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Are cougars and milfs a good way for inexperienced guys to learn about sex?

We all know the benefits of teenage girls hooking up with older more experienced men and its not hard to find examples. But does the reverse hold true? Should virgins the the inexperienced seek out willing older women to guide them and iron out problems before they start approaching girls their own age? Ok they're not the best looking but when you buy your first car you buy one you don't mind crashing don't you? Another advantage is they tend to be looser so your not going to shoot your load in 5 seconds.
Are cougars and milfs a good way for inexperienced guys to learn about sex?
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  • When's the last time you've had a real nice randy fuck? Like with a guy that's able to last longer than 5 seconds. Have you ever been to the guy that's able to last longer than 5 seconds? Are the men in the UK not all that healthy? Are you not able to attract the type of men that have the healthy stamina to throw you up against the wall and fuck you for 30 minutes like you deserve? Do you have unrealistic expectations of how sex should be based on watching porn or reading the Bible too much? Whiskey tango foxtrot? If I could pray for you without being intellectually dishonest, I would. But I'll pretend pray for you. And I know that's not offensive to you so we're good like that. So go out and get yourself fucked. Don't stop until you're too sore to fuck anymore. And then fuck some more. Take before and after pictures as a benchmark for your own personal use. It probably wouldn't be a good idea to share those pics with the community here. We're not all that mature all the time. But definitely let us know. We want to know. We care. We want to know that you're getting fucked awesome. So I want to say that little pretend prayer and you go out and you get yourself some dick or even dicks. Go all out. Make us proud. Remember, we're praying on it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • @purplepoppy Your words, and the image you chose, struck me too as a bit sarcastic if not misandristic.

    There's a thin dividing line. I sometimes love being mothered and cared for by older women. A few of my exes were a few months older, a single mother, and much more mature than the younger women I've been involved with. With them, I felt "take care" of, and didn't feel the need as if I was "taking care" of some someone 24x7. They also had probably had earlier experiences, and valued me far more than the freshers. They did all it took to keep me going. This was a marked change from having to dance after women and their whims when they're younger (and believe they have a higher market value).

    Of course, it all depends on what the gap is. I'm not an age-ist, but will probably not fall for someone who is 20 years senior to me, as I might not find them sexually attractive. It is entirely possible that I find some other quality in them -- they are accomplished, or rich, or could provide me a lifestyle that I cannot afford myself. Just like many young women do (most?) when they go in for sugar daddies...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not a bad thing at all. Mature women can be more forgiving and better teachers due to experience, although not all may have had good experiences themselves.

    • I agree. The first woman I sex with a milf

    • I agree plus women are like a fine wine and don't hit their peak until around 40. Had a this one older lover when I was younger that to this day sparks fire in me

  • I would definitely agree. Guys get some practice and lessons because when you finally get to fuck me I want it to be incredible.

    • incredible is my middle name

    • lol that's quite an admission there

    • If they cannot give you incredible, move out of the way and let someone who can give you a taste of heaven do the job!

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  • Milfs are Mothers I'd Like to Fuck, so if you are already interested in them, they are not bad looking, but actually good looking. And cougars are successfully getting younger guys because they are usually good looking. So forget the idea that they are bad looking. And if you can hook up with them, you can probably learn a lot.

  • we wish, but sadly they are, just like the real cougars, very rare and difficult to find

  • Well, it may help guys build confidence, but only guys 18 and over should be having sex with older women. And it's not like banging an older woman or two will teach him how to talk to girls, take them out on dates, and carry on a relationship.

    by the way, the older women seek the young guys out, generally not the other way around, and they prefer younger guys who aren't virgins.

  • Absolutely. It's great sex. The women are grateful. The women are confident and kind. My ex was 7 years older than me. I lost my virginity to her. After her giving women orgasms was easy peasy. Now I have younger girls squirting.

  • Not the best looking? Depends on the woman.

  • I don't think it builds the kind of confidence that would translate tp the more attractive girls. I was pretty inept with women in my early teens, but i never pursued the old or the unattractive, I just "punched above my weight" until the girls I actually liked started liking me back. It only takes one hot girl to reciprocate those advances to build the confidence. "if i can get one hot girl, then logically i must be able to get another, and another..."

    Then again, some guys actually prefer older women. But generally speaking, going for women a guy is not attracted to is a recipe for shitty self esteem. He'd be better off staying a virgin until he can land a hotter girl in my opinion

  • my word your pictures sometimes make me truly laugh out loud... yes to your premise but no to the picture lol... when I was a virgin in high school, I had this tutor who would come to the house... she wasn't married but was in her mid-30's and hot asf... Oh how I wished it would have happened lol... I am sure I would have learned lots and been a better lover with the girl I ended up losing my virginity to :)

  • I always thought based on percentages they are the best bet by default

  • yes I wish one would help me out

  • Ew no.

    Unlike women, guys don't naturally fantasize about older partners. It doesn't work.

  • yeahh... it would be beneficial both ways too... we would learn it in deep every move that fucking chicks would love to get fucked with

  • well i hope you are being sarcastic.

    but just in case, " he benefits of teenage girls hooking up with older more experienced men" there are no benefits for teenage girls to hook up with anyone. It just teaches them to be cheap sl*ts.

  • Or to traumatize them. Lol

  • I've heard from my Army leadership that they're the most willing to fuck young guys. Supposedly many Soldiers stationed in Texas lost their Virginity that way according to them.

    • In my day, fat women and "Barracks Girls" were who guys (not me, by the way) lost their virginity with.

  • I think of doing that often, but I'd have to find that particular cougar or milf attractive enough.

  • I have had a lot of fun with cougars... if you want details pm me

  • Where the hell do you even find these women who are willing to go out of their way to teach young men to have sex? That's the real question!

  • It’s all good.

  • They can also be the best in making a guy cut his penis off for good

  • very bad way. Watching porn is better.

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