Are people who feel they are against BDSM practices quite vanilla in your opinion?

You can give your own examples from your dating history on how the above statement is or isn't accurate.

i personally think yup. they need to chill. traditional sex reminds me of fixed gender roles... which is a huge turn off (and kind of a deal breaker). lemme save you the trouble of asking "so you wouldn't date a man who's anti BDSM" i would say i wouldn't date a woman like that either. sexual compatibility is a huge thing, and i don't want either of us to be uncomfortable.
Are people who feel they are against BDSM practices quite vanilla in your opinion?
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  • definitely are

  • They are moral busy bodies that have lives so uninteresting they want to bring down everyone else with them.

  • What they are doesn't concern me because that requires me to care

  • Im not into it either lol and aren't you a virgin? That makes you vanilla

    • LoL if you're aroused by bdsm porno, then not so much no

  • I am not into BDSM, but mostly for the B, S, and M. If that is something you want to do have at it. If you are my wife and you want me to dominate you I can accommodate that; but the rest of it I will pass on.

  • Usually

  • Vanilla and uninformed, IMHO. We are very well aware of the BDSM world since many of our friend are in it and we have attended scenes and are fully inform on practices, rules and etiquette. A good friend of ours had a very well furnished dungeon.

  • It depends on what people perfer

  • it depends on who I'm with... but BDSM can be VERY exciting...

  • Absolutely. Bdsm is about trust & intimacy, not the over sexualized & intense version most think of with German dungeon porn

  • Yup!!!

  • I don't mind BDSM if its consensual but I hate that "Daddy" shit

    • Why?

    • Saying your lover 'Daddy' isn't weird?

    • Not much.

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  • No but girls who think sucking dick makes them a freak are

    • lols what