Are blowjobs degrading for women?

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Within a relationship, is it degrading for women to give a "Blowjob" ?

KeiranByrne · Accepted Answer

Consider. You are sitting, he is kneeling at your feet, his lips and tongue pleasuring you intensely. Your thighs around his ears and your fingers in his hair are holding his head firmly in place and pulling me, er - him ever mote tightly to you.
Do you feel that you are degrading him?
Let's say you are lesbian and it's an eager woman between your thighs.
Are you degrading her?
There are no wrong answers to these questions, so turn it around. You are on your knees, his cock in hand, you are pleasuring the crown with lips, teeth and tongue. Degrading?
You take him into your mouth working the crown, massaging it, pressing it against the roof of your mouth. Degrading?
He tries to force you to deep-throat him. Degrading?
That would be my line. That would be trying to degrade you. Otherwise not in my humble opinion, but your mileage may vary.

mjashin · Accepted Answer

no. you want to please the guy. it's something pleasant. pleasant things incite apreciation. also depending on how strong the relstionship is, you should be able to talk open. so even if it was degrading, you could still be able to ask back the favour, so everything was equal anyway so it isn't one sided :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Heard a comedian talk about this, she said men sit around, drink beer and watch sports in their pjs, husband walks in and says "That's not very ladylike!" and she responds, "Well neither is a blowjob but I don't hear you complaining about that!" I think its interesting because its grade school and expected to be treated poorly when you first start being sexual.

I held back from this for years because I was surrounded by fuckboys, I'm really happy I waited and was selective. The guys were like, no we totally respect you but because we were also friends, Id hear them say so much disgusting crap about other girls. I learned how from partners I knew really well and trusted. I never felt degraded on that side of the coin.

Naughtyme87 · Accepted Answer

Not at all. It's empowering to know that by simple tongue strokes and slow sucking we can bring you to the edge of orgasm and then back. Such slow, sweet torture as you lay there waiting for us to allow you to cum. And when we do degradation is the farthest thing from our minds.

RJGraveyTrain · Accepted Answer

How is giving your partner individual, selfless pleasure degrading?

Is it degrading for him to kiss you neck? Put his mouth all over your tits? Touch and pleasure YOUR naughty places? No.

So why would it be different if you put his weens in your mouth?

SovereignessofVamps · Accepted Answer

Why would they be? Licking pussy isn't degrading for guys.

tinyclit · Answer

Blowjobs within a relationship (the only context in which you should be giving them in my opinion) are not degrading, they're great fun!

AustinMan · Answer

Not a bit. It might be a bit submissive but that's not remotely like degrading. Why do you ask?

jennabbe · Answer

I don't think it's degrading

Just_another_Indian · Answer

I think blow job is the most pleasurable thing man could get and it's hard to explain from a man's perspective.
But i think it's degrading only when it is forced upon her.
It should be very much consensual.

Orph__ · Answer

Not in a healthy, loving and mutually respectful relationship

Katie1964 · Answer

I don't think so, I like to do that with hubby.

Jasmin0701 · Answer

I don't think that neither giving my boyfriend blowjobs is degrading, nor than it is degrading for my boyfriend to lick me.

popsickle · Answer

No... why would you think that?

fauchelevent · Answer

I certainly don't feel degraded whilst doing it so I would say no.

SarahsSummer · Answer

No. That's ridiculous

teawrecks · Answer

Tf no. They're empowering. If you think they're degrading you need to get your head checked.

SpurtLover · Answer

Not in my relationships. Giving me a blowjob is the most wonderful thing a woman can do for me. I think more highly of a woman who sucks my dick and eats my sperm. I hope you do it to your man.

Rissyanne · Answer

Of course not. You can give a blow job without finishing him off. It is called foreplay.

TadCurious · Answer

No, of course not. It's just another form of sexual intimacy.

Kaylyne · Answer

No absolutely not, whatever makes you think it could be?

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

No its not. I personally see nothing wrong with it. But ofc it's a personal choice, if you don't want to then don't do it. Whatever makes you comfortable.

lkjhg69cum · Answer

Hell no they aren't they are awesome! Is a man giving a woman oral degrading to a man? Again, Hell no, its awesome! Just shows who is all about pleasing their partner and who isn't.

Itsmeyay · Answer

Some sees it as sexual play and the favor would be returned, some sees it as dominance and submissive, in which case the it's an order, sometimes it's because the woman just likes the idea of having a dick in her mouth, my point is there are many takes on it. But in general I think it depends on your situation at that moment and your view about degrading. Good arguments can come from two sides. And both ways.

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

No more than a man giving a woman cunnilingus. My wife used to insist on giving me one every day when I got home from work because she loved doing it so much. And while they've always felt good I rarely cum from them, so they were much more for her pleasure than mine.

helva · Answer

Not for me. I do it when both like to do.

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