It's the age-old belief that men are simply more obsessed with sex than women. Some say it's chemical and biological and it's supposed to be this way, while others say it's just another false stereotype. What do YOU say?
Hell yes they are.
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No, women are actually more obsessed with the subject.
If men are obsessed with sex than I must be a guy on the inside. ;-)
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CozybcuzXper 6
+1 y
Obsessed is the wrong word, we aren't as selective as women. Since we can spread our genes with out getting pregnant.
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SovereigntyXper 6
+1 y
Of course we do... sex drive is something I always bring up when things are getting serious and I'm consistently told it won't be a problem- but it always has been.
They say they have a high sex drive... and then within a year or two, you're a lucky man if you're getting it 3-5 times a week.
And the splurges of daily/multiples... what are those?
A woman who can match the longevity of the average mans libido is an anomaly. They do exist- or so I imagine. But they're not the normal.
Sex in a long-term relationship has always been frustrating for me. My sanity slowly dwindles as the frequency goes down and it's typically not long after that the relationship runs its course.
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jaxxtenXper 5
+1 y
I think, men are more open with the subject. Women talk about sex with their friends, but men talk about it with pretty much anyone. thats how i see things
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StyleClxrxXper 5
+1 y
Dont believe it 👅👅
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MesonfieldeMaster
+1 y
I think it varies from person to person, but women are often more reluctant because they are scared of getting pregnant ahead of time.
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GingerGuyMaster
+1 y
I wouldn't use the word "obsessed" lol but I do think men in general have a higher sex drive, not all, but probably most, especially once out of the teenage years and as they age, have children etc.
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ManOnFireEditor
+1 y
No, I don't think so. I think women just try to seem like they're above liking it or wanting it, because they perceive it as weakness for them as women.
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CHARismatic110Editor
+1 y
I don't think it's an obsession. And I don't think that one is more or less than the other. Men may be more vocal about it but I don't feel it makes them obsessed. Sex is sex.
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ManOnFire
+1 y
Now THAT we can agree on.
CHARismatic110
+1 y
@ManOnFire lol cool
ManOnFire
+1 y
@CHARismatic110 I think women just like writing guys off that way and trying to seem like they're above sex because they in some way perceive it as weakness as women.
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CHARismatic110
+1 y
@ManOnFire some of them, yes. But I really think that sex is overrated.
Jujulius
+1 y
@ManOnFire I agree with that 100% I'm all for equal rights. But it's definitely noticeably women are naturally submissive & women who view submission as a negative thing are less happy. I think feminist ideals go to far at times. It's possible to have equality with women still being submissive in relationships.
Jujulius
+1 y
Noticible* typed in phone sorry
abundantlyrichMaster
+1 y
Yes considering they still dominate the majority of users on the internet and in chatlines harassing other people esp girls. :P
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Mia101smirh294Xper 5
+1 y
I think it is probably about even
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BelleGirl21Guru
+1 y
Although there are very sexually driven women I'd say overall men generally do obsess over it more.
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JubJub_Hi
+1 y
Yes some girl very crazy about sex, more than many guy. In overall I think also men more obsess. 👏🏻👏🏻
BelleGirl21
+1 y
@JubJub_Hi thanks cutie
thatboyeXper 5
+1 y
Man I don't know to be honest. I still haven't met a woman that has a higher sex drive than me. Some have came close, but I always wanted it more.
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rjroy3Guru
+1 y
I think guys get switched on easier, but women are more sexual than men. A girl needs more in order to have sex, but once she's on she's fuckin ON.
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kittykatbratYoda
+1 y
Yes x 100000000000000. ie: I am a real rarity.
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oldanddecrepidYoda
+1 y
I do think men are more obsessed with sex, but I think it has a lot to do with us being more visual... I mean look at a woman's body, its beautiful and hard to resist!
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BigclitExplorer
+1 y
depends on the guy... cause i think i think about a lot of sex but who knows
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Ally4567Xper 3
+1 y
It's not a false stereotype. Its just really hard to imagine what it feels like to be guy because we are so chemically different. Men are always looking for sex.
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Bandit74Master
+1 y
I think it's a combination of two things
1. On average men do have higher sex drive 2. Most women can get sex whenever they want to satisfy whatever sex drive they happen to have.
I mean just think about this: -Men pay to see women do naked web cam shows, women get paid for showing their naked bodies. -Men pay for sex, women get paid for having sex
The reverse of those scenarios rarely happens.
Men usually welcome random nudes from women. Most women find random nudes from men to be disgusting.
So overall I do think men are more sex obsessed.
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JiingJjingi
+1 y
No, we can't. Not unless we're attractive. Having sex with any old hideous male won't satisfy our sex drive. Wtf? I find it so offensive and bigoted when men say stuff like this.
Bandit74
+1 y
@JiingJjingi I think any girl who is average or better can find an equally attractive guy willing to have casual sex with her. Also guys are often willing to have sex with less attractive girls if they dont have to work for it or make a commitment.
JiingJjingi
+1 y
Yes, but while beautiful girls are everywhere, there are more ugly women, as there are just more ugly people in general. Those ugly women aren't necessarily going to want to get with an ugly guy.
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Bandit74
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@JiingJjingi I don't know, I think most people are average and that there equal ammounts of really attractive and really ugly people. Also like I said guys become more desperate and are more willing to lower their standards to get easy sex. So I think an ugly girl has better odds of getting an average/ok looking guy to hook up with her while its unlikely that an ugly guy would get an average girl to hook up with him.
JiingJjingi
+1 y
Hmm, that may be true. I don't really live the whole one night stand life. But what I do know is there's plenty of beautiful women, so an attractive guy wouldn't ever end up so deprived to end up stooping.
Bandit74
+1 y
@JiingJjingi Its unlikely that a really attractive guy would hookup with an ugly girl but they do hookup with girls who are less attractive than he is. Yes there are lots of beautiful girls but not all of them want to hook up or if they do they make it harder. So a lot of attractive 9/10 guys might occasionally choose to get easy sex from a bunch of 6s or 7s over jumping through hoops to get laid with a 9.
JiingJjingi
+1 y
It might be subjective, but 7 is a high as you get when it comes to seeing male beauty in person. They're a rare breed, and can be found if you go traveling around central cities (that has a rich mix of tourists). Maybe you'll see 2-3 of them max if you're super lucky. Haha. 8+ are excessively rare, and are probably in the modelling business. Even girls that are an 8.5+ are rare (not as rare as the males, but still pretty scarce.)
Bandit74
+1 y
@JiingJjingi Oh I agree with you, except I'd maybe shift the numbers a bit but I agree that those at the top (9s and 10s) are incredibly rare. I understand nobody is perfect but I do think if we use a 1-10 scale someone has to be a 10. Anyways the point I was trying to make was just that regardless of how attractive a guy is, they are normally willing to sleep with girls a few levels lower than his if it means he doesn't have to wait or make a commitment.
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41 68If men are obsessed with sex than I must be a guy on the inside. ;-)
Obsessed is the wrong word, we aren't as selective as women. Since we can spread our genes with out getting pregnant.
Of course we do... sex drive is something I always bring up when things are getting serious and I'm consistently told it won't be a problem- but it always has been.
They say they have a high sex drive... and then within a year or two, you're a lucky man if you're getting it 3-5 times a week.
And the splurges of daily/multiples... what are those?
A woman who can match the longevity of the average mans libido is an anomaly. They do exist- or so I imagine. But they're not the normal.
Sex in a long-term relationship has always been frustrating for me. My sanity slowly dwindles as the frequency goes down and it's typically not long after that the relationship runs its course.
I think, men are more open with the subject. Women talk about sex with their friends, but men talk about it with pretty much anyone.
thats how i see things
Dont believe it 👅👅
I think it varies from person to person, but women are often more reluctant because they are scared of getting pregnant ahead of time.
I wouldn't use the word "obsessed" lol but I do think men in general have a higher sex drive, not all, but probably most, especially once out of the teenage years and as they age, have children etc.
No, I don't think so. I think women just try to seem like they're above liking it or wanting it, because they perceive it as weakness for them as women.
I don't think it's an obsession. And I don't think that one is more or less than the other. Men may be more vocal about it but I don't feel it makes them obsessed. Sex is sex.
Now THAT we can agree on.
@ManOnFire lol cool
@CHARismatic110 I think women just like writing guys off that way and trying to seem like they're above sex because they in some way perceive it as weakness as women.
@ManOnFire some of them, yes. But I really think that sex is overrated.
@ManOnFire I agree with that 100% I'm all for equal rights. But it's definitely noticeably women are naturally submissive & women who view submission as a negative thing are less happy. I think feminist ideals go to far at times. It's possible to have equality with women still being submissive in relationships.
Noticible* typed in phone sorry
Yes considering they still dominate the majority of users on the internet and in chatlines harassing other people esp girls. :P
I think it is probably about even
Although there are very sexually driven women I'd say overall men generally do obsess over it more.
Yes some girl very crazy about sex, more than many guy. In overall I think also men more obsess. 👏🏻👏🏻
@JubJub_Hi thanks cutie
Man I don't know to be honest. I still haven't met a woman that has a higher sex drive than me. Some have came close, but I always wanted it more.
I think guys get switched on easier, but women are more sexual than men. A girl needs more in order to have sex, but once she's on she's fuckin ON.
Yes x 100000000000000.
ie: I am a real rarity.
I do think men are more obsessed with sex, but I think it has a lot to do with us being more visual... I mean look at a woman's body, its beautiful and hard to resist!
depends on the guy... cause i think i think about a lot of sex but who knows
It's not a false stereotype. Its just really hard to imagine what it feels like to be guy because we are so chemically different. Men are always looking for sex.
I think it's a combination of two things
1. On average men do have higher sex drive
2. Most women can get sex whenever they want to satisfy whatever sex drive they happen to have.
I mean just think about this:
-Men pay to see women do naked web cam shows, women get paid for showing their naked bodies.
-Men pay for sex, women get paid for having sex
The reverse of those scenarios rarely happens.
Men usually welcome random nudes from women. Most women find random nudes from men to be disgusting.
So overall I do think men are more sex obsessed.
No, we can't. Not unless we're attractive. Having sex with any old hideous male won't satisfy our sex drive. Wtf? I find it so offensive and bigoted when men say stuff like this.
@JiingJjingi I think any girl who is average or better can find an equally attractive guy willing to have casual sex with her. Also guys are often willing to have sex with less attractive girls if they dont have to work for it or make a commitment.
Yes, but while beautiful girls are everywhere, there are more ugly women, as there are just more ugly people in general. Those ugly women aren't necessarily going to want to get with an ugly guy.
@JiingJjingi I don't know, I think most people are average and that there equal ammounts of really attractive and really ugly people. Also like I said guys become more desperate and are more willing to lower their standards to get easy sex. So I think an ugly girl has better odds of getting an average/ok looking guy to hook up with her while its unlikely that an ugly guy would get an average girl to hook up with him.
Hmm, that may be true. I don't really live the whole one night stand life. But what I do know is there's plenty of beautiful women, so an attractive guy wouldn't ever end up so deprived to end up stooping.
@JiingJjingi Its unlikely that a really attractive guy would hookup with an ugly girl but they do hookup with girls who are less attractive than he is. Yes there are lots of beautiful girls but not all of them want to hook up or if they do they make it harder. So a lot of attractive 9/10 guys might occasionally choose to get easy sex from a bunch of 6s or 7s over jumping through hoops to get laid with a 9.
It might be subjective, but 7 is a high as you get when it comes to seeing male beauty in person. They're a rare breed, and can be found if you go traveling around central cities (that has a rich mix of tourists). Maybe you'll see 2-3 of them max if you're super lucky. Haha. 8+ are excessively rare, and are probably in the modelling business. Even girls that are an 8.5+ are rare (not as rare as the males, but still pretty scarce.)
@JiingJjingi Oh I agree with you, except I'd maybe shift the numbers a bit but I agree that those at the top (9s and 10s) are incredibly rare. I understand nobody is perfect but I do think if we use a 1-10 scale someone has to be a 10. Anyways the point I was trying to make was just that regardless of how attractive a guy is, they are normally willing to sleep with girls a few levels lower than his if it means he doesn't have to wait or make a commitment.
I think we're simply better at hiding it