An honest question about the value we all place on each other over just our body parts?
Ok everyone... I see some nonsensical questions on here daily ranging from "is a 12 foot penis big enough for her" to "will he like me if I forget to shave down there"? I came across a question today asking women "what its like to have boobs." Its all really very sad that everyone has to be so overly concerned and self conscience about every little facet of their sexual body parts. I find the female body in natural form (left alone as made) to be the most beautiful work of art found on this planet. Nothing else compares in visual beauty but I still try to place the highest importance on her as a person because its her I'm ultimately interested in or in love with. She as a person is even more beautiful. Yes, after getting to know and love each other, us both offering our opposite body parts for the pleasure of the other is an amazing gift but a body part has no emotional feelings and I can't talk to that body part.
So my series of questions I would like your thoughts on is the following... Would it not be more healthy to get to know someone of the opposite gender first? Shouldn't greater attention be paid to the person as who they are? It seems to me that sex with someone becomes so much better and their body so much more beautiful if there is a person in front of all of that to love first. Also, we seem to be so preoccupied with how each other's body parts (genitals) function during sex and if she squirts or if he can cum 2 gallons in one session, but have we considered the following? What differences in mental wiring between the male and female brain can bring strengths into a relationship/marriage and make a couple impervious to the world? Do we take the time to see the value in our differences in the way we function both mentally and emotionally to realize that both actually complement the weaknesses of the other with strengths and vice versa? Wouldn't it be better in the long run if as members of the opposite sex, we didn't view one another as "us vs. them"?
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I appreciate the answers so far. You guys rock! There is no right or wrong answer because all input has value and may provide a view not yet thought of. I just want to try to facilitate a way in which we can all discuss these problems and help even one person. I believe life is wonderful and should be enjoyed. Its sad when people miss out on opportunities and experiences in life simply because culture and popularity dictate otherwise. It seems to me that our culture is so devoid of love.
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