Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Are girls only supposed to give head?
Anonymous
My boyfriend thinks that girls are automatically supposed to give head but when it comes to females getting head the requirements can be bent meaning all the man really has to do is give the pipe usually or give her head occasionally. I don’t like this. Because he’s using the excuse that he isn’t good at giving head for why he doesn’t do it. He did it a couple times when we first got together, but now he doesn’t do it at all and maybe if we are in 69. I don’t want to feel like I can’t get any head from him willingly because he actually wants to and if he feels he isn’t good at doing it, I feel like he should ask me how I like it to be done to please me, since I give him extraordinary head. I want that extraordinary head. He says males usually do all the work anyway and that makes up for the head. Sex is too tough because let’s say he’s packs and it hurts my cervix when he goes too deep. It feels good but it hurts. I feel he doesn’t finger me way I like and let alone the fact that he has nails so it hurts a lot sometimes. How do I tell him this stuff without offending him. Like should I go on strike with him until he finally gives me head willingly?
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What Girls & Guys Said
4 32Just tell him how you feel and as long as it smells good, there shouldn't be a problem :)
Find a man that will make the same noises on your pussy like sipping the last few drops of a milkshake 👅
He's an idiot
He’s on his own. I gotta eat that pussy!
it is a two way process
have you both tried a 69
No and whoever thinks like this is stupid
There's no rules to it for one. Other than when you both want it, take it. He needs to get good and extraordinary or you need to find someone who is. Find that extraordinary head you need.
time to find a guy that wants to do it
He sure has a lot of excuses why he can't pleasure you. He's going to pout and be upset if you go on strike. If he's like this now it's only going to get worse over time, so you may want to cut your losses and cut him loose.
Yeah lots of guys think that, but if you tell him flat out what you want and be direct he will appreciate that because guys don’t always know or realize that
Easy fix don’t go down on him until he goes down on you. He seems selfish in bed find someone that enjoys giving you pleasure as much as receiving
But does him having sex with me make up for him giving me pleasure?
If that is what you want but I understood you want him to go down on you. I must be mistaken
He sounds like a selfish douche. You should find a more selfless lover.