Are blowjobs degrading for women?

Within a relationship, is it degrading for women to give a "Blowjob" ?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Consider. You are sitting, he is kneeling at your feet, his lips and tongue pleasuring you intensely. Your thighs around his ears and your fingers in his hair are holding his head firmly in place and pulling me, er - him ever mote tightly to you.
    Do you feel that you are degrading him?
    Let's say you are lesbian and it's an eager woman between your thighs.
    Are you degrading her?
    There are no wrong answers to these questions, so turn it around. You are on your knees, his cock in hand, you are pleasuring the crown with lips, teeth and tongue. Degrading?
    You take him into your mouth working the crown, massaging it, pressing it against the roof of your mouth. Degrading?
    He tries to force you to deep-throat him. Degrading?
    That would be my line. That would be trying to degrade you. Otherwise not in my humble opinion, but your mileage may vary.

  • no. you want to please the guy. it's something pleasant. pleasant things incite apreciation. also depending on how strong the relstionship is, you should be able to talk open. so even if it was degrading, you could still be able to ask back the favour, so everything was equal anyway so it isn't one sided :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Heard a comedian talk about this, she said men sit around, drink beer and watch sports in their pjs, husband walks in and says "That's not very ladylike!" and she responds, "Well neither is a blowjob but I don't hear you complaining about that!" I think its interesting because its grade school and expected to be treated poorly when you first start being sexual.

    I held back from this for years because I was surrounded by fuckboys, I'm really happy I waited and was selective. The guys were like, no we totally respect you but because we were also friends, Id hear them say so much disgusting crap about other girls. I learned how from partners I knew really well and trusted. I never felt degraded on that side of the coin.

  • Not at all. It's empowering to know that by simple tongue strokes and slow sucking we can bring you to the edge of orgasm and then back. Such slow, sweet torture as you lay there waiting for us to allow you to cum. And when we do degradation is the farthest thing from our minds.

    • You like all that power you got with that mouth i see :P

  • How is giving your partner individual, selfless pleasure degrading?

    Is it degrading for him to kiss you neck? Put his mouth all over your tits? Touch and pleasure YOUR naughty places? No.

    So why would it be different if you put his weens in your mouth?

  • Why would they be? Licking pussy isn't degrading for guys.

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  • Blowjobs within a relationship (the only context in which you should be giving them in my opinion) are not degrading, they're great fun!

  • Not a bit. It might be a bit submissive but that's not remotely like degrading. Why do you ask?

  • I don't think it's degrading

  • I think blow job is the most pleasurable thing man could get and it's hard to explain from a man's perspective.
    But i think it's degrading only when it is forced upon her.
    It should be very much consensual.

  • Not in a healthy, loving and mutually respectful relationship