Are blowjobs degrading for women?

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Within a relationship, is it degrading for women to give a "Blowjob" ?

KeiranByrne · Accepted Answer

Consider. You are sitting, he is kneeling at your feet, his lips and tongue pleasuring you intensely. Your thighs around his ears and your fingers in his hair are holding his head firmly in place and pulling me, er - him ever mote tightly to you.
Do you feel that you are degrading him?
Let's say you are lesbian and it's an eager woman between your thighs.
Are you degrading her?
There are no wrong answers to these questions, so turn it around. You are on your knees, his cock in hand, you are pleasuring the crown with lips, teeth and tongue. Degrading?
You take him into your mouth working the crown, massaging it, pressing it against the roof of your mouth. Degrading?
He tries to force you to deep-throat him. Degrading?
That would be my line. That would be trying to degrade you. Otherwise not in my humble opinion, but your mileage may vary.

mjashin · Accepted Answer

no. you want to please the guy. it's something pleasant. pleasant things incite apreciation. also depending on how strong the relstionship is, you should be able to talk open. so even if it was degrading, you could still be able to ask back the favour, so everything was equal anyway so it isn't one sided :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Heard a comedian talk about this, she said men sit around, drink beer and watch sports in their pjs, husband walks in and says "That's not very ladylike!" and she responds, "Well neither is a blowjob but I don't hear you complaining about that!" I think its interesting because its grade school and expected to be treated poorly when you first start being sexual.

I held back from this for years because I was surrounded by fuckboys, I'm really happy I waited and was selective. The guys were like, no we totally respect you but because we were also friends, Id hear them say so much disgusting crap about other girls. I learned how from partners I knew really well and trusted. I never felt degraded on that side of the coin.

Naughtyme87 · Accepted Answer

Not at all. It's empowering to know that by simple tongue strokes and slow sucking we can bring you to the edge of orgasm and then back. Such slow, sweet torture as you lay there waiting for us to allow you to cum. And when we do degradation is the farthest thing from our minds.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

How is giving your partner individual, selfless pleasure degrading?

Is it degrading for him to kiss you neck? Put his mouth all over your tits? Touch and pleasure YOUR naughty places? No.

So why would it be different if you put his weens in your mouth?

SovereignessofVamps · Accepted Answer

Why would they be? Licking pussy isn't degrading for guys.

tinyclit · Answer

Blowjobs within a relationship (the only context in which you should be giving them in my opinion) are not degrading, they're great fun!

AustinMan · Answer

Not a bit. It might be a bit submissive but that's not remotely like degrading. Why do you ask?

jennabbe · Answer

I don't think it's degrading

Just_another_Indian · Answer

I think blow job is the most pleasurable thing man could get and it's hard to explain from a man's perspective.
But i think it's degrading only when it is forced upon her.
It should be very much consensual.

Orph__ · Answer

Not in a healthy, loving and mutually respectful relationship

Katie1964 · Answer

I don't think so, I like to do that with hubby.

Jasmin0701 · Answer

I don't think that neither giving my boyfriend blowjobs is degrading, nor than it is degrading for my boyfriend to lick me.

popsickle · Answer

No... why would you think that?

fauchelevent · Answer

I certainly don't feel degraded whilst doing it so I would say no.

SarahsSummer · Answer

No. That's ridiculous

teawrecks · Answer

Tf no. They're empowering. If you think they're degrading you need to get your head checked.

SpurtLover · Answer

Not in my relationships. Giving me a blowjob is the most wonderful thing a woman can do for me. I think more highly of a woman who sucks my dick and eats my sperm. I hope you do it to your man.

Rissyanne · Answer

Of course not. You can give a blow job without finishing him off. It is called foreplay.

TadCurious · Answer

No, of course not. It's just another form of sexual intimacy.

Kaylyne · Answer

No absolutely not, whatever makes you think it could be?

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

No its not. I personally see nothing wrong with it. But ofc it's a personal choice, if you don't want to then don't do it. Whatever makes you comfortable.

lkjhg69cum · Answer

Hell no they aren't they are awesome! Is a man giving a woman oral degrading to a man? Again, Hell no, its awesome! Just shows who is all about pleasing their partner and who isn't.

Itsmeyay · Answer

Some sees it as sexual play and the favor would be returned, some sees it as dominance and submissive, in which case the it's an order, sometimes it's because the woman just likes the idea of having a dick in her mouth, my point is there are many takes on it. But in general I think it depends on your situation at that moment and your view about degrading. Good arguments can come from two sides. And both ways.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

No more than a man giving a woman cunnilingus. My wife used to insist on giving me one every day when I got home from work because she loved doing it so much. And while they've always felt good I rarely cum from them, so they were much more for her pleasure than mine.

helva · Answer

Not for me. I do it when both like to do.

jman46241 · Answer

No. It's only degrading to women that don't.

motassim · Answer

I won't let my children's mom do that but that's my opinion

rgb008 · Answer

Nope.

John83 · Answer

No. No more than it's degrading for a man to go down on a woman.

KatherineJ · Answer

Not at all if you are in a loving relationship.

CyberToothTiger · Answer

I never ask or would expect a girl to give me oral sex that is something if she really wanted to do but not a necessary for me and makes no difference i would still love her.

Negrodamuss · Answer

No... unless it's also considered degrading for a guy to go down on a girl

gobsmacked3 · Answer

quikte to the contrary, they are empowering with the control she has over the man

CaliSoccerGuy · Answer

Hell no! Unless you make it a rough degrading thing. Which can be fun lol

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

Healthy sex is not degrading no matter what you do. Its taking turns of giving and receiving pleasure (or both). Everyone has his/her own drawn lines, like most girls dont do anal or guys not doing period sex.

neoagent1 · Answer

Not in the slightest

Decentguy · Answer

i dont think so. but if she doesn't wanna do it, or if she doesn't like it, and your still forcing her for that, then its degrading

Yumix · Answer

nothing degrading about blowjobs

NajemEddine · Answer

is eating pussy degrading for men

bennyboy18320 · Answer

It's only degrading as a "roleplay" sort of thing, i. e., the guy is dominating her and basically fucking her mouth. But even then it's a consensual form of sex play, so it's not really degrading.

A normal, run of the mill blowjob isn't degrading at all.

GoldCobra · Answer

no they are not

LastNightmare · Answer

what's your opinion? eating pussy degrading or upgrading for men?

Mrthinpickle · Answer

No it means they care for there man. Giving it like it's candy will make u a whole and then degrading. Can u blow me:)

Blitzkrieger · Answer

Why would it be degrading? It is a privilege to be allowed to give your partner pleasure. Do you think i let any woman with her teeth on my dick? If she would not be allowed to give me blowjobs it would be because i didn't trust her.

CT_CD · Answer

Yeah. Eating pussy is degrading too. Eating ass is especially degrading.

TheOldMan59 · Answer

If it's degrading, why do they do it?

Anonymous · Answer

sorry what is "blowjobs" ?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I think so, that's why I would never ask a girl for a blowjob, I respect women.

Anonymous · Answer

In what? I think when women do a bj she's the one dominant she can stop it if she want, go faster, etc... The man can't do anythhing about that and will cum if the women want.

Anonymous · Answer

Totally, i was with this woman for 1 year, and i never agreed to a blowjob, i think she had some mental issues because she wanted to do it, but i told her it's degrading. Eventually i lost respect for her and dumped her.

Anonymous · Answer

How much This so call feminism wants to take from us? Enough is enough!! This is where I make a stand, because blowjobs are among the best things that can happen to someone

Anonymous · Answer

No - oral sex can be shared by a couple with great tenderness and intimacy. It's an activity with no risk of pregnancy and lower risk of STD. Your lover is literally trusting you with his most delicate parts - and in a good coupling, vice versa.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she does it right.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think oral is degrading for both genders

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it's degrading at all. It's my choice, anything done between me and my partner isn't degrading - even when role playing. I find oral sex particularly empowering, he's literally by the balls! I hold all the pleasure and can make him blow or hold back. I enjoy it

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