Are guys happy with a topless handjob/blowjob as being enough for a one-time sexual encounter?

Or are guys always going to want more?

I’m finding that’s as comfortable with guys sexually as I’m gonna get for now. A blowjob if I’m really into them.

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Superb Opinion

  • If you are uncomfortable enough to not go full into something then why are you doing it? I'm actually curious, is it peer pressure? Genuinely curious because many women don't limit themselves to sexual activities like this, if they don't then they don't and if they do, they are normally willing to go all in and this form of hesitation triggered my curiosity to why you limited yourself with hand jobs and maybe blow jobs, seems like you believe that to respectable you gotta do these things and it's why you are forcing yourself to do them cause you don't sound like someone that is comfortable to even do handjobs

    • To be respectable*

    • Wow…. I like making out and getting handsy and giving a blowjob now and then. That’s as far as I’m sexually interested with guys. I don’t believe I’m limiting myself at all. Just wanting to know if that’s enough for some guys to enjoy.

    • Oh okay I understand now, I thought maybe peer pressure had you since you seemed like you were showing hesitation, it's why I was curious and asked, it's clear now tho 💯

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Most guys I know will take any kind of sex any way they can get it, within the confines of their own personal values, always hoping for more.

    That's no secret, so I'm not concerned about losing my man-card by committing such a pseudo-revelation.

    I will add the old saw, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

    I'm holding on tightly to my man-card after making that statement.

    Maintain your self-respect.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Although he will enjoy the hell out of all the pleasure you are easily willing to give him, as pretty as you look with the long blond hair he will certainly be doing everything in his power to get his mouth on your sweet pussy.

  • Sounds good to me. Guys will always want more of course but remember you’re the boss and so they only get what you want to give.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • if i'm giving a blowjob and i'm wearing a dress guys will always ask me to lower my top even if' it's a casual encounter.

  • No I'm not I feel really care about blowjobs I would rather naked all about her and get her off

  • That's enough!

  • If she has limits, then I don't push the boundaries. It's called having self control and respect for the person you are with.

    If I was really into the girl and a topless hj/bj is all she wants to do, then I could be satisfied with that.

  • I mean it depends on how long. Will that work for this week? Sure. Will it work for the next 10 years, no. So now it's just a matter of hammering out the details, and that's user specific.

  • if doubt about continuing then hand is enuf but with bra top for me. not topless unless plan to continue.

  • It will truly depend on the guy

  • Guys always want more, but are easy to please. A topless handjob would be fine. Most guys would settle for that.

  • Guys will want more eventually.
    If you go steady with the guy long enough I’m sure you’ll get comfortable with doing more before the handjobs aren’t enough.

  • I would be, because it can be more impromptu and less tense. Besides. They ain't nuthin' better than sucking on her nipple while she gives me a hand job.

  • It's a good start, better than a handjob, way better than nothing at all.
    Myself I would be fine with that if or until you are more comfortable and would want to have intercourse.
    Just so it wouldn't be one sided what could he do to reciprocate, you need happy endings too.

  • I would be happy with that... Especially if you and I don't really know each other that well.

  • I'd rather the hand than a blowjob and fine with taking awhile before they are comfortable with more. I'd be more disappointed if it was a one time thing than if it was a potential relationship also.

  • No need to go topless...

    Don't give hand jobs, they can be frustrating.

    Blow-jobs are the best, and if you looking up into his eyes, which sucking his Dick it's perfect!..

  • I would say yes most of the time but it also depends on how much he loves and respects you.

  • So are you comfortable getting only that yourself?

  • I would find that hot.

  • Go as far as you are comfortable - it’s your life, your body and your choice. Only be sure to let the guy know ahead of time what your boundaries are.

  • If I was into one-time flings then just that would be enough. Sex would really complicate it for being just a casual encounter

  • We will always eventually want more. Make peace with that or die alone.

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