Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I really dislike these types of women, but I’m open to hearing their reasonings, context, and specifics to why they are the way that they are.
It may make me feel differently about their situation.
I’ve tried to honestly tell myself why I really do dislike these types of women and I’ve always come to one main reason and that is OBJECTIFICATION.
I just don’t like feeling like a number or object, which is almost bound to happen if a woman has been with many men before I.
She even won’t be able to help herself think of me as another number or object. If we were to have sex, it’s out of her control to compare me to or think of all her past partners.
I’ve tried telling myself if it was insecurity, but I truly do not believe it is a primary factor, although perhaps it is a small factor.
The other issues besides feeling like a number of object are the pair bonding issues, diseases carried, etc.
Pair bonding, in this case, refers to the erosion of the love-feeling mechanisms within the brain due to certain over stimulation, most likely over stimulation of having been with one person, after another, after another, and so forth. It may prevent lack of subsequent bonding for future partners one meets and may further cause one to see future/subsequent partners more like a number or object.
I don’t want a whore, slut, or hoe that has given sex easy to many men. I don’t want a woman that many men have had sex with, why would I? Why would any self-respecting man want such a thing? Why would any self-respecting woman do this?
My opinion? These men are most likely not high quality and don’t have firm morals, beliefs, principles, etc. They take whatever easy prey that they can bed with. The women, on the other hand, most likely have other preexisting conditions. Perhaps it’s something biological mixed in with traumatic past events, abusive partners/partners, drugs, etc. I don’t think it’s simply “liking sex.”
Am I unreasonable in my strong dislike of whores, sluts, or hoes?
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How I’m defining these three terms: Whore, slut, or hoe: a woman who has partook in many instances of casual or indiscriminate sexual encounters. NOT a woman who dresses a certain way NOT a woman who sends nude pics NOT a sexual/nude cam model
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I’ve NEVER heard of a reason why being a whore, slut, or hoe is a GOOD thing. Most people have said something like “she just likes sex” or “it’s her choice.” It’s never a logical, in-depth, or drawn out reason like I’ve posed above. People want to believe this is right for some reason, when it’s clearly not right and not healthy. in my opinion, it doesn’t even spawn from right or healthy origins or reasons.
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27 43Then you should respect virgins and impossible to get girls like me
You can choose as you please, but being judgmental is not attractive. Some women are promiscuous because they are desperate for affection, often as a result of childhood neglect. For others it's a conscious choice. They protect themselves and don't confuse sex with love.
Everyone is judgmental. Humans are naturally judgmental, it’s literally hard-wired in our brain to judge things, situations, people, the future, etc. Judge and be honest, reasonable, and logical. There’s nothing unreasonable about my post. Speak your mind, don’t be a coward. Call out immorality, injustice, etc.
I can judge other people's actions as unwise, occasionally unethical, but I don't consider other people inferior to me.
Define what you mean by “inferior.” If I save my family from harm and another person cowers and lets their family befall harm, I’d say I’m superior to that person in this domain. Although, I think both of us should always be treated fairly under the law and not differently even though that other person is a coward.
Nothing wrong with you. The women who are defending them are either ones themselves or used to be one and now they want some guy to accept them. I myself used to be obsessed with sluts but not anymore.
The life of a slut is to do the same things a male player does but then judge the guy for it. They've also messed up their sense of relationships and meaningful sex by wanting "gentlemen" or good men, but then pushing them away cuz their sexual experience with other men has dictated their minds and told them that gentlemen are soft and can't fuck. As someone who used to chase and interact with sluts, you eventually find out they are really not the kind of women you want in your life.
@EmbraceThePain You might also be interested in my old Take A Guy Can Tell If A Woman Has Slept With Several Men ↗
@ManOnFire I’ll check it out brother
How can you dislike them, who will you get your services from if you don’t have escorts, dancers, and maids?
Sounds about right.
A cam model IS all those things.
So a woman stripping and masterbating for 1000's of men is the high moral girl you are after?
So how many men do you think a woman should be with at most? And why that number?
Specifics and context matter. A woman can be with two men and that still doesn’t mean it’s good. What if I told you the two men were random strangers at an alleyway that she decided to shag for whatever reason, except under the influence? You see? Two people isn’t anything, but once context is placed, you’re feeling differently even if it’s only two men.
I kinda feel like you wouldn't like me then so OK
Again, I’m open to hearing a woman’s reasonings, specifics, and context so that I can better make an accurate judgement or opinion. If a woman says she’s been with many men, I’m open to hearing and honest why.
Can I ask in pm?
Yeah, sure
Are you a slut/whore?
@KrakenAttackin probably
@lemia look what are friend is saying Dav in no way are you a whore or slut i don't want to hear you talk like that again
@Dav1ss There is no way your a slut or a whore. Your loyal and far to nice to do what they do.
@Dav1ss If anyone was a hore its me. I let some random guy have sex with me all because he said I was fit.
@LowSelfSteem Well, with your username, that makes sense... That’s honestly pathetic though and grossly unsafe.
It was just some random guy in that sense, we went on a date and we went back to where I was staying and started too woo me before long we were having sex. We did you a condom but it broke.
Okay we get it, it’s gross... You don’t have to explain further. You made a potentially big mistake.
Okay, we get it. But no need to pile on and give her a hard time about it. At least @LowSelfSteem admitted her mistake. That was a brave thing to do. And it was self-sacrificial because she was trying to defend @Dav1ss and make her feel better.
@Jamie05rhs Thank you. You said something I didn't like then didn't like I defended myself wow. I was only trying to make @Dav1ss feel better about herself. If you dont like opioions dont ask for them simple.
@Dav1ss Is not a whore at all, we talked in PM and she explained herself. @LowSelfSteem Letting a random man have sex with you because he basically complimented you? Yeah, that’s bad in a variety of ways, just saying how it is. @Jamie05rhs I’m not piling on man, but no need to come to the defense of these adults that don’t need it. I’m just calling it how it is. I did say that she made a mistake, so what are you on about? People have to know the severity of their actions and really feel bad about it. I’m not unreasonable at all, I’ve offered plenty of reason and context for everything I’ve said.
@EmbraceThePain Sometimes negative feedback is appropriate. But not in this case. She stuck her neck out and came clean about something when she didn't have to. She was just telling her life story, and being transparent about it. You don't attack someone in that position. It's not a chivalrous thing to do.
@Jamie05rhs lol, chivalry will do not good in this case. Honesty will. I didn’t really attack her but told her what was the truth. I could’ve said more but I will choose not to because I’m not a cruel person. I didn’t even say much. I just said it was pathetic, gross, and dangerous. Which it was...
But she knows that already.
@Jamie05rhs I’m not sure you know for sure that she does... Again, if I attacked her, you’d definitely know... I didn’t say much and I’m not going to comment about her anymore. Done deal.
If I had known defending woukd be vecome a hot mess i would not say anything. You dont think I've learn my lesson your not 21wks pregnant
@LowSelfSteem I don’t know who the fuck you are. I don’t know if you learned your lesson or not... I’m just calling out what I’m hearing, that’s it. You literally let a random man have sex with you. Random man...
@EmbraceThePain Chill out, dude.
@Jamie05rhs Brother, if you can’t take what I’m saying, peace the fuck out of here. Stop being a pussy. There’s nothing wrong with what I’m saying. I’m direct, so if you don’t like it, literally, just stop commenting.
Ok Lad fight else where. You made your point.
@LowSelfSteem I’m perfectly calm and not fighting. Just calling out what I see. People comment so I comment. Once people stop commenting, I’ll stop.
Yup.
@KrakenAttackin what happened?
Basically @Lowselfsteem defended you, things got said and it turn into an argument
@Dav1ss i started it because i mention @lemia i'm sorry
You are of course entitled to your view just as they have every right to behave the way they do. You have made many sweeping generalisations. Not all promiscuous women have past trauma, not all will view you as an object or number, not all will draw comparisons. Objectification is part of human nature. You put an unreasonable amount of focus on someones morality because of their sexual activity. You imply promiscuous people have far more STD's. Most people I know that have STDs are those with far fewer partners. Most promiscuous people i know are generally the most aware of contraceptives and STDs. I suspect that STDs actually have a far greater correlation with intelligence rather than promiscuity
I’ve said on here that it can just be a liking for sex, sure, but how likely is it when you add in the other factors of “numerous partners” “indiscriminately” and “casual?” Not likely it’s “just liking sex.”
For many it is. a lot of people just aren't that complicated and alpt of people especially with society nowadays dont have a lot of impulse control
:/ ok
Respect lost.
Never even knew you had any respect for me to begin with lol. Either way, I’m a little sad, but again I’m open to talking about my views more and why I believe what I believe. I don’t see why my viewpoints are unreasonable at all. I’ve never said that these women cannot do what they want to do. They can. Just be honest about what it is. I also said I’m open to hearing about why these types of women do what they do. Their reasonings.
How about "live and let live?"
I can still have an opinion... I never said I want to make this illegal... I never even said these women should listen to me Just be honest about what it is...
I don't think you can help how you feel so I think your feelings are justified.
I personally hate hypocrite and I don't ask myself if it's unreasonable or not. It's my feelings, just ways I feel so I just ask it how's it.
What? I don’t understand, did you mean to say that you hate hypocrites?
Yes and I don't ask myself if hating them is justified I just do so I don't think you should ask yourself if your strong dislike of Whore, slut, etc.. is justified. If you do dislike them then you just do.
No, we can certainly be mistaken and be wrong in what we hate. We should always question.
I guess, personally I just accept the way I feel because there's always a reasons to why I feel like that that justify it
Perhaps
some people after being raped especially if it was their first sexual encounter react 1 of 2 ways. either very afraid of sex or like they don't matter anymore and hope that having sex with many different people will help them forget their rapist. when you get raped by someone you trusted you begin to think everybody is the same, you can't trust anyone. How your parents treat you also factors in, like a mother calling her daughter a slut for tiny things like wearing white jeans, hula hooping as a 10 year old, making mistakes like accidentally breaking a dish adds up overtime and a girl can believe she is worthless after being torn down since birth.
I noticed strictly religious women become major whores when they leave their faith/cult.
@meesegoMoo probably having their minds blown that not everythinng should betaken literally
I think it's more along the lines of them actually believing everything they were taught. Those that I spoke to seemed to think if they made any sort of break with the cult they were going to hell anyway, so allowing men to use them for physical things was a way to be useful at all when they had no other reason to live.
@meesegoMoo that theory makes sense too
Anyone who reads this please understand that I'm doing this for one reason and one reason only. I'm playing devil's advocate and I'm just feeding this fire. In no ways is the following statement a real statement written by the person posting it. It is for the comedic value only. Please hold the hateful remarks.
They say this story is older than time itself and over time the original other has been long forgotten yet is held as one of the greatest authors in the history of history. And it goes a little something like this:
A woman goes to see a wiseman and she asks him "if a guy fucks a lot of women he is remembered as a legend but if a woman fucks a lot of dudes she is remembered as a slutty whore?"
And the wiseman turns to look at her, at the same time the clouds part and rays of sun Shinedown only on these two individuals, and he replies "if a key opens lots of locks, it's a master key. But if a lock opens with any key, it's a shitty lock."
Anyway, even though that story is bullshit, one thing you can take away from it is don't buy bats for food. It will fuck you up and then your town, then your state, then your country, and then the world. Bats are not food. If you eat bats for food, you work for ISIS and i don't need to socialize with you anyway. Won't be a problem for me to exercise social distancing when you work for a terrorist organization.
I also find them undesirable, but I don't necessarily agree with all your points, especially the ones regarding morality or that guys who choose to date them must be low quality or lack morals.
I dont think you're wrong.
I have a past when I was younger, slept with men. Had friends with benefits, one night stands etc.
However now, that's just not me. I've gone through periods of celibacy between relationship. Dont get me wrong, I like sex, I love having sex, it's just I dont feel the need to jump on every dick I see or want.
If anything at all, I'd choose to be a slut for my partner. No one else.
So, you were/are a slut and whore then? As long as you’re honest about what you’ve done and tell your partner if he needs to know any more details/specifics, that is the right path for you. Transparency and honesty cost nothing. So, don’t hide anything and don’t omit any details.
It's your life. Whether you like them or not it's completely your choice. Just don't be mean to them.
Well, define “mean.” If I call them out on their wretch and disgusting behavior, exactly for what it is, then is that mean? Well, it can be, but that might not even be the intention. If someone is honest, they can inadvertently be mean to someone even if that’s not their sole purpose.
Nope. Being honest and being rude are two different things. And by the way having a asshole doesn't mean you have to shit all the time. Just like that, having an opinion doesn't meant you have to express your opinions. They're happy with their life. So, you should be hapoy with your. Ignore them if you don't like them. Live and let live. In the end Karma's a bitch.
You don’t really know if they’re happy or not. Evidence suggests that happiness is not usually the cause for such behaviors. Perhaps these behaviors are preceded by a flurry of negative events that cause them to cope in this manner. In other words, it’s not simply “liking sex.” It’s usually something else or a combo of many things. Again, this is MY opinion. I’m not telling these women they can’t do what they want. I’m just honest about what it is. Smoking is poison, be honest about it Alcohol is poison, be honest about it Same with this
That's why I said being honest is one thing, being mean is another. Accept people as they are, not as you want them to be. Live and let live.
Why do I have to accept people as they are? We can call out bad behavior in the hopes that a collective can influence others to think in a different way and perhaps be more cognizant over their actions. For example, to the extent that this behavior is due to spontaneity, poor judgement, and abusive pasts... We can cause a change in some people so they do not act in such a negative way. In other words, it can be morally lazy to accept people for what they are if you can cause some change to better everyone or at least show them why they may be wrong.
Have you ever help one of them? If you haven't then there's no meaning of talking big. If you can't change their condition then you have no right to judge them. Either accept them or ignore them, but don't criticize them if you've no guts to make the difference.
I’ll help them whoever I can. Shaming can work very well, especially if it’s COMBINED with reason and evidence which I’ve provided. If someone is said what they’re doing is bad and scolded for it harshly, then supplementing that with reason and evidence will only cement the negativity of what they’re doing and most likely not commit the act again
They are seen as lesser value for a reason, and I know than anyone understand the biological reasoning for this. You’re not wrong, and you’re completely entitled to cast judgement when it comes to who you date. Women on here will attack you to the end because this makes them feel inferior. Don’t mind them though.
Same. Whats the point of actually dating someone who is so lose and casual about it. It just increases the chances of being unfaithful later and it just doesn't feel right.
We all have opinions and we all have opinions on others’ opinions. Mine here is indifference. I don’t blame women for enjoying sex. I do too. I’m happy they exist...
I always thought it was more of an attitude thing on being a slut or a ho.
No, definitely not. There would be more subjectivity if that were the cause and women would be unfairly called these names for just wearing revealing or sexy clothing. For me, it’s about actual sexual intimate behavior. If a woman likes wearing certain clothing or taking certain pictures, that’s fine, she’s not a whore, slut, or hoe.
Many women are unfairly called those names now.
Well, whoever is using these words unfairly is wrong. The words were never meant to refer to a woman wearing revealing clothing... I believe it just referred to what I’m using them to refer to—actual sexual actions.
@EmbraceThePain Yes; people should be judged by their actual actions.
@Jamie05rhs We are in agreement then. See? I’m a reasonable man.
@EmbraceThePain Of course you are.
not all people likes all types of people so its only fair