Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Anyone else notice that nice guys tend to be really creepy?
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I've been fanscinated with these "Nice guys finish last" kind of guys, and want to see if their cries are true. Not only have I realized they're assholes too, they tend to say creepy stuff too. And if they say stuff equally creepy off-line, it's a no-brainer that they're single. They especially show their creepiness when talking about rape, abuse, or murder: "You prefer an honest asshole over a dishonest nice guy? Then by your mentality, you prefer rapists because they're honest." "It's not fair that rapists and murderers have girlfriends while nice guys like us are single" "In this feminist world, no wonder why you have guys like Adam Lanza." "R. I. P. Elliot Rodgors, we know why you did it!" "When she got abused, I wanted to say "I told you so" but..." "I fucking hate single moms. They're leeches of society." Am I the only one whose spine shivers when reading those? Of course, this is just what they say online. I've talked to plenty of guys were really nice to me, but fall in love with me too quick and/or look creepy (they don't bathe, they don't groom themselves properly, they look homeless, ect). I'm not going to risk having my skin worn as a suit because some people think I'm obligated to "give a guy a chance".
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What Girls & Guys Said
18 33Yes i noticed that too i am an ugly guy so i can't tend this
They oviously arnt nice guys then nice guys r clearly nice there r vary few actually nice guys the guys u have been talking to just sound quiet and a little polite it's not what they say its there actions that makes them a good guy
I really hope my brother is a nice guy. A good all round guy. A decent guy. He would be absolutely mortified if anyone accused him of being creepy. He's as straight as they come. Check the track record of @dogbert444.
except what you describe aren't nice guys...
Your question is invalid.
I think a guy can be 'nice' (boring, lacking intriguing characteristics and so on) without necessarily holding such views about women and rape and murder. Surely some "nice guys" are actually just undesirable/boring guys who are maybe a bit pathetic but surely they're not all so spiteful/misogynistic.
People would probably describe me as nice but I don't share those opinions, some of them are quite disturbing.
Yep, you can't say that ALL nice guys automatically think the way the asker has said they do...
Guys that call themselves "nice guys" are the worst type of partner in the world. They aren't nice, they just think they are entitled to your love because they said a nice thing to you once. Then they get bitter because you aren't attracted to them.
It all stems from insecurity. I used to be one :(
I agree