Are there really guys who pretend to be virgins?
I've heard some girls say they knew some guy who pretended that he was a virgin when he really wasn't, but I have never ever heard of this as a common occurance. Why would a guy pretend to be a virgin when male virginity is stigmatized? That doesn't make much sense.
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I am utterly surprised by people saying they've actually known these guys. I've only heard about it once or twice, and even now I find it still hard to believe. Since male virginity is usually frowned on and joked about it, I cannot understand how a guy could even take a risk of pretending that for sympathy sex. I would imagine a woman he told that to would reject him before sleeping with him.
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 67Yes there are but some of us just really are.
God knows I'm a virgin and well this doesn't help me last thing I need is people accusing me of lying.
Same here
It definitely happens in South Asian countries
I don't think so... i am from a South Asian country and we are very clear what we say... its about honesty
Oh but the culture expects you to be virgin before marriage
Definitely but here discussion is all about premarital sex... bdw no one asks about virginity during marriage
Really I hope so they don't? 🤣
Nowadays girls are loosing virginity very fast even in India but at the same time they do not hide it if you question them
I don't think you can answer that for the mass of 1.32 billion people. And I've commented on the basis of culture expectation. Don't take things personally mate.
No dear... i am not taking it personally... i am from India and i have research on this topic... that's why I commented
Good for you! 👌👍
Where are you from?
Think it's most common in girls to play the virgin. Get all the boys excited.
Yep, true.
I don't lie about it. 😎
Im sure there are guys who would pretend to be anything just to get into a girls panties.
I am not one of those people, I am a true and honest virgin. I didn't do it on purpose or saving myself for marriage I just haven't met a girl I want to be serious with.
Possible MHO here.
Thanks (:
what the fucking hell
yeup
Does born again count?
Some players might try, But most guys would not.
I think it’s the same as when you pretend you’ve never drank before and everyone wants to take you out for your first beer.
Maybe he's trying to make a girl trust him. Maybe the girl is religious... 🤷🏻♂️ I wouldn't do it. What's the point? Tbh I don't really imagine that coming up in a conversation unless... Unless he was really bad in bed and it was an excuse?
Yhea... but there are some guys who are really virgins
I pretended to be a virgin when visiting prostitutes multiple times because they love a virgin boy.
Wow, really? Lol.
They always asked if it was my first time I said yes.
I only heard the opposite that virgin men lie about having experience.
Well, its a lot harder to fake something one does not know, than to fake not knowing something one does. So its a lot easier to notice its fake with one over the other.
@Shellyworld True, although I could understand why a virgin man would lie about having experience.
Girls dont like virgins, there is no upside for a guy to call himself a virgin.
Exactly. Which is why I don't even get it.
Lol that one girl acting like it isn't true. Women want an experience man who will take charge and fuck her, she's not there to mommy him.
Yeah a few times
No..
Pretty sure many people pretend many things, including Pro Vaccine or Anti Vaccines and theist or 'atheist'.
Never
But I've heard just the opposite a few times.