Are guys certain when they cum inside you?

[Anonymous]

I ask because some guys can say they didn’t but actually do how accurate is to believe when they say they didn’t finish inside a person

[Bobsyoruncle]

Of course THEY’RE ‘certain’. You can’t mistake how it feels to ejaculate for anything short of a powerful drug, administered in just the right way.

Yes, it’s *possible* that a guy might hammer away at you for an hour, and NOT ejaculate.

There are any number of things, from the use of certain recreational drugs, to murky psychological issues to injury, fatigue and illness that can sideline a guy and leave him unable to ‘deliver the goods’ on that particular occasion.

And, theoretically at least, he might lie if he felt shamed by that. But in THAT case he’ll say that he DID pop when he DIDN’T.

I just can’t think of any other situation where a guy would say that he did when he really didn’t, unless maybe he’s a psycho who senses that you’re worried about it and he just wants to screw with your mind.

So, yeah, HE knows.

But YOU might not be certain at all.

Some guys are ‘dribblers’ you won’t feel it oozing out of them.

Other guys blast it out so hard it’d shoot 3 or 4 feet straight up in the air if they let it fly while laying on their back in bed.

And yes, you WILL feel *that*.

Some guys release one or two pathetic little squirts.

Some guys are like a fire hose, gushing and gushing and gushing.

It’s all part of a rich tapestry...

Now... Whether he tells you the truth or not depends on a number of factors. And you have to piece all that shit together at the time, on the scene.

I suppose you could buy some rape test kits... They’re going to be looking for specific chemical components found in semen and would be tough for a guy to beat.

[DaveJord]

There is a difference between starting and finishing... unless a guy stops short and you see that ejaculates from start to finish out side of you... then it is really hard to say.

There is really a very thin margin for error, when you take it up to the point of evacuation then pull out at the last minute. So no I would not trust the guy.

[AmandaYVR]

A guy knows when he came.
The thing is, intercourse happens before that, and there is sperm in precum, not just ejaculate.
5 minutes you said? Nah. For one thing, the guy knows if he came. Most non-teenagers take a bit more than 5 min, but that does vary depending on how worked up he is.
But can you get pregnant from what you did? Yes you can. Don't do it, don't mess around with this. Babies can happen this way. Our species, just like all, wants us to reproduce. Use your head, not your pleasure, to do the right thing. Always be protected.

[Asker]

Yeah the thing is we did it twice so the first time we did use a condom and then waited a little and did a second round except he was struggling the second time. When he would put the condom he would go soft. That happened twice so after laying we were making out and decided to go raw for five minutes and he got hard while doing that but we didn’t continue

[AmandaYVR]

Ah hah. Yes that is a very realistic scenario. I don't think you needed the Plan B, but I'm not a doctor. Just saying odds were extremely low since he'd already shot his shot once.

[Asker]

Yeah the plan B was to just re assure because I have no idea when going raw if he cummed. He says he was certain no but I was just panicking since It had been a while for me being sexually active.

[AmandaYVR]

Guys don't cum in that scenario. 5 min, he was soft, he just came, etc. Also, best not to sleep with guys you can't trust. If a guy says "I'm sure I didn't cum" then you should be able to believe him.

[Asker]

Yeah I know except I thought I could trust him

[Shygirl82]

It’s generally pretty noticeable when my husband cums inside of me, especially if I’m on top. It comes sliding back out.

[Asker]

Like a lot or just a little?

[Asker]

I ask because after I went to pee and there was some stuff but nothing too bad just a little

[Shygirl82]

I feel like it would be more than a shot glass. There have been a couple times were I pulled off of him after he came and drained the cream pie on his face, and it was very noticeable

[Asker]

Alright thank you for answering

[Boromir]

100% bollocks. Men know very well when they orgasm and where their dick was at that moment. It’s a false excuse.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah if you need to make a quick exit, you fake it and leave
Panda sex

[Enygma]

Yes for Most Cases. Cumming inside is a moment of achievement most guys take pride on so they would usually express it proudly.

[NetSapien]

A guy ALWAYS knows when he's getting there and needs to pull out, yes. Some guys won't pull out though.

[Albino010]

Ask to see the condom to be sure.

[Asker]

What if no condom was involved?

[Albino010]

Well, then the chances of him cumming inside of you increased by a lot. Did he told you he would pull out? You can try using a finger to see if there are cum inside of you or not.

[Asker]

The thing is we only did it for like five minutes. I didn’t want to risk it more then we already have so we stopped but I still worry

[Albino010]

Well, pre cum might have semen. Take a plan B or something similar if you are outside the US and buy a pregnancy test too in case your period don't come in the usual time.

[Asker]

I took a plan b the next day because I just wasn’t sure if he cummed inside me or not. He said no he was certain but 🥲

[Albino010]

Well, more than likely nothing happened but don't take your chances next time.

[Asker]

Trust me I won’t 😭especially since the guy I did it with Just up and left 💀now all the stress falls on me

[Albino010]

Woooow, that's really messed up. Hit me up if you want to talk about it.

[Asker]

Thanks it’s been a hard time this happened around the last week of October so November has been stressful for me can’t relax really

[Albino010]

Everything should be fine.

[Asker]

Thanks :/ I hope so

[Albino010]

Me too. Have a nice day and as i said, hit me up if you want to vent

[Asker]

I will! Thank you for talking with me

[AviatorTom]

Guys CAN fake an ejaculation inside you but it's not done very often. Not like you girls who can fake an orgasm anytime and anyplace and we guys have no clue of whether you really came or not.

[Dargil]

Without doubt.

[RealMarek]

They certainly know when they ejaculate.

[FunkyMonkee]

If you've got cum dripping out of you, he came in you! I SERIOUSLY DOUBT he wouldn't know about it!!

[Drumlin2001]

I think they would know if they had. Whether they lie to you is a different matter.

[FilmGuy93]

It's honestly pretty obvious when you cum. The feeling is really distinct.

[TheBMG]

Um, they know. There is no way they can’t know. If they climaxed then they cummed.

[Pixel343]

I did it with a girl who was so hot that I came before I could even think to hold back. It was crazyyyyy. She was very experienced and knew how to eff. Although about a week later she messaged me and told me to get tested because she had the clap. No pain No gain. ;)

[Ineverquit]

Oh yea.

[Wise4myage]

Well I know I am, lol.

[joeldalton]

I’m pretty certain where I cum.

[Wiredone]

I guy knows if he finishes or not. Is he honest all the time, that's the question. Women should be able to tell when they are creampied.

[TheBigGuy9]

I imagine our orgasms come on the same as you. You reach a certain point where you know in several seconds you are about to cum.

[dudeinohio]

Guys can always tell.

[IncognitoBandito]

A guy always knows when he has left his load inside a girl