Are there really guys who pretend to be virgins?

I've heard some girls say they knew some guy who pretended that he was a virgin when he really wasn't, but I have never ever heard of this as a common occurance. Why would a guy pretend to be a virgin when male virginity is stigmatized? That doesn't make much sense.
Are there really guys who pretend to be virgins?
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I am utterly surprised by people saying they've actually known these guys. I've only heard about it once or twice, and even now I find it still hard to believe. Since male virginity is usually frowned on and joked about it, I cannot understand how a guy could even take a risk of pretending that for sympathy sex. I would imagine a woman he told that to would reject him before sleeping with him.
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  • Yes there are but some of us just really are.

  • God knows I'm a virgin and well this doesn't help me last thing I need is people accusing me of lying.

    • Same here

  • It definitely happens in South Asian countries

    • I don't think so... i am from a South Asian country and we are very clear what we say... its about honesty

    • Oh but the culture expects you to be virgin before marriage

    • Definitely but here discussion is all about premarital sex... bdw no one asks about virginity during marriage

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  • Think it's most common in girls to play the virgin. Get all the boys excited.

    • Yep, true.

  • I don't lie about it. 😎

  • Im sure there are guys who would pretend to be anything just to get into a girls panties.

    I am not one of those people, I am a true and honest virgin. I didn't do it on purpose or saving myself for marriage I just haven't met a girl I want to be serious with.

    • Possible MHO here.

    • Thanks (:

  • what the fucking hell

  • yeup

  • Does born again count?

  • Some players might try, But most guys would not.

  • I think it’s the same as when you pretend you’ve never drank before and everyone wants to take you out for your first beer.

  • Maybe he's trying to make a girl trust him. Maybe the girl is religious... 🤷🏻‍♂️ I wouldn't do it. What's the point? Tbh I don't really imagine that coming up in a conversation unless... Unless he was really bad in bed and it was an excuse?

  • Yhea... but there are some guys who are really virgins

  • I pretended to be a virgin when visiting prostitutes multiple times because they love a virgin boy.

    • Wow, really? Lol.

    • They always asked if it was my first time I said yes.

  • I only heard the opposite that virgin men lie about having experience.

    • Well, its a lot harder to fake something one does not know, than to fake not knowing something one does. So its a lot easier to notice its fake with one over the other.

    • @Shellyworld True, although I could understand why a virgin man would lie about having experience.

  • Girls dont like virgins, there is no upside for a guy to call himself a virgin.

    • Exactly. Which is why I don't even get it.

    • Lol that one girl acting like it isn't true. Women want an experience man who will take charge and fuck her, she's not there to mommy him.

  • Yeah a few times

  • No..

  • Pretty sure many people pretend many things, including Pro Vaccine or Anti Vaccines and theist or 'atheist'.

  • Never
    But I've heard just the opposite a few times.

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