Some people have aversions, bad experiences, or mental blocks with certain kinks. Some girls absolutely hate anal sex. Some girls had a guy cum in their mouth once, and it tasted like bleach, so they never want to do that again. Some girls are so afraid that they smell bad that they never want a give to give them oral sex. Etc.
There are certainly some things that I would not do. I'm not doing anything that involves minors, animals, sex in public, incest, and there are probably a few others that I am overlooking. I have some limits that I want to have respected so I respect it when my partner has limits, even if that means she doesn't want to do something that I think is great fun.
I mot only find it strange but it baffles me! I understand that some people are just vanilla. However I would never be dating one of those people. So in the very beginning we will sort through each other's hard limits and then down the road a few months I introduce something that was not on any hard limit list and is something I really get into only to find opposition. And it's never like the same thing but when you're into a lot of things it's often times you don't get them. Which absolutely blows me away because as long as it's nothing I am morally opposed to which is very very little then I'm going to give her exactly what she wants no matter how insane. That's how a partnership works
I'm on the fence with this one. While pleasing your partner is important I don't think it's right to demand them to do something they aren't into trying... especially if it's kinda out there. For example, if my boyfriend asked me to do bdsm I'd say no. I'm not into pain or some of the nasty stuff that comes with that. But if he asked me to dress up a certain way, I'd do it. While it isn't my thing it isn't hurting anyone. I'd say if your neutral about it, do it for your partner even if you don't enjoy it. If you're totally against it you shouldn't have to do it just to keep them.
I understand people have limits but I would try it once and if I don't enjoy it I wouldn't do it again
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well it depends on what she wants to do, if she wants to go out and bang every one else while I provide for her, no, in fact she can fuck off and die because I'm not a cuck. If we are talking about roleplay or something like that, then yeah sure you should give it a try. Their are limits though.
Would you EAT a Lover's meal if the actual food disgusted you?
To compel you to do so would show HOW LITTLE they value YOU~
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What if they fantasized holding a lit candle to your testicles
til you had 2nd degree burns?
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As someone that’s been in to this for over 20 years and about 20 years with a sub.
I have always been there for the other person to safely carry out and enjoy their kink.
Its rarely my kink but hers.
Some are very dark, some mild.
we do however sit down and work out what boundaries and limits are.
some are hard limits, so we might dip our toes in to.
we always know when we crossed a line as we end up very embarrassed with each other.
Also, if you are not up to trying them at home, their are clubs in the UK and places such as Berlin where you can really push boundaries and limits.
I remember this girl on the first date told me she could only get off to scat, more power to her but we never had a second date.
However honestly, in a long term relationship, 90% of the time I don’t understand why they like me that much, so if 3 months down the line I was told scat will 100% work there is no way I’m turning that opportunity down.
Relationship were people complain about their partners kinks always seem very sad to me, like they’er disappointed by the reality of their partner. I understand boundaries are a thing, but I kind of feel thats gone as soon as I start making sure I have the right toiletries in
You get the best mhi for questions I agree with you 100% it's kind of ridiculous isn't it I've never understood that to this day I don't understand it and believe me I desire All the Above
It isn't strange to me because sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both partners.
If you're forcing your partner to do something they don't like it's just a big red flag that you're incompatible.
Like for example I've dated a woman who wanted me to whip her or basically simulate rape. I tried her kinks, but I just wanted to love her and I hated it.
I couldn't agree more. Now all you have to do is speak to my g/f.. I'm kidding.:p she is just as adventurous as I am.
Everybody has their boundaries (I personally have none) I would just move on (I get bored really easily with someone who is uptight when it comes to sexual things) 😁
I never rule anything out with a new partner but I am 7 inches long and 3inches thick a Cum Twice
You seem to be more open and comfortable with different things. Not everyone is that way. Some people are very turned off or even disgusted by some sex acts, or at the very least uncomfortable. Personally, I don't think anyone should have to do anything (sexually) that they are uncomfortable with. Find the subset of things that you both like. I get turned on by turning on my partner, so I might be a little more willing to do things that don't necessarily work for me, but if they work for my partner, then that works for me.
Not strange but I don't think anything wrong with trying new things. If your don't like it don't do it again but always a chance you will like it. Few things I've tried I didn't think I'd like and I ended up really liking them.
I don't necessarily know what or who you think you are but YOU ARE DEFINITELY SICK AND OUT OF THE MARINE CORPS
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Nope. I'm pretty open but there's some kinks I won't entertain. Its not strange to have limits.
I don't think it's weird. I have no obligation to indulge my partner's every sexual whim. If they ask me to do something I'm uncomfortable with or that I know I will hate or even that I'm not in the mood for, I'm going to say no. And I would hope if I ever asked them for something they didn't want, they would say no too. I have no interest in sex where we aren't both 100% on board with what's happening
Whenever a partner doesn't want to do something unless it is super crazy add "with you" because with the right girl or the right guy the other person will do everything.
I’m down for most anything just no scat and such and no guy on guy but I’m willing to at least try anything else. So I’d agree with you for the most part. What really sucks is someone saying they’re into something they know you’re into and then changing up like after you’re married. Like literally as soon as you both say I do they start saying I don’t
At least a partner should meet halfway. I have been able to explore all of my sexuality with my wife, and she is shy but always voices her desires with me.
I'm a try-sexual lol. If my partner wants you try something I'm game. I went to my first swingers club at 18 through
I hear what your saying, heck I tried someones kinky thing and it became my kinky thing
Try it, or miss out on something you might like
Not at all. People have boundaries that should be respected.
Some kinks I'm not willing to do... for example blood play or stuff involving shit... but I'm pretty much open to everything else. I do find it weird being with a partner that isn't open with trying out new kinks. A huge part of compatibility is in openess in the bedroom.
I always give my partner the opportunity to try things. Just because I had a bad experience with one partner. It may be better with the next partner.
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