Anal. I dont really like it but I told my boyfriend I did. How do I take anal off the table?
Anonymous
I used to let my ex do anal but then he had a pretty small penis so it was no big deal. Anal sometimes is nice but my boyfriend is very big and it hurts. I prefer vaginal sex with him but he can't get enough of anal, I'm so sore all the time.
Tell him. Use your words and speak to him. Wtf is wrong with people.
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jjj101010Guru
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Tell him u have piles
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gandolph3Yoda
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if you use enough lube and keep trying, you will adapt
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flashgrandadXper 6
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Tell him for crying out loud! Why are you suffering in silence?
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Elliot0_07Xper 5
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I mean, you already said you liked it! Once anal is on the table, you can't turn it around!
It's easier for you to stretch your asshole and take it. If you deny him anal, he's gonna cheat on you.
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jwatson30000Xper 1
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Let him get anal from your best friend?
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Anonymous
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gays use poppers to relax their ass holes
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Whitemeatchicken
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There’s a lot of side effects to those.
Opinion Owner
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@Whitemeatchicken how does he prepare you for anal? Does he lick it, finger it, rub it? Is he rushing to get in?
Anonymous
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First you say to him what you told us...
“I dont really like anal even though I told you I did. You are very big and doing anal hurts and I'm so sore all the time from doing it.“
And then you say, “I don’t want to do anal anymore.”
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Anonymous
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Well you can always be honest with him and tell him it hurts you. Or if you would rather compromise then work up to his penis, by using increasing larger toys or fingers. The key is to relax at each step. The sphincters will relax. I only know this because I like to be pegged by a girl wearing a strap on. I first started fingerings myself then went to toys. Then she did it to me until I got used to that. Then it was on.
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Whitemeatchicken
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He likely doesn’t care.
Anonymous
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Good luck I feel you 😕
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Anonymous
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Just tell him you don't like doing it so you're taking it off the table. Then tell him he now gets to take something off the table that you like to do and he doesn't like. Like buying you gifts, or buying you food, or listening to you blabber about your problems, or any of the other numerous things guys put up with that they would rather not have to deal with. Deal?
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Anonymous
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That's a tough one because he's enjoying it and you've been giving it to him, so that's going to be a really tough ship to turn around. The good news is your ass will adjust to his size. Do you have orgasms during anal? If not, try rubbing your clit or using a vibe. My girlfriend has learned to love anal because she gets more intense orgasms that way.
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Anonymous
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Tell him to do it right.
With proper warm up and play... you could fit a fist in your ass without pain. His dick is nothing.
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Tell him. Use your words and speak to him. Wtf is wrong with people.
Tell him u have piles
if you use enough lube and keep trying, you will adapt
Tell him for crying out loud!
Why are you suffering in silence?
I mean, you already said you liked it! Once anal is on the table, you can't turn it around!
It's easier for you to stretch your asshole and take it. If you deny him anal, he's gonna cheat on you.
Let him get anal from your best friend?
gays use poppers to relax their ass holes
There’s a lot of side effects to those.
@Whitemeatchicken how does he prepare you for anal? Does he lick it, finger it, rub it? Is he rushing to get in?
First you say to him what you told us...
“I dont really like anal even though I told you I did. You are very big and doing anal hurts and I'm so sore all the time from doing it.“
And then you say, “I don’t want to do anal anymore.”
Well you can always be honest with him and tell him it hurts you. Or if you would rather compromise then work up to his penis, by using increasing larger toys or fingers. The key is to relax at each step. The sphincters will relax. I only know this because I like to be pegged by a girl wearing a strap on. I first started fingerings myself then went to toys. Then she did it to me until I got used to that. Then it was on.
He likely doesn’t care.
Good luck
I feel you 😕
Just tell him you don't like doing it so you're taking it off the table. Then tell him he now gets to take something off the table that you like to do and he doesn't like. Like buying you gifts, or buying you food, or listening to you blabber about your problems, or any of the other numerous things guys put up with that they would rather not have to deal with. Deal?
That's a tough one because he's enjoying it and you've been giving it to him, so that's going to be a really tough ship to turn around. The good news is your ass will adjust to his size. Do you have orgasms during anal? If not, try rubbing your clit or using a vibe. My girlfriend has learned to love anal because she gets more intense orgasms that way.
Tell him to do it right.
With proper warm up and play... you could fit a fist in your ass without pain. His dick is nothing.
Tell him he is too big for anal.