you just don't like it I guess but he needs to respect that he's totally being selfish and only thinking about him which means his sex sucks anyway right now I see a little bit different and you're right when it comes down to it I'm doing it this way it's just wrong way he's going about it

    • Yeah I agreed he was selfish

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  • you're very normal, in-fact you're among of 70% of the girls of the world that just like normal intimate and fulfilling sex that normal people like

    i think its the media and porn that ruined people into that degenerate and extreme form of sexuality, basic human instincts for a man is to either dominate/softly caress his girl during sex, so some men love to hold a girl down and some love a softer sex with more hugging and kissing, it differs man to man
    and its the same for girls, some love a very aggressive man to dominate them and manhandle them during sex, and some love a man to appreciate the fragile nature of girls and slowly thrust them to orgasm, basically all healthy couples or married couples are in this category.

    any guy/girl that loves chocking or being tied down, insulting etc... is mentally unstable and have been ruined by porn or has a psychological complex from a trauma

Most Helpful Girls

  • i'm very much into giving oral sex... love to suck a nice hard cock... love to swallow and don't mind taking a facial... i guess i like being degraded to a point... and i very much love wearing a sexy dress with make up on and getting on my knees especially... i hate it when guys think you don't like doing that for them.

    • Do you like to take a cock back in your mouth and suck it more after it has dumped it’s cum all over your face? @chrissykerdock

    • @minuteman12 sometimes depends on who i'm sucking... but i wouldn't mind keep sucking after he's done that to me

    • Would you suck mine right after I pull out of your pussy? @chrissykerdock

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  • I’m definitely not going to get turned on by being degraded during any sex act with my hubby. Sex is supposed to be loving and intimate.

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  • I agree with you.

  • You can really like what you want.

    and in a good relationship, both parties talk to each other and decide what they like and do not like.

    then during sex, you talk and listen to each other.

    yes you last one was not, so for next one stand up and make sure he listens

    • @ pretty pink Anon, he sounds like an arsehole

    • Yes he was and he didn’t care if I hated it

    • Really sorry for you It’s really shut that guys like that spoil the wonder that is good sex or just simply nice love making

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  • I have difficulty understanding why anyone would like degrading sex.

  • I hate it, vanilla all the way for me

  • I agree and I quit watching porn in my late teens as it was so fake and to be honest most of the time not very arousing. I love vaginal sex and I do love giving oral. My biggest turn on is causing a woman as much pleasure as I can.

  • I don't like degrading sex either. I know people have their kinks but I don't like to hurt people. Having it a little rough is as far as I like to go.

  • You are definitely not the only woman like that. Sex is about communication and respect. Good sex is only good if it's good for everyone.

  • You're a gem among all these sheep

  • Of course not. Most people aren't into that, and it does nothing for me.

  • No, you are not. I share your opinion of the matter. I hate the very idea and that includes oral sex. All those things are filthy and indecent, none is Christian, and all are instant dealbreakers for me.

  • I don’t like it. I can’t do that to someone... Was with one chick that liked some crazy shit and it was too much for me! Call me old school... lol.

  • i mean, as long as you don't mind with people who love degrading sex, i don't see the problem

  • Personally, if she’s not into it, then I’m not into it. Why would anyone want to force something that specifically turns someone else off?

  • Darling do what makes you happy. Also understand that most men enjoy oral sex. Tantric sex is beautiful also.

  • I don't really like degrading sex either. My girlfriend and I do have anal, but that's because we both agreed to try it. We enjoyed it, but it wasn't something either of us went int ok with trepidation. We typically have 2 sex positions, because we enjoy both of them and don't see the need to come I with new ones

  • God forbid you try to please your man.

  • Yup...

  • I agree, it's not for everyone but I find most females like it because they can play thier ego and not be judged for it. Proper in the streets and a freak in the sheets

  • Nah I don't like it much if at all

    • Facials/deepthroating is fun as long as its not hurting her in my opinion but those other things id never do

  • You are in the majority, I believe. Either way, your sexuality is yours. You choose.

    • Kink should always be Safe, Sane, and Consentual. Anything else is abuse. (Or RACK/PRICK if you prefer)

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